Long Distance D/s Relationships Part 1: In the Beginning LB083

We thought episode 83 would be a discussion about how to handle long distance D/s relationships, but when we realized we spent nearly an hour on communication and figuring out if someone is a good fit for you, it became a two-part episode. We can’t promise we won’t need a third part, though. In this episode: * Sign up for 30 Days of D/s! * This episode was inspired by a great discussion on the forum about long distance relationships. * The first step is to decide if this person is a good fit for you. * Develop “trust issues” if you don’t have them already to be more skeptical.  * Earn the other person’s trust. * Slow down and take your time. * Get to know each other as people and friends. Focus a little less on the kink. * Transition into the D/s after you’ve gotten to know each other. * Become friends first * The first person you meet might not be the one who’s good for you. Links from the Show: Building and Maintaining Trust in a D/s Relationship (episode 31) Effective Communication in Your D/s Relationship (episode 40) 30 Days of D/s Postcard shout-outs to: Doctor J (check out her website!) and Professor Sex (follow her on Twitter or Instagram!) Postcard Project Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact us! Listen to the show: iTunes Google Play Your favorite podcast app!