Marriage Mavericks w/ Josh and Cassie Fuller

You're changing. You're putting in the work. But your spouse doesn't see it, doesn't trust it, or doesn't believe it's real. In this episode, we break down the four most common reasons your efforts aren't connecting—and what to do about it. You might be changing the wrong things, not changing enough, communicating your progress the wrong way, or falling apart under pressure. Any one of these can sabotage everything you're working toward. If you're the only one fighting for your marriage right...

You can't make your spouse work on the marriage. And the harder you try to control the outcome, the more you push them away. But you're not powerless. You have something more effective than control: influence. In this episode, we break down why trying to control your spouse backfires, what it actually takes to heal a marriage when only one person is trying, and four strategies to inspire real change—without ultimatums, pressure, or manipulation.

Everyone's calling their ex a narcissist these days. But what does that actually mean—and what should you do if you think your spouse might be one? In this episode, we break down the truth about narcissism in marriage, expose the misconceptions, and share what actually works. After 18 years helping couples heal their marriages, we'll show you why the popular advice about narcissistic spouses might be dead wrong.

You made time for intimacy. You're in the mood. She's not. And you don't understand why. Here's the problem: most men have spontaneous desire. Most women have responsive desire. That means she needs something to happen first before she's feeling it—and "it's 6pm on Tuesday, let's go" isn't going to cut it. In this episode, we break down what responsive desire actually means, why variety doesn't have to mean the bedroom, and how to create the conditions where she actually wants to be intimate.

You're not stuck because you don't know how to make the right decision. You're stuck because you're afraid of making the wrong one. In this episode, we walk through the exact process we use to make big decisions—using our own real-time example of figuring out where to move next. You'll learn why most people get paralyzed, why "priorities" is a misuse of the word, and how to stop waiting for clarity and start creating it.

You remember the anniversary. You plan the date night. You show up for the holidays. But what about the rest of the week? The small moments—the kiss before work, the three-minute conversation after dinner, the hand on their back as you walk by—those are the things that actually make you feel connected day to day. And most of us are walking right past them. In this episode, we talk about how to know when you're missing moments, why resentment is often a sign you're not creating them, and how t...