Emotional Impact of D/s and Kink

Episode 80 started with a question on Twitter: If you could go back in time, what would you tell your younger self about kink? That started a discussion between us about the emotional impact of figuring out you’re kinky and that you want D/s in some form. You might be surprised but we each had very different reactions – and you might have too. In this episode: * How you feel when you discover you’re kinky: * Excited * Terrified * Am I going to hell? * You may have to deal with rejection from your partner. * Were you ready to do ALL the things? * Did you get freaked out? * You might question your sanity * You might question your entire childhood – am I damaged? * As a female submissive, I wondered whether I could truly call myself feminist * As a parent of boys, I worried about how this could impact them. Links from the Show: How Discovering Kink Made Me Feel Dealing With and Understanding Subfrenzy (episode 67) 30 Days of D/s Postcard shout-outs: Pixie Heart Postcard Project Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact us! Listen to the show: iTunes Google Play Your favorite podcast app!