Topping from the Bottom LB090 - Loving BDSM

We didn’t know a lot of people had feelings about this topic until we mentioned in on the blog and on Twitter. Episode 90 focuses on topping from the bottom – what it is, what it isn’t, and what to do about it. In this episode: * Kayla’s books on Smashwords are half off with coupon code SSW50 through the end of July What is topping from the bottom? What it isn’t How people feel about the concept Before you diagnose topping from the bottom think about why it might be happening Lack of trust or fear could be the cause Some people want power taken away from them, and it can appear to be topping from the bottom If a Dominant feels out of control, the sub may be topping from the bottom What to do about it? The answer is always to communicate. Only at that point can you decide what the next step is. Brats, smartass masochists, and sass – is any of this topping from the bottom? Not necessarily. Links from the show: Buy Kayla’s Books on Smashwords – use code SSW50 thru 7/31/17 6 Things that Aren’t Topping from the Bottom Kinky Book Club Support the show Postcard Project Kayla Lords on Fetlife John Brownstone on Fetlife Contact us! Listen to the show: iTunes Google Play Your favorite podcast app!