Let's Talk Adoption

Let's Talk Adoption

Adoption is complex. It can be filled with joy, but it also comes with challenges, questions, and moments of uncertainty. This podcast is a place to explore all sides of adoption with honesty and compassion.

Whether you’re an adoptee, an adoptive parent, a birth parent, or simply someone interested...

Nosy Questions People Ask About Adoption
Let's Talk Adoption
Nosy Questions People Ask About Adoption

Recent Episodes

Oct. 20, 2026

Nosy Questions People Ask About Adoption

“How much did your baby cost?” “Did her birth mother use drugs?” “Do you love her as much as you would your own child?” Yes, adoptive families really do get asked questions like these! People are naturally curious about adoption, and most aren’t trying to be rude or insensitive. But sometimes curiosity crosses a line, especially when the question involves personal details that belong to the adopted child. In this episode of Let’s Talk Adoption, Kim King and Heather Featherston tackle some o
Oct. 13, 2026

Who Names the Baby in an Adoption? | Quick Question

Who gets to name the baby when there’s an adoption plan? Does the expectant mother choose the name? Do the adoptive parents? And what happens to the baby’s name after the adoption is finalized?In this quick bonus episode of Let’s Talk Adoption, Kim and Heather answer a surprisingly common adoption question and explain how first names, last names, birth certificates, and name changes can work in adoption. You’ll hear about: Who has the right to name the baby at birth Whether an expectant mothe
Oct. 6, 2026

You Asked! 5 More Adoption Questions Answered

We’ve covered a lot of ground in our recent episodes, from what happens at the hospital and preparing to travel to health insurance, ICPC, home studies, and employer adoption benefits. And sometimes, answering one question just leads to another! So today, we’re doing another listener Q&A and tackling five of those practical “Okay, but what happens if…?” questions that we haven’t really covered yet: “What happens if we get the call about a baby and our home study has expired or is about to exp
Sept. 29, 2026

Who Pays for What? Understanding Medical Bills in Adoption

In this episode of Let's Talk Adoption, we're walking through an adoption journey from pregnancy through bringing baby home and explaining how medical bills and health insurance typically work along the way.
Sept. 22, 2026

Adopting Three Times: A Dad’s Perspective with Tim Elder (Part 2)

Adoptive dad Tim Elder returns to share lessons, practical advice, and encouragement for families pursuing domestic infant adoption.
Sept. 15, 2026

Adopting Three Times: A Dad’s Perspective with Tim Elder

In this episode of Let’s Talk Adoption, Kim welcomes back Tim Elder, a three-time adoptive dad and founder of the Infant Adoption Guide Podcast and Community. After experiencing the infant adoption process three times, Tim has gained a unique perspective on what it takes to navigate adoption as an adoptive parent.