Kayla Lords hosts episode 47, and it focuses on a lot of emails and messages that have come through about what’s okay and what’s not in a D/s relationship. In this episode: No John Brownstone for another week – but it’s his last week on the crazy summer schedule at work, so he’ll be back soon. A lot of emails have come through from both Doms and subs with questions about their relationships. Even if you don’t want to admit it to yourself, you know when a relationship has gone bad. It requires both of you working together to figure out a way forward. Here are some signs of a bad D/s relationship – and yes, some will look like “red flags” that we’ve discussed before. Unwilling to communicate Changing the rules with no warning Punishing without explaining Saying things like “I’m the Dom, I can do what I want” with no negotiation or consent Doubts about opening up your relationship but feeling like you have no choice Emotional manipulation which isn’t the same as a mindfuck Lying Wanting two incompatible things and not willing or able to find a middle ground It’s better to be alone than in a bad relationship. If you can’t make it work, have the strength to walk away. Yes, submissives can end a relationship. Links from the show: Ask Anything on Submissive Guide Support the podcast on Patreon Get a free book – Madame Gretchen on Smashwords (July 2016 only!) Follow Kayla on Twitter Stalk John Brownstone Contact Kayla Lords Contact John Brownstone Follow the show: Subscribe by RSS Listen on iTunes (and leave a review if you love what you hear!) Listen on Stitcher Or find us here: Two Thumbs Up Media Podcast Directory Pod Directory
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