S2 Ep 1- Client experiences and challenges when dealing with family violence: Maggie’s Story of Survival, Safety and Rebuilding

In this powerful opening episode of Series Two of You Do Not Have to Put Up With It, Ms Carmella Acciarito from DFVLawyers speaks with “Maggie,” a former client and family violence survivor, about the hidden realities of coercive control, emotional abuse, isolation, manipulation and the long road to recovery.

Maggie shares how a relationship that appeared supportive at first gradually eroded her independence, confidence and sense of self. She discusses the early warning signs she now recognises, the impact of being minimised or misunderstood by others, and the emotional toll of navigating police, court and legal processes after separation.

This conversation also explores what safety, freedom and healing can look like after family violence. Maggie speaks honestly about trauma, support services, therapy, rebuilding routines, the role of trusted friends, and the importance of listening to your gut when something does not feel right.

Her story is confronting, courageous and deeply important. It highlights that domestic and family violence is not always physical, and that coercive control can be invisible to the outside world while profoundly damaging to the person experiencing it.

For anyone living with fear, control or isolation, this episode is a reminder: you are not alone, help is available, and you do not have to put up with it.

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