February 27, 202600:11:44

Life Loves Me (Even If I Didn't Feel It Yet)

In This Episode, We Explore:

  • Identity vs circumstance
  • Why affirmations don't work during dysregulation
  • The layering process: Ground first, then reframe
  • How repitition shapes the subconscious
  • Why small wins count
  • How survival changes perspective
  • The difference between toxic positivity
  • The difference between toxic positivity and planted posture
The Layering Framework

Release------Gound the body

Realign------Choose the narrative

Radiate------Embody the posture


Grounding waters the soil.

Mantras (personal phrases) plant the seeds.


Phrases to Experiment With


"Life loves me."

It's fun being me."


Notice the resistance.- Think of the old Saturday Night Skits on this and laugh!!!!

Notice yourself laughing and softening.

Notice what the body does.


No faking only planting!


A Reminder

Maybe your season feels wierd.

Maybe it's heavy.

But we all have wins.


Surviving-Trying again-Showing up-Healing-Starting over.

Even small wins count!!!

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Have a wonderful day! Katie Nicosia Ballanco


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