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June 12, 2021
001 A conversation with executive coaching client Ron Dimon. Part 1 [Refresh] • PODCAST
This latest podcast is part one of a funny and useful conversation between top executive coach Tony Mayo and his longtime client Ron Dimon. Ron is an expert on the use of information by executives of large organizations. Listen as two experienced business people play with many ideas in this episode including; * how to find and rewrite the script of your life, * the value of seeing your career as a way to grow your * relationships with people, * why business people need not read business books, *...
Sept. 27, 2018
049 Powerful Requests • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "Powerful Requests" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. Tony presents his model for, perhaps, the most important type of business conversation, the request. Much of what you accomplish, much of what people reward you for, much of the structure of our days can be understood as a complex network of requests and promises. By thoroughly understanding and applying the three components of a Powerful Request, you can get more done w...
Sept. 21, 2018
048 Say Anything • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "Say Anything to Anyone in a Way that Works for Everyone" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. Tony shares two tools to help with your most difficult and confronting conversations. 12 Steps for Difficult Conversations http://tiny.cc/12steps The Conversation Contract http://tiny.cc/ConContract Video, handouts, and other resources from this and other webinars are available for free at: https://TonyMayo.com/Tuesdays/ All of the w...
Sept. 17, 2018
047 Breakdown vs Problem • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "Breakdown vs. Problem" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. Tony continues last week's discussion by reviewing the meaning of breakthrough, the environments that foster breakthroughs, and the foundational importance of our interpretation of events. We focus on a powerful tool for managing our responses to unwelcome or unexpected events. Declaring a "breakdown" instead of calling it a "problem," open powerful possibilities for...
Sept. 11, 2018
046 Breakdown to Breakthrough • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "Breakdown to Breakthrough" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. Tony continues last week's discussion by reviewing the meaning of breakthrough, how to manage yourself and your environment to increase your chances of experiencing breakthroughs, and the foundational importance of taking control of our interpretation of events. Today's distinctions include: • Why are some coaching concepts called "distinctions"? • The holographi...
Sept. 5, 2018
045 Creating Your Clearing for Breakthrough • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "Creating Your Clearing for Breakthrough" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. Tony continues last week's discussion by reviewing the meaning of breakthrough, how to manage yourself and your environment to increase your chances of experiencing breakthroughs. Today's distinctions include: • Interpretation: the thick, distorting filter between us and reality • The Foundational Practice for Breakthrough 1. I am interpreting event...
Aug. 30, 2018
044 Criteria for Breakthrough • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "Criteria for Breakthrough" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. Tony explains the meaning of a breakthrough, and discusses how to manage yourself and your environment to increase your chances of experiencing life-enhancing breakthroughs. Video, handouts, and other resources from this and other webinars are available for free at: https://TonyMayo.com/Tuesdays/ All of the webinars are available on YouTube here: http://tiny.cc/T...
Aug. 25, 2018
043 Clearing for Breakthrough • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "Clearing for Breakthrough" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. Tony explains the meaning of a breakthrough and discusses how to use the insights available from a breakthrough to dramatically accelerate your performance. Video, handouts, and other resources from this and other webinars are available for free at: https://TonyMayo.com/Tuesdays/ All of the webinars are available on YouTube here: http://tiny.cc/TwTtv You may part...
Aug. 20, 2018
042 Be More Curious, Effective, and Empathetic • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "Be More Curious, Effective, & Empathetic" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. Tony teaches a crucial skill for better conversations, smoother work relationships, and greater productivity. The key is asking more questions, even responding to direct questions not with a simple answer, but with genuine curiosity, asking "clarifying questions" to discover exactly what your employee, sales prospect, or best friend really want fro...
Aug. 10, 2018
041 The Conversation Contract • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "The Conversation Contract" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. Tony teaches his all-purpose, 3-step process for making any conversation more comfortable, agreeable, and effective. He discusses applications to sales, supervision, and marriage. The Conversation Contract(tm) works for quick telephone calls, annual reviews, sales presentations, and week-long workshops. It is the way to get more done in less time with less stress...
Aug. 7, 2018
040 Tough Talk Conversations That Make A Difference • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "Tough Talk: Conversations That Make A Difference" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. This program teaches Tony's 12 Step program for engaging with people on difficult topics, simple tools for resolving contentious issues, and a powerful approach to work and personal conversations that will bring you better results and stronger relationships. Video, handouts, and other resources from this and other webinars are availabe for ...
July 17, 2018
039 What is Executive Coaching • PODCAST
Today's podcast, "What is Executive Coaching?" is the audio from a webinar presented by Tony Mayo, The Business Owner's Executive Coach. Topics covered include: • What is Executive Coaching? • “My own best thinking” • “I now live in a different world, see different things, take different actions.” • Differences between coaching, consulting, mentoring, managing, therapy, training, and just plain friendship. • Basic logistics of what it costs, how much time it takes, how to know if it is working, ...
Jan. 18, 2018
005 Managing Yourself with Specific Measurable Results • PODCAST [Retired]
Tony Mayo Executive Coach To avoid the #1 forecasting mistake, click here. Keep me informed about Tony’s webinars, in-person coaching sessions, and free Life Planning & Goal Setting tools. Email Address * First Name Last Name Title Company Phone * indicates required Since 1996, I have led groups and individuals through a powerful […] The post 005 Managing Yourself with Specific Measurable Results • PODCAST [Retired] appeared first on Tony Mayo.
