Low Energy and Lack of Motivation in Your D/s Relationship LB070

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone talk about feeling low energy and no motivation and how it can impact their D/s relationship in episode 70 of Loving BDSM podcast. In this episode: John Brownstone’s having a sale on his (very vanilla) Etsy shop! We haven’t been motivated to do anything this week (the first week of the year and back from vacation) – not even much kinky fuckery. Lack of motivation is normal. Go too long not feeling like doing your normal routine – especially the D/s – and you’ll start to really notice it. Sometimes submissives really don’t want to do a task. We usually do it, but it helps to feel motivated and excited. Strong rules and discipline can help. Knowing there are consequences usually keeps me going. Even Dominants can not want to do their normal thing like make decisions or deal with problems. Talk about it when it happens. Find ways to recharge and do things that help you relax. We got postcards! Our mailing address (for the postcard project) is PO Box 391, Crystal Beach, Florida, 34681 Links from the show: The Wood Dom on Etsy – Use code HAPPYNEWYEAR thru 1/21/17 to save 25% 3 Ways to Motivate Yourself in Your D/s Relationship The Dildorks Postcard Shout-outs: @SapphiresonFire and The Life of Elliott Building a Community Through Postcards Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact Kayla Lords Contact John Brownstone