Why Submissives are a Reflection of Their Dominant LB050

John Brownstone joins Kayla Lords in episode 50 to discuss a popular idea in most local kink communities - a submissive's behavior is a reflection of their Dominant. In this episode: The Loving BDSM One Year Giveaway is next week! Prizes will be from My Nawashi, Twisted Skrewz, Cane-iac, and both of us. The idea of submissives being a reflection of their Dominant didn't sit well with me when I first heard it but after a little time spent in my local community, I understand it and agree with it. Bad behavior from a submissive is thought to be a lack of control or discipline by a Dominant. Certain behavior that's okay in private isn't always okay in public - even when you're with other kinksters. When in doubt, be respectful and ask what the protocol is, if you're unsure how to behave. When a submissive is well-behaved, both of you earn respect in your local lifestyle. Respect is important for building trust with other kinksters and being known (in a good way) within your local community. As a submissive, I want to behave in public for two reasons: 1) I don't want to get in trouble and 2) I don't want anyone to think less of John Brownstone for my actions. Links from the show: Training a Submissive in a D/s Relationship (podcast episode) My Nawashi Twisted Skrewz Cane-iac.com Follow Kayla on Twitter Stalk John Brownstone Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact Kayla Lords Contact John Brownstone Follow the show: Subscribe by RSS Listen on iTunes (and leave a review if you love what you hear!) Listen on Stitcher Or find us here: Two Thumbs Up Media Podcast Directory Pod Directory