Dec. 2, 2017
038 The One Experience That Proves You Are an Entrepreneur • PODCAST
Hello. I’m Tony Mayo, the Business Owner’s Executive Coach … with one quick idea you can use in your business …today. I have a one-question quiz to see if someone has real-world entrepreneurial experience. I thought of it while I was telling war stories with the owner of a very successful commercial plumbing business. His firm worked on new homes all over the Mid-Atlantic, hundreds at a time. He shared with me his memory from the first Christmas after he had finally earned enough from the new bu...
Nov. 23, 2017
037 Executive Coach’s One Question Quiz for Incipient Entrepreneurs • PODCAST
Hello. I’m Tony Mayo, the Business Owner’s Executive Coach … with one quick idea you can use in your business …today. When the people I meet socially learn of my background starting companies and coaching business owners, many of them admit that …they’d love to have their own company. I offer my one question quiz… that shows whether he or she is an entrepreneur. I ask, “What is the -one- most important element for starting a successful business?” I hear answers like… a clever concept, a solid bu...
Nov. 15, 2017
036 Three Kinds of Entrepreneurs • PODCAST
There is a certain breed of entrepreneur who creates results orders of magnitude beyond what typical business owners achieve. Before I tell you what makes them special, let’s review the origin of the word “entrepreneur” and distinguish my three types of business owner. The original entrepreneurs, back in the European Middle Ages, operated by bringing materials to workers in their homes. Cloth to sew into garments, for example, or wax and twine to mold into candles. As they rode around the countr...
Nov. 7, 2017
035 You Are Not Your Results • PODCAST
Hello. I’m Tony Mayo, the Business Owner’s Executive Coach … with one quick idea you can use in your business …today. Some senior executives once asked the head of their firm, “Why is it that, despite the years we have been learning and working with you, along with our own extensive experience and research, you always stay ahead of us, seeing new opportunities, starting new initiatives, inventing …new methods?” He replied, “The significant difference between us is simple. I’m willing to dwell in...
Oct. 30, 2017
034 The Dunning-Kruger Effect and the Entrepreneur • PODCAST
Hello. I’m Tony Mayo, the Business Owner’s Executive Coach … with one quick idea you can use in your business …today. I’m an above average driver. You probably consider yourself an above average driver, too. Chances are that at least one of us is wrong. Why do I believe that? Because surveys show that almost everyone thinks their driving skills are above the average. Based upon what I see on the streets, the average skill level is pretty low. Still, half of us must be even worse than that low av...
Oct. 22, 2017
033 Are You Busy? • DeskVideo • PODCAST
Hello. I’m Tony Mayo, the Business Owner’s Executive Coach … with one quick idea you can use in your business today. There's a phrase becoming more and more common that I'm starting to take as an insult. When -exactly- did it become a compliment to say to someone, "I know you're busy." How do I look busy? Do I seem harried, overwhelmed, am I dropping the ball? Am I not fulfilling on my promises and commitments? Do you think I'm incompetent, unable to do my job or cope with my life? What makes yo...
Oct. 14, 2017
032 How to Work with Facts and Opinions • DeskVideo • PODCAST
Hello. I’m Tony Mayo, the Business Owner’s Executive Coach … with one quick idea you can use in your business today. A client told me that today’s coaching distinction had made every one of his business conversations more productive —and shorter. But first, this… The doctor says, “Your condition is terminal. You have less than a year to live.” The patient says, “I want a second opinion.” The doctor replies, “Okay. Your tie is ugly, too.” More about this in a moment… Much of what we say is opinio...
Oct. 6, 2017
031 What is Easy? • PODCAST
Hello. I’m Tony Mayo, the Business Owner’s Executive Coach … with one quick idea you can use in your business today. Thales of My-LEE-tus is generally considered the father of western philosophy. He's also thought to be the very first scientist, perhaps the smartest person in the ancient world. A student once asked Thales two questions: "What is hard?" and "What is easy?" The sage responded, "What is hard is to know thyself." "What is easy is to give advice." And advice isn't just easy to give. ...
Sept. 28, 2017
030 What Happened vs What’s Next: Late Work Product • PODCAST
Hello. I’m Tony Mayo, the Business Owner’s Executive Coach … with one quick idea you can use in your business today. There's a common situation in business. Well, in life, when someone has been tasked to deliver something at a particular time –and it's not ready. You've probably been in this situation many times. I'm sure you'll be in it many times again. We'll talk elsewhere about integrity, but for today, think about this, put yourself _in_ this situation. You walk to the person's desk, you as...
Sept. 20, 2017
029 You Are Your Words: Being Human with Helen Keller • PODCAST
Hello. I’m Tony Mayo, the Business Owner’s Executive Coach … with one quick idea you can use in your business today. One of the core concepts of executive coaching is that we, as humans, exist largely in language. Now, I know there's a real, physical world out there and if you bump up against it you could get hurt. Right now, I'm not talking about bricks and buildings. I’m talking about what makes us …human. I say that our humanity emerges from the words we use, both out loud to others and silen...
Sept. 12, 2017
028 “Got to” vs “Get to” • PODCAST
Hello. I’m Tony Mayo, the Business Owner’s Executive Coach … with one quick idea you can use in your business today. I've spoken on other podcasts and videos about the defining importance of language to human life, to the quality of your life. One of my favorite techniques, a tip you can use several times a day, is to reduce how often you say, "I've got to do this." "I have to do that.", when the reality is, if you're honest with yourself, …you don't have to. You're not being compelled or forced...