All Things Marriage with Dr. Chavonne

There's a big difference between knowing what to do, actually doing it, and reaching a place where it becomes your natural way of being. In this episode, we're exploring these three stages of personal growth and why understanding something intellectually doesn't always translate into lasting change. Inside this episode, you'll learn:Why knowing what to do doesn't necessarily mean you know how to do it What keeps you falling back into old patterns, even when you're genuinely trying to change

There's a big difference between knowing what to do, actually doing it, and reaching a place where it becomes your natural way of being. In this episode, we're exploring these three stages of personal growth and why understanding something intellectually doesn't always translate into lasting change. Inside this episode, you'll learn:Why knowing what to do doesn't necessarily mean you know how to do it What keeps you falling back into old patterns, even when you're genuinely trying to change

When there's a problem in your marriage, it's natural to want to address the problem. Have the conversation. Tell your spouse how you feel. Ask them to do something differently. Set the boundary. But before you do any of those things, you have to start somewhere else FIRST. With you. In this episode, I'm sharing why I teach self-awareness, personal responsibility, and self-leadership before we begin trying to solve the issues happening between you and your spouse. Because what you do nex

When you're struggling in your marriage, "focus on yourself" can feel like incredibly frustrating advice. Especially when you can clearly see the things your spouse is doing that are contributing to the problem. Why should you be the one doing more work? In this episode, we're talking about why focusing on yourself can be so difficult—and why learning how to do it may be one of the most empowering things you ever do for yourself and your marriage. Inside this episode, you'll learn:Why it's s

What happens inside of you when your marriage isn't going the way you want it to? Maybe your relationship doesn't feel as secure as you'd like it to. Maybe your spouse isn't meeting your expectations or showing up in the ways you believe you need. Or maybe you're looking at yourself and feeling like you're the one falling short—struggling to communicate better, manage your emotions, or create the changes you've been trying so hard to make. It's easy for fear to take over in these moments. An

The questions you ask about your marriage matter. Because some questions can keep you focused on your spouse, searching for explanations, and feeling increasingly frustrated by things you can't control. Other questions can lead you toward greater understanding, clarity, and a much more empowered way of navigating your marriage. And sometimes, the difference between staying stuck and finding a way forward starts with simply asking a better question. In this episode, I'm taking 10 of the most