Episodes

This episode will encourage ALL marriages! Hmmm, is this podcast for the men or the woman out there? Gil came home from a few counseling sessions and said: “After the day I’ve had, we gotta do a podcast!” Uh oh, what are you in for? Talking about cantaloupes verses honeydew, does nagging really help and what is the emotion behind it. All relationships will benefit from this one! Hang on! #gilandbrenda #tipstoolsandtingles #RestoredandRemarried #marriagepodcast #investinyourmarriage #marriageco...

This episode will encourage ALL marriages! Hmmm, is this podcast for the men or the woman out there? Gil came home from a few counseling sessions and said: “After the day I’ve had, we gotta do a podcast!” Uh oh, what are you in for? Talking about cantaloupes verses honeydew, does nagging really help and what is the emotion behind it. All relationships will benefit from this one! Hang on! #gilandbrenda #tipstoolsandtingles #RestoredandRemarried #marriagepodcast #investinyourmarriage #marriageco...

This episode will encourage ALL marriages! Hmmm, is this podcast for the men or the woman out there? Gil came home from a few counseling sessions and said: “After the day I’ve had, we gotta do a podcast!” Uh oh, what are you in for? Talking about cantaloupes verses honeydew, does nagging really help and what is the emotion behind it. All relationships will benefit from this one! Hang on! #gilandbrenda #tipstoolsandtingles #RestoredandRemarried #marriagepodcast #investinyourmarriage #marriageco...

This episode will encourage your stepfamily! Join Gil and Brenda as they interview guests Tammy and Jay Daughtry, founders of CoParenting International. What is your relationship like with your child’s other bio parent? Could it be better? This relationship can be very difficult to navigate. Bottom line though, what is in the best interest of your child. Do you have a 3 am friend? Listen in and see what nuggets of wisdom you can apply to your family today! Thank you, Tammy and Jay, for being on...

This episode will encourage your stepfamily! Join Gil and Brenda as they interview guests Tammy and Jay Daughtry, founders of CoParenting International. What is your relationship like with your child’s other bio parent? Could it be better? This relationship can be very difficult to navigate. Bottom line though, what is in the best interest of your child. Do you have a 3 am friend? Listen in and see what nuggets of wisdom you can apply to your family today! Thank you, Tammy and Jay, for being on...

This episode will encourage your stepfamily! Join Gil and Brenda as they interview guests Tammy and Jay Daughtry, founders of CoParenting International. What is your relationship like with your child’s other bio parent? Could it be better? This relationship can be very difficult to navigate. Bottom line though, what is in the best interest of your child. Do you have a 3 am friend? Listen in and see what nuggets of wisdom you can apply to your family today! Thank you, Tammy and Jay, for being on...

This episode will encourage you in your stepfamily adventure! Thanksgiving, Christmas, Mother’s Day, Valentine’s Day, Father’s Day. Whew, there can be a lot going on during the holidays. What’s really going on under the surface? What are YOUR expectations? How are they impacting those around you? Where do the grandparents and ex-inlaws fit into your holiday plans? Or do they? As far as the holidays that involve gift giving, what does that look like for your family? Are your kids/stepkids able t...

This episode will encourage you in your stepfamily adventure! Thanksgiving, Christmas, Mother’s Day, Valentine’s Day, Father’s Day. Whew, there can be a lot going on during the holidays. What’s really going on under the surface? What are YOUR expectations? How are they impacting those around you? Where do the grandparents and ex-inlaws fit into your holiday plans? Or do they? As far as the holidays that involve gift giving, what does that look like for your family? Are your kids/stepkids able t...

This episode will encourage you in your stepfamily adventure! Thanksgiving, Christmas, Mother’s Day, Valentine’s Day, Father’s Day. Whew, there can be a lot going on during the holidays. What’s really going on under the surface? What are YOUR expectations? How are they impacting those around you? Where do the grandparents and ex-inlaws fit into your holiday plans? Or do they? As far as the holidays that involve gift giving, what does that look like for your family? Are your kids/stepkids able t...

This episode will encourage you in your stepfamily adventure! Thanksgiving time! Frozen turkey football, yams or mashed potatoes