Episodes

Ever get solid financial advice that worked for a friend but never quite stuck for you? It may not be a willpower problem. It may be your financial archetype. If Money Were Easy host, Neela Hummel, CFP®, sits down with Emily Benedetto, CFP®, financial advisor and partner at Abacus Wealth Partners, to explore the emotional side of financial planning. Your money decisions are shaped by more than account balances. The messages you absorbed about money growing up, the moments you felt you had enou...

Whether you consciously chose it or not, you and your partner may have fallen into specific roles when it comes to money. One person might be the Manager, another the Earner, the Spender, or the Worrier. But when these roles go unspoken, they can sometimes lead to resentment, friction, and missed goals. In this episode of If Money Were Easy, Neela Hummel speaks with CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER® professional and Abacus financial advisor Danny Smith about how couples can navigate relationship dyn...

You can know exactly what your financial spreadsheet says and still feel completely stuck. You can look great on paper and still lie awake at night asking: Do I actually have enough? Am I going to be okay? In this episode of If Money Were Easy, host Neela Hummel, CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER® professional (CFP®) and CEO of Abacus Wealth Partners, explores the emotional gap between traditional, technical financial planning and the way money actually impacts our daily lives. Traditional financial ...

When a natural disaster strikes, the emotional and financial toll can be overwhelming, especially if you're unprepared. In this episode, Mary Beth and Neela are joined by Abacus financial advisor Susan Olson, CFP®, who shares practical steps you can take to safeguard your finances. Drawing from her experience working with clients impacted by wildfires, Susan breaks down what you can do before disaster hits, from reviewing your insurance coverage and documenting your belongings, to building an e...

Why doesn't having money necessarily feel good? In this episode, Mary Beth and Neela explore the complex emotions tied to wealth—whether it's guilt over having more, shame around not having enough, or discomfort with financial privilege. They unpack how money can affect identity, belonging, and relationships, and share tools to help you reframe your money story, build financial confidence, and align your wealth with your values. For additional resources, information, and a full transcript of th...

When love blooms later in life, so do important money questions. In this episode of If Money Were Easy, Mary Beth and Neela discuss the financial realities of dating, cohabiting, and marrying after 40. Inspired by the idea of the "Golden Bachelorette," they explore how second (or third) chapters can bring new challenges and new opportunities for building strong financial foundations. From prenups and estate plans to blending families, tune in for thoughtful insights and real-world examples you ...

When it comes to financial planning, insurance is an important piece of the puzzle. In this episode of If Money Were Easy, Mary Beth and Neela are joined by Mark Maurer, CFP®, President and CEO of Low Load Insurance Services (LLIS), to break down the complexities of disability and life insurance and shed light on what to consider when deciding what plan might be appropriate for you. They discuss why so many people tend to avoid thinking about insurance, the psychological barriers that can keep ...

Selecting a financial advisor can be a process, especially given the wide range of titles, credentials, and compensation models in the industry. In this episode, co-hosts and CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER® professionals Mary Beth Storjohann and Neela Hummel outline the factors to consider when choosing an advisor who aligns with your financial goals and values. They explore the distinctions between various advisor designations, with a focus on the importance of working with a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL ...

What happens to your money when interest rates go up or down? Join Mary Beth and Neela as they dive into the complex world of interest rates and the different ways they can impact your finances – from mortgages and savings accounts, to credit cards and business loans. They explore how the Federal Reserve's adjustments influence both the economy and individual financial decisions, and offer some historical context – such as the period following the 2008 financial crisis – to highlight how those ...

How can you step into 2025 with compassion — and maybe even a little ease — in a world full of uncertainties? In this Season 3 kickoff episode, hosts Mary Beth Storjohann and Neela Hummel share thoughtful strategies for navigating both financial and emotional transitions as the new year gains momentum. Focusing on presence and personal values, they explore the benefits of setting realistic, meaningful intentions instead of rigid resolutions and highlight the power of small yet impactful financi...

If Money Were Easy is back! Season 3 begins on March 19th, and we couldn't be more excited. Not only can you expect more of the honest money (and life) discussions we can't get enough of, but Season 3 has a new look and will be posted as video episodes on YouTube if you want some visuals with your finance banter. Make sure you're following the show wherever you're listening so you don't miss any updates. And don't forget to sign up for the If Money Were Easy newsletter to get extra insights, d...

In this episode special guest, Spencer Sherman, a celebrated financial advisor, author, and co-founder of Abacus Wealth Partners, shares his insights on integrating mindfulness into money management. Spencer explains that practicing gratitude can help with decision-making by reducing the tendency to ruminate over negative experiences. He discusses human survival wiring, which naturally directs attention to potential threats, leading people to dwell on negatives like critical emails or market los...

