Kayla Lords hosts this week’s episode and discusses the common signs and red flags of a bad Dominant, when it’s abuse and not D/s, and what you can do if you find yourself in a bad D/s relationship. In this episode: Kayla’s back in good health and ready to rant. This week is based on a question she answered for Submissive Guide where every line was a red flag of a bad Dominant. This week’s episode is based off a popular post written in 2015 along the same lines. Not trying to bash all Dominants and a similar episode about red flags and submissives is coming soon. This list geared towards male Dominants but if bad female Dominants have their own red flags or do any of these things, Kayla wants to know. What are those red flags? Demanding a title not earned. Introducing himself with a dick pic or orders to be obeyed. Sending unsolicited instructions. Ignoring hard limits. Ignoring safewords. Lying. Thinking only of his own pleasure, never yours. Making you feel bad about yourself. Isolating you from friends and family. Telling you you’re not a real submissive because you have your own opinions, don’t agree, etc. Requiring that you research and learn how to be a “true” submissive on your own. Some red flags are clear signs of abuse and even rape. Ignore the idiots online, report online harassment, and unfriend and block anyone you don’t want to deal with. In person, get out of a bad relationship. Get help if you need it (links to domestic violence information in the reference link section). It’s better to be alone than in a bad relationship – regardless of flavor. Links from the show: Are Dominants Supposed to Act This Way – Submissive Guide Top 10 Signs He’s an Asshole, Not a Dominant Porn Star Stoya Accuses Her Ex-Boyfriend James Dean of Rape – Jezebel National Domestic Violence Hotline (U.S) National Domestic Violence Hotline (UK) Sub Frenzy – Submissive Guide Follow Kayla on Twitter Stalk John Brownstone Contact Kayla Follow the show: Subscribe by RSS Listen on iTunes (and leave a review if you love what you hear!) Listen on Stitcher Or find us here: Two Thumbs Up Media Podcast Directory Pod Directory Full Transcript: You’re listening to Loving BDSM podcast: episode 24. Hey, everybody. Kayla Lords here. Today let’s discuss the red flag
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