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Why Knowing Yourself Matters in Power Exchange

Posted March 5, 2021 • 01:09:39

Pardon the rambly episode this week. The idea of “know thyself” and what that can look like, how people express their identities, and why it’s...

Advocating for Yourself in BDSM

Posted February 26, 2021 • 01:15:51

The word “advocacy” in terms of power exchange and BDSM has been on our minds a lot lately, so it’s time to do an episode about it. We used a...

Boring Ruts and Routines in Power Exchange

Posted February 19, 2021 • 01:14:06

Boring implies “bad” but we don’t think that’s always the case. The reality, though, is that long-term relationships, kinky or otherwise, can...

Figuring Out Our Apology Language

Posted February 12, 2021 • 01:22:47

We’ve talked about love languages before, and we’ve talked about making mistakes and needing to apologize. So imagine our delight when we discovered...

Fantasy vs Reality in D/s

Posted February 6, 2021 • 01:14:25

We’ve said it many times but never really focused on it — the fantasy of D/s, kink, and BDSM can’t match the reality. That’s not a bad thing,...