When Your Kink Identity is Discovered LB082

After hyping it up too much and driving at least a few listeners crazy, here’s episode 82 of Loving BDSM. The one where we reveal what the hell happened – but the title probably says it all. *And at one point I tried to do math and said “26 years” and I meant “36 years.” Ugh, math.* In this episode: * John Brownstone’s identity was found out. * We tried to remain calm. * We understood the real, vanilla consequences of it. * We refused to live under a potential threat we’d never see coming. * We reached out to other kinksters who had gone through something similar. * I outed myself to my mom and will to the rest of my family because he shouldn’t be the only one who’s out. * It’s freeing but scary. * Life will be different * Being “out” as a kinkster isn’t for everyone. There are real and inherent consequences for it. I am sometimes still concerned about my own situation. Links from the Show: Molly’s Daily Kiss Loving BDSM Community Registration Postcard Project Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact us! Listen to the show: iTunes Google Play Your favorite podcast app!