Today's episode dives into the financial aspirations and strategies for the next ten years as both hosts reflect on reaching the milestone age of 40. They explore the importance of investing in community and relationships beyond family ties, the excitement of aging with close friends, and nurturing valuable relationships despite busy schedules. They also address common financial anxieties, the concept of feeling behind financially, and provide practical tips on financial planning. Join Mary Beth...

What are the unique financial and societal challenges that young men face today? From the significance of developing strong social and emotional skills to understanding the difference between investing and gambling, Mary Beth and Neela offer actionable insights and personal anecdotes. The hosts discuss societal pressures on young men during their "grind years," emphasizing the value of patience and face-to-face social interactions. They share personal stories from their own experiences raising c...

Today's episode features a special guest who brings a wealth of experience both professionally and personally. Kathryn Peyton, a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ with Abacus Wealth Partners since 2016, joins us to share her invaluable insights on managing the role of an executor. We'll dive into Kathryn's personal journey, where she combines her professional expertise with real-life experiences, such as caring for her aging mother. Kathryn will discuss the significance of car rides and open conversa...

In this episode, we discuss money lessons for our daughters and explore the crucial role of financial awareness, the importance of self-reliance, and the evolving financial roles of women in society. We'll share personal anecdotes, discuss historical contexts, and emphasize the importance of modeling positive financial behaviors for the next generation. We believe that money isn't just a tool for daily transactions—it's power. It's the key to independence, freedom, and making informed choices. W...

In today's episode, we explore the often-misunderstood topic of prenuptial agreements (prenups). Joining us today is our esteemed guest, Terri Steen, an experienced family law attorney and mediator who has been practicing family law in Los Angeles since 2009. We'll explore the phases of prenuptial agreements, their impact on communication and empathy in relationships, and what makes for successful prenup negotiations. We'll also touch upon the importance of postnuptial agreements, legal obligati...

While not always an easy conversation to have, talking and preparing for the death of a loved one is incredibly important. On this week's episode, we're joined by Jana Davis, a financial advisor at Abacus Wealth Partners, who specializes in working with octogenarians and people in their later chapters of life. Jana's approach to financial planning is rooted in empathy and radical candor, making sure that elderly clients are treated with the respect and dignity they deserve. Today, we'll be divin...

Today, we're diving into a topic that can make or break a business—tax planning for entrepreneurs. In this episode, we're excited to have Tiffany Vaught join us. Tiffany is not just any CPA; she's a Certified Exit Planning Advisor (CEPA®) for small business owners, the CEO of Incurio, LLP, and the co-founder of Something Artists. With her entrepreneurial spirit and extensive experience, Tiffany brings a wealth of knowledge about proactive financial planning and tax strategies that can help you n...

In today's episode, we tackle a significant question: Is Homeownership Still Part of the American Dream? It's a complex topic, influenced by changing economic landscapes, psychological factors, and the ever-evolving housing market. We'll explore the benefits and challenges of homeownership, discuss current market conditions, and offer practical advice for those considering whether to own real estate as part of their financial journey. Tune in as we help you understand whether homeownership shoul...

Raising kids takes a village. As the old saying goes, it really does take a community to support parents, especially in this day and age of over-scheduled lives and demanding careers. Having a tribe you can lean on makes all the difference. In this episode, Mary Beth and Neela get real about their own experiences relying on their village. They touch on topics such as the importance of building a community, learning how to ask for help, even when it's uncomfortable, navigating the pressure to "do...

Today, we're joined by a special guest, Daria Victorov, who is a financial advisor at Abacus Wealth Partners, and specializes in working with young professionals in tech and those who have come into wealth at a young age. Join us as we dive into the topic of financial planning for young inheritors. We'll explore the unique challenges and opportunities faced by those who come into wealth early in life, and Daria will share her insights on how to navigate this complex journey. Whether you're a you...

In today's discussion, we're diving into the world of artificial intelligence and its implications for consumers. We're joined by Gabe Brenner, a financial advisor at Abacus Wealth Partners, who shares his perspective on the integration of AI tools in financial planning and everyday life. Gabe will walk us through the potential and practical uses that AI holds, from boosting productivity to navigating complex information effortlessly, and even aiding in our creative ventures. We'll also discuss ...

Today, we bring on Kate Barron-Alicante, Director of Impact and Financial Advisor at Abacus Wealth Partners. Kate is here to guide us on a journey to becoming conscious consumers and investors. She'll share her insights on aligning our spending and investment decisions with our deeply held values, making mindful choices that do more than just serve our immediate needs—they help to sustain the communities and the planet we care about. In this episode, Kate will walk us through her own experience ...