May 9, 2022

Zen Talk #143- Mood meters, porn, and consequences

Zen Talk #143- Mood meters, porn, and consequences
Zen Talk #143- Mood meters, porn, and consequences
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Zen Talk #143- Mood meters, porn, and consequences

Hi everybody,

  1. Thursday, June 9th @ 7:30 PM ZPR & MenLiving presents a tri-faith panel titled A MUSLIM, A JEW, AND A CHRISTIAN WALK INTO A ZOOM ROOM We have invited three people of different religions to educate and inform the differences as well as the similarities b/w their respective faiths. It would be a wonderful opportunity for your kids to observe as well. I hope you plan to join us. RSVP here
  2. To see some links discussed in this Zen talk, please scroll down to the “Resources” Section Below, To see the entire “Chat” section, it’s located at the bottom.
  3. You can quickly look up topics on previous Zen Talks by watching this short video.
  4. Cathy and I answered a Team Member’s questions on shifting the dynamics of teenage sons. You can see the recorded video here. We also put it in the Zen Talk Podcast feed on your podcast app on your phone.
  5. Click here to catch the video of Zen Talk #143, or listen on the podcast app from your phone.

Keep on truckin’!

Todd+Cathy

Discussion & Time Stamps

  • 1:54 Centering
  • 5:30 Mood meter
  • 13:00 11 year old son is watching porn
  • 38:00 consequences

Resources

You can quickly look up topics on previous Zen Talks by watching this short video.

Feel your feelings through music

The 3rd Talk

Overcoming A Porn Addiction: Noah Church @ The Mystery Box Show

Zen Talk Searchable Directory

Join Zen Parenting Moments Mailing List

MenLiving

Todd Adams Coaching For Guys

Chat

12:02:24 From Sally O’Neill (she/her) : Hi! I’ll have to leave in 30min so sorry in advance😊 thanks for being here
12:04:35 From Cara Hohenstein (she/her) : When it’s time, I have something to ask the group about.
12:05:26 From Lea Griffin : I’ve got one too if time
12:07:13 From Cathy : peeved and pleasant
12:07:23 From Sally O’Neill (she/her) : Calm
12:07:26 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : Calm
12:07:31 From Holly Rudnick : I am also peeved and pleasant
12:07:32 From Todd Adams : pleased
12:07:37 From Julie to Todd Adams(Direct Message) : Motivated
12:07:40 From Daryn : at ease
12:07:40 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : Can I add something to this Mood Meter that I discovered this morning?
12:07:46 From Cara Hohenstein (she/her) : I’m uneasy, yet calm about it.
12:07:47 From Todd Adams : pleased
12:08:00 From Nicki : Lonely
12:08:18 From Sally O’Neill (she/her) : Can you put this chart link in the chat?
12:08:22 From Julie : Motivated (just figured out how to message everyone vs dm)
12:09:56 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : https://www.thementalhealthcoalition.org/feel-your-feelings/?fbclid=IwAR1zsvxGUrHqa8v0ncIRfA2hyto-wRN4Z-2IJsoNnmVEsS-716awRvveEwk
12:10:17 From Sally O’Neill (she/her) : Thanks
12:10:34 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : This was created by The Mental Health Coalition.
12:13:22 From Karni : peeved and pleasant
12:19:55 From Sally O’Neill (she/her) : I have some feedback if interested
12:21:14 From Sally O’Neill (she/her) : http://www.thethirdtalk.org/
12:23:05 From Sally O’Neill (she/her) : https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HUaTMvemiRM
12:23:24 From Karni : I love that Cathy. My 14 yr old son has done the same in the past and I’m actually looking for what language to use when we are leaving, when he would search these sites, to kind of remind him like remeber bud keep it clean?? Like quick reminder language we can use when he might be tempted to search.
12:31:38 From Sally O’Neill (she/her) : Thanks for being brave Cara!!
12:36:01 From Todd Adams to Karni(Direct Message) : you ready with your Q?
12:36:12 From Karni to Todd Adams(Direct Message) : yes
12:47:50 From Cara Hohenstein (she/her) : Sally – Thank you so much for those links.
12:51:14 From Todd Adams : anybody have anything quick before we sign off?
12:51:49 From Karni : I have a quick one about porn if noone else has anything
12:53:37 From Nicki : I need to say this I hope this lands with love – I think it is important not to link the quality of parenting to suicide.
12:58:58 From Todd Adams to Nicki(Direct Message) : thank you- would you like to say a bit more about this before we sign off? i’m happy to read your comment as well.
12:59:18 From Nicki to Todd Adams(Direct Message) : no – to hard
12:59:26 From Nicki to Todd Adams(Direct Message) : thankyou
13:02:33 From Karni : Thank you =)