What happens when a trial attorney who argued a case before the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts, made partner at a nationally recognized firm, and spent 20 years fighting to win for one side decides to become the person in the room that neither side hired? In this episode of the Trustcast Show, Zane Myers speaks with Amy Mariani, founder of Mariani Mediation, about the unexpected path from trial law to full-time mediator and arbitrator, why she says resolution is the real client, and how she rewired her brain after decades of advocacy to stop making arguments and start making progress. Amy explains the three P's — power, punishment, and principle — that are the biggest obstacles to resolving any dispute, why she tries to resolve boilerplate issues before anyone even walks in the room, and why an 18-month trial date is the sweet spot for mediation to actually work. They also discuss the difference between mediation and arbitration, how she handles cases that blow up over a neutral reference rather than the settlement number, why she thinks there is no such thing as too early for conflict resolution, what she learned as past president of the Massachusetts MCLE Board of Trustees about training the next generation of lawyers, and why the small claims cases with $50 at stake are sometimes more brutal than the multi-million dollar business breakups. Amy Mariani is the founder of Mariani Mediation, a full-time mediator and arbitrator serving attorneys across the country in employment, personal injury, and business disputes. She has been named a Massachusetts Super Lawyer in ADR every year since 2017. Connect with Amy Mariani: marianimediation.com amarianimediation.com Massachusetts Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Amy Mariani 00:42 Arguing before the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts for American Airlines 01:13 Why she started planning her transition when her kids hit kindergarten 02:13 The brain rewiring required to stop advocating and start mediating 02:35 The mechanics of closing a law firm and moving full time into dispute resolution 03:53 What changed in the legal market that made the boutique firm model harder 05:03 What it means that resolution is the real client 06:14 How mediators get hired and who makes the call 09:07 What cases are the right fit for her practice 11:01 How much her legal background helps when the law is at issue 12:04 How her fees work — daily rate, split between parties, and who forwards it 13:23 Networking as the engine of a mediation practice 15:08 Rapid fire questions including Notre Dame, truffle pasta, and Larry Bird 17:03 The difference between mediation and arbitration explained plainly 18:37 What percentage of attorneys serve as arbitrators versus non-lawyers 19:14 Why she teaches that there is no such thing as too early for dispute resolution 20:04 Her sweet spot — 18 months from trial and post-summary judgment 22:59 Can a case actually be too early for mediation 24:54 The three P's — power, punishment, and principle 25:58 Which cases are harder to settle — big money or high emotion 27:26 Cases that almost settle and then blow up over one issue 28:22 How she handles boilerplate before the mediation even starts 30:19 When lawyers get emotionally invested in their client's case 31:28 Named Massachusetts Super Lawyer in ADR every year since 2017 31:58 If she could change one thing about the legal system 32:31 What to do if you're stuck in a dispute and don't know where to start 32:46 How to reach Amy Mariani #AmyMariani #MarianiMediation #Mediator #Arbitrator #AlternativeDisputeResolution #EmploymentMediation #BusinessMediation #TrustcastShow #MassachusettsADR #ConflictResolution
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