Oct. 3, 2022

Zen Talk #151- Teenage Boys, Sleep & Lying

Zen Talk #151- Teenage Boys, Sleep & Lying
Zen Talk #151- Teenage Boys, Sleep & Lying
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Zen Talk #151- Teenage Boys, Sleep & Lying

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Todd+Cathy

Discussion & Time Stamps

  • 1:16 Centering
  • 2:29 14 year old son seems shut down
  • 23:35 Men/young men in our house are very guarded with their feelings
  • 30:45 Sleep issues for my hyper-focused teenage son
  • 46:03 16 year old daughter lied to me

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12:02:17 From karen To Everyone:
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12:02:24 From Mary McDonough (she/her) To Everyone:
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12:02:28 From missy To Everyone:
buuuuttt, I have a question/comment 🙂
12:03:58 From karni To Everyone:
I have a question if time please
12:10:21 From Todd Adams To Erik Treese he/him(Privately):
anything you want to add? would love to hear from you if you’re willing.
12:23:30 From Todd Adams To Everyone:
the mask you live in documentary
12:24:14 From Todd Adams To Everyone:
https://zenpopparenting.com/podcasts/181-2/
12:26:15 From Todd Adams To karni(Privately):
you’re next 🙂
12:26:25 From karni To Todd Adams(Privately):
👍
12:29:37 From Erik Treese he/him To Todd Adams(Privately):
i could use some support around an incident w Grace if time
12:29:55 From Todd Adams To Erik Treese he/him(Privately):
u bet. you’re after karni.
12:30:18 From Erik Treese he/him To Todd Adams(Privately):
kool
12:34:23 From Erik Treese he/him To Todd Adams(Privately):
red shirting
12:34:35 From Erik Treese he/him To Todd Adams(Privately):
bless her for not “CHEATING”
12:35:24 From Erik Treese he/him To Todd Adams(Privately):
its an unfair advantage… and how can he make it an asset/opportunity etc LOVE THIS KID!
12:36:45 From karen To Everyone:
Thanks Marni. I have a similar struggle with my 17 y.o. daughter and dance.
12:38:05 From karen To Everyone:
Maybe think of it as 8 hrs average over the week (instead of 8 hours every day)?
12:44:47 From karen To Everyone:
OMG… same, about the phone and sleep!
12:53:08 From karni To Everyone:
That’s awesome Cathy
12:57:28 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) To Everyone:
The best thing that your wife can do (after you two have talked it through) is to repair with your daughter. Acknowledge that she had an over-the-top reaction to the “lie”. She got triggered & had certain expectations from her daughter that didn’t happen. An apology to a teenager could go a long way. Create the connection again.
13:00:31 From missy To Everyone:
Cathy, I love the way you give us a way to say these things with levity…I sometimes feel like I need cue cards 🙂 and I use your tips often
13:03:43 From Kristen To Everyone:
Do you know time on Oct 28?
13:04:30 From karni To Everyone:
Thanks everyone