What does the Bible say about connection in parenting? How do we work that out practically in everyday family life? Theology is super important, but it doesn’t always tell you how long your kids should play a video game or how to specifically respond when your child asks tough questions. That’s where the research can be helpful!
Today’s episode is Part 2 of a discussion about what makes the Connected Families parenting approach so unique--the integration of science and Scripture! Jim and Lynne Jackson (co-founders of Connected Families) join Stacy Bellward (podcast host) to continue the conversation about the Connected Families Framework, and how current research can bring clarity in how we implement this biblical framework.
Research shows that your kids are hardwired to connect, and when you come alongside them to encourage, comfort, and connect, you set them up to feel capable of making wise choices. When you understand what is happening in their hearts and their brains, you can respond with empathy and gain long-term influence in your child’s life.
In this podcast, you’ll hear about:-
How scientific research is integrated in the last two steps of the Framework (You are called and capable and You are responsible for your actions)
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The importance of listening to your kids without judgment in order to communicate empathy instead of anxiety
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The power of calm, light-hearted questions to grow wisdom and responsibility in your child
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A more effective way to praise your child (that doesn’t lead to people-pleasing)!
We have a ton of great resources below to help you in your parenting journey! We hope these resources can be a helpful avenue of guidance and support for your family. Please contact us with any questions, we are here to help!
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Hardwired to Connect (2003 Research Report) or check out this link for a summary of the report
Carol Dweck- A Study on Praise and Mindsets (video)
Scripture references: Ephesians 2:10, 1 Thessalonians 2:7,8, Psalm 139, Proverbs 29:5, Philippians 1:6, 1 Corinthians 6:12, Colossians 3:12
Build Kids Up with Nourishing Affirmation in 30 Seconds (The “ABC’s of Affirmation”)
The Power of Questions: Less Arguing. More Wisdom. (online course)
FREE Resources: 4 Messages Every Kid Longs to Hear (ebook) and Perspectives on Spanking (ebook)
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