Zen Talk #132- Teenagers: Sibling Tension, Appropriate Clothing, & Body Image Issues
Hi everybody,
- Next Zen Talk #133 is scheduled for Thursday, December 9th @ 11:00 AM Central.
- Click here to catch the video of Zen Talk #132, or listen on the podcast app from your phone.
- Got into any arguments lately? Or perhaps not because you’re too busy avoiding them? Bring your partner as this event is OPEN TO ALL GENDERS. Jayson Gaddis Author of Getting to Zero (How to Work Through Conflict in Your High-Stakes Relationships) will be lead a discussion on how to listen during and after conflict. We invite you to check out the Zen Parenting Radio Podcast Getting To Zero- An Interview With Jayson Gaddis- Podcast #621 as we will assume all attendees will have a basic understanding of Jayson’s Getting To Zero concept in order to jump in with specific tools that all attendees will be able to take with them as a result of the event.
Keep on truckin’!
Todd+Cathy
Discussion & Time Stamps
- 0:00 Centering & random banter
- 13:46 16 year old daughter unhappy with the way I parent her sibling
- 21:04 15 year old daughter wearing clothes that I’m uncomfortable with
- 44:35 13 year old son managing body image
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12:02:55 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : 1
12:03:00 From Mary McDonough (she/her) : 3
12:03:01 From Maryann Harnica : 1
12:03:03 From GriffinFamily : 7 but getting better
12:03:13 From Holly Rudnick : 2
12:03:15 From Cathy Adams : 3
12:03:32 From Peggy Jividen : 2
12:04:36 From Maryann Harnica : I’m at my parents house and my internet connection is unstable. So I am leaving my camera off. And I have to jump at the bottom of the hour for a client call.
12:05:21 From Sally O’Neill (she, her) : 3
12:05:29 From GriffinFamily : I have a question but if maryann wants to go?
12:05:51 From Maryann Harnica : I don’t have a questions
12:05:56 From Maryann Harnica : Thanks for asking
12:06:23 From Sally O’Neill (she, her) : side note ..wondering if the men’s living event on conflict next mo is open to general non members?
12:06:48 From Todd Adams : yes, open to all 🙂
12:06:58 From Todd Adams : https://menliving.org/blog/events/menliving-presents-getting-to-zero-how-to-listen-during-and-after-conflict-with-author-jayson-gaddis/
12:08:46 From Todd Adams : who wants to go after karni?
12:09:25 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : Karni, we sometimes have this same thing happen with our teenage daughter pointing out an “unfair” situation with how we treat her 9-year-old twin brothers vs how we treat her. Totally feel you.
12:11:24 From Mary McDonough (she/her) : I have a non-urgent question. 🙂
12:12:21 From Karen to Todd Adams(Direct Message) : Hi thanks for the response. Sorry for the mix up in the time. Did I miss the big announcement?
12:12:56 From Todd Adams to Karen(Direct Message) : nope, not yet. glad you’re here:)
12:13:00 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : I do try to make her my ALLY in all of this, because she is more mature than my sons, and because she has likely experienced what they are experiencing. I try to give her the op to be my ally.
12:13:16 From Karen to Todd Adams(Direct Message) : 👍
12:19:37 From GriffinFamily : i’m so excited, I haven’t been able to go to a conference!
12:19:41 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : Yay!! So excited!
12:20:40 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : When will the summit be? AFTER your book comes out?
12:21:22 From Maryann Harnica : Yay! Looking forward to it
12:22:17 From GriffinFamily : That
12:22:21 From GriffinFamily : that’s awesome
12:23:27 From Todd Adams : Who wants to go after Mary?
12:27:55 From Maryann Harnica : Thanks everyone. Happy Thanksgiving
12:31:20 From GriffinFamily : I love what Cathy said a while back that whatever body part is exposed just know that naturally the eye will be drawn to that
12:42:37 From Todd Adams : Who wants to go after Mary?
12:43:06 From Sally O’Neill (she, her) : sorry gotta run to pick up kiddo…thanks!!!
12:43:48 From Sally O’Neill (she, her) : excited about conference..really enjoyed the topics today. very helpful
12:44:21 From GriffinFamily : I could piggy back on this question
12:44:40 From GriffinFamily : if no-one else has a question
12:51:10 From GriffinFamily : We are good about not making the kids eat just bc it’s dinner time, but we like them to sit w/ us for family time bc it doesn’t happen often
12:56:37 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : Ellen satter
12:56:50 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : Whoops. Meant to type that into my internet browser.
12:57:14 From GriffinFamily : Thanks Todd
12:57:38 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : That’s helpful, Todd. I want to print that out too.
13:00:02 From Todd Adams : https://www.ellynsatterinstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/What-is-normal-eating-Secure.pdf
13:01:41 From GriffinFamily : thank you
13:02:08 From Karen : I just want to say thanks to everyone for being here today.
13:03:16 From GriffinFamily : Thanks guys
13:03:22 From GriffinFamily : happy turkey day