SWM 053 – Responsive desire and duty sex, setbacks during foreplay, and the long-term effects of vibrators

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December 2019 and January 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:

• Gang bang fantasies
• How to make sex not feel like an obligation
• How to get past setbacks during foreplay
• How to deal with a wife who needs to feel "dirty" to orgasm
• A warning about the book "Boundaries"
• Do vibrators have negative long term effects

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Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:

• Is it still adultery if you have permission?
• Introduction to talking dirty
• Boundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John Townsend
• Keep your love on - Danny Silk
• Simultaneous Orgasm survey results

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