Episodes

Everyone has a story. The real question is whether you know how to read yours. In this Season 2 finale, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid dig into one of the most underused tools in a mentor’s hands — story. Not storytelling as a presentation skill, but story as the lens through which we understand our own lives, and help others understand theirs. Dan Allender puts it plainly: most people miss the deeper meaning of their own life because they don’t know how to read it. And as John McCauley adds, we’re ...

Most of us walk into our biggest decisions already knowing what we want. We just want God to agree. That’s not prayer. That’s lobbying. The Prayer of Indifference is an ancient spiritual practice rooted in Ignatian tradition and the Quaker pursuit of surrender. At its core, it’s the willingness to say, “Lord, I don’t want what I want. I want what you want.” Simple to say. Genuinely costly to mean. In this episode, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid unpack what holy indifference actually looks like in ...

There’s a kind of leader who commands a room without raising their voice. And there’s another kind who needs a title to be taken seriously. They are not the same. In this milestone 50th episode, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid sit down with a question that cuts to the heart of every leader’s journey: Where does your authority actually come from? Institutional power is given. Spiritual authority is grown — slowly, often painfully, through faithfulness in hidden places. But in a world that rewards pla...

Leadership has an inside story that rarely makes the highlight reel. It’s the moment before the response. The pause before the decision. The quiet choice to lead yourself before you attempt to lead anyone else. In this episode, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid sit with three case studies that bring self-regulation out of the theoretical and into the real — exploring what it actually costs a leader to stay authentic under pressure, to choose patience when urgency is screaming, and to take seriously the...

Anxiety is contagious. But so is calm. In this episode, we explore what it actually looks like for a leader to be a non-anxious presence — not by pretending everything is fine, but by being genuinely anchored when everything around them isn’t. What if the most important thing you carry into a room isn’t your strategy, but your steadiness? We unpack why anxious leaders create anxious cultures, what it costs an organization when the person at the top is always reacting, and the quiet discipline it...

What really stops leaders from leading? It’s rarely a lack of skill or strategy. More often, it’s one of two things: a failure of the heart — losing emotional connection to your mission and people — or a failure of the nerve — lacking the courage to act when it matters most. In this episode, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid get honest about both. They explore how heartbreak shows up as disengagement, bitterness, and spiritual exhaustion, and how nerve failure hides behind indecision, avoidance, and co...

Episode 46 shines a light on resilience as a major transformative force in leadership and life. Hosts Carson Pue, Ingrid Davis, and Chuck Davis redefine resilience—not just as bouncing back, but as bouncing forward, growing stronger through life’s challenges. They share heartfelt stories, practical wisdom, and spiritual insights to inspire listeners to embrace resistance as a gift that builds strength. With themes of vulnerability, recovery, and continuous growth, this episode encourages everyo...

Ep.44 began a crucial conversation about stewarding suffering—something every mentor and aspiring mentor will encounter on the journey. As we continue through the Christmas season, which beautifully reminds us of redemption emerging from hardship, we’re shifting gears to focus on practical wisdom for navigating pain as someone who guides others. Whether you’re pouring into someone else or looking to be poured into, this episode offers real-life insights and actionable tips to help you support ot...

We are originally posting this episode as we approach the Christmas season, a time often filled with joy and celebration, it’s also a time to reflect on the deeper story of hope born from humble and challenging circumstances. This episode is part one of our two-part series. We’re going to continue to go deeper than we did in Episode 43 on disappointment to discuss a topic that touches every leader: suffering. Suffering is a universal human experience, yet it often feels isolating, especially whe...

In Episode 43 of the Mentored Podcast, hosts Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis address a reality that every leader eventually faces: the challenge of dealing with disappointment. Whether it stems from a missed opportunity, a personnel change, or a vision that didn’t materialize as planned, disappointment can be disorienting. This episode offers a compassionate and practical roadmap for navigating these difficult emotions with wisdom. Rather than simply “pushing through” or burying the pain, t...

In this thought-provoking episode of the Mentored Podcast, Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis explore the concept of moving beyond singular assessment tools, such as the Enneagram, Birkman, DISC, or MBTI. While these instruments can provide valuable insights into personality, behaviour, and preferences, they are not the ultimate answer to understanding or mentoring others. As mentors, it’s crucial to avoid becoming overly reliant on any one framework. Together, we discuss the importance of ado...

In this episode of The Mentored Podcast, we dive into the delicate dance of balancing family and work. When life feels full in every direction, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. We explore the signs of imbalance, the toll it can take on your relationships, and the wake-up calls that force us to reevaluate our priorities. Through personal stories and practical insights, we’ll help you answer the question, “How is my family really doing?” and guide you toward creating space for what ...

Ever notice how the most successful leaders aren’t necessarily the smartest ones in the room? They’re often the ones who’ve mastered something we rarely talk about in leadership circles—their emotions. In this raw and insightful episode, Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis tackle the uncomfortable truth about emotional intelligence in leadership. Chuck opens up about his Midwestern upbringing, where feelings were seen as “unpredictable” and “no good”—a mindset that nearly sabotaged his marriage ...

Hosts: Carson Pue, Chuck Davis, Ingrid Davis In this episode of the Mentored Podcast, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid dive into the importance of Christian leaders connecting with people outside the Christian subculture — whom they affectionately call “normal people.” They share personal stories, practical advice, and thought-provoking insights on how to build authentic relationships rooted in curiosity, kindness, and shared humanity. Highlights from the episode: Carson Pue reflects on the challeng...

What does it mean to leave a legacy that lasts for generations? On this episode of The Mentored Podcast, Carson, Ingrid, and Chuck guide us through the heart of creating a generational legacy. They share wisdom, personal stories, and a few laughs along the way as they explore how to make meaningful, lasting contributions to your family and beyond. This renowned team of mentors dive into the value of establishing family traditions—not just as rituals, but as anchors that ground your values in fu...

What happens when someone wounds you deeply? Do you carry it, allowing bitterness to take hold, or do you begin the hard work of healing? In this second part of our conversation on being hurt by others, Drs. Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis, proven mentors in leadership and life, tackle these tough questions with wisdom, warmth, and candour. This episode invites you to reflect on themes of emotional resilience, forgiveness, and personal growth. The hosts explore what it truly means to forgiv...

Episode 33 of The Mentored Podcast kicks off a two-part series, “Hurt by Others,” where Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis tackle the deep challenges of betrayal, criticism, and disappointment in leadership and mentoring. If you’ve been wounded in your leadership role, this conversation offers both empathy and practical wisdom to help you heal and grow stronger. With warmth and straight talk, these seasoned mentors explore how to transform pain into a platform for growth. They dig into navigat...

Gratitude in leadership—simple to understand, profound to practice. On this episode of The Mentored Podcast, our seasoned mentors Carson Pue along with Chuck and Ingrid Davis, lead a heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation on the role gratitude plays in shaping exceptional leadership. Together, they unpack why gratitude is not just an optional quality but a transformative force that strengthens connections, builds trust, and inspires teams to thrive. Our hosts bring their wealth of experie...

How do some leaders stay the course while others fall away? Leadership isn’t just about vision—it’s about longevity. Stick-to-it-iveness. That ability to keep going, even when the road gets rough, the work feels thankless, and the “greener pastures” come calling. This week on Mentored, we’re tackling the two sides of the longevity coin. Should leaders stay long enough to see real change, or does staying too long become counterproductive? What factors are causing a lack of longevity in leadersh...

Have you stopped to think about the culture around you—the atmosphere that breathes life (or frustration) into your organization? Culture isn’t just a backdrop; it’s the driving force behind every decision, every interaction, and every success. As a leader, you’re not just living in culture; you’re shaping it, whether you’re intentional about it or not. Episode 30 of the Mentored Podcast dives deep into why culture is vital for leadership. From understanding social constructs to recognizing how...

Paul David Hewson Photo credit pixabay Have you been humming U2’s “Still Haven’t Found What I’m Looking For” lately? Well, you’re not alone. A 2014 survey by the Barna Group found that 75% of American adults are seeking ways to live a more meaningful life. An article from Deep Psychology suggests that only 0.1% of people live their life calling, highlighting the challenges and fears associated with pursuing one’s true passion. These findings indicate that a significant portion of the population ...

Today, we’re marking a milestone—it’s the start of Season Two, and I couldn’t be more thrilled to have you along for the ride. I’m your host, Carson Pue, and this season begins with an episode introducing you to my two remarkable co-hosts, Drs. Chuck and Ingrid Davis. Chuck Ingrid This season is about continuing a rich legacy of mentoring, growth, and leadership that was so close to our dear friend Martin Sanders’ heart. After his passing, Chuck and Ingrid stepped into the leadership of Global ...