Understanding Boundaries and Limits LB062

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss boundaries and limits in episode 62 of the Loving BDSM podcast. In this episode: Save 10% on the HUM vibe with coupon code: kaylalords What are limits and boundaries? Is there a difference? Hard limit vs. soft limit. Hard limits can be anything. Twitter friend mentioned tickling as a limit for her. Whatever it is, must be respected. Soft limits often come from a place of lack of knowledge Use checklist to learn your limits and discover what you both like (or don’t like) Talk about what you think your limits are in the beginning of a relationship but update as you go along. As you get used to your partner or learn more about what you like and don’t like, your limits change. When trying something new, start slowly. Exercise patience. How you handle a new experience will color your feelings about that boundary or limit forever. Take it slow. Communicate, communicate, communicate. Every aspect of BDSM has a boundary or a limit for you, even if you haven’t discovered it yet. Links from the Show: MeetHum.com Use coupon code "kaylalords" and save 10%! I Wanted Him to Watch (review for the Hum) Using Checklist to Figure Out Your Kinky Limits Checklist on A Submissive Guide Checklist on Latches Checklist from Affordable Leather (Posted with his permission. Original can be found here.) Follow Kayla on Twitter Stalk John Brownstone Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact Kayla Lords Contact John Brownstone Follow the show: Subscribe by RSS Listen on iTunes (and leave a review if you love what you hear!) Podcast Addict (free app for Android!) Listen on Stitcher Or find us here: