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The Difference Between Dom and Sub vs Top and Bottom

Posted November 8, 201901:10:02

We get asked all the time what the difference between a dominant and submissive vs a top and bottom is. We’re not claiming to have all the answers,...

On Aging and BDSM

Posted November 1, 201901:37:07

This week’s episode was recorded on Kayla’s 40th birthday so it seemed appropriate to talk about getting older when you’re kinky. (Yes, I know,...

The Art of Subtle Dominance and Submission

Posted October 25, 201901:25:52

A big thanks to our kinky patron, Cdc, for suggesting this week’s topic — the subtle side of Dominance and submission. What (we think) we mean by...

When You’re Afraid of Change in Your D/s Relationship

Posted October 18, 201900:52:41

Being afraid (or overly cautious) about change is extremely common. Some people just don’t handle change well, while others want to feel in control...

The Problem with Seeing Other D/s Relationships as #RelationshipGoals

Posted October 11, 201901:04:29

There’s not a thing wrong with admiring other kinky relationships. We know quite a few people who we think have great chemistry, and we love being...