Setting a Kinky Scene LB085

This week, we’re answering a listener question with more details than they actually asked for. The original question was about how to set up a scene. In our opinion, a scene is whatever you make it, so it doesn’t have to be elaborate or high protocol. For us, we call most of our scenes “playtime.” In this episode: * Our sponsor this week is Ecstatic Relaxation with Vin Charles. He’s got a special offer just for Loving BDSM listeners! * Kinky Book Club is a real live thing! * Is there a difference between a scene and “playtime?” * Scenes can be rigid, filled with protocol, and elaborate…or not. * Playtime, for us, is whatever we do that’s kinky – with or without sex. * Some scenes are roleplay. * Mind fucks can be a scene. * Scenes or playtime all require communication and negotiation. * Knowing your partner’s limits before you plan the scene is important. * Talking about the details doesn’t take away the hotness. * Scenes can be as basic or as detailed as you want. * It’s important to go with the flow. Not all scenes will go as you imagined. * Be flexible, communicate, use safewords, and watch your partner. Links from the Show: Show sponsor: Ecstatic Relaxation <===Click for a special offer! Kinky Book Club 4 Different Types of Kinky Scenes Buy us a virtual coffee Postcard Project Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact us! Listen to the show: iTunes Google Play Your favorite podcast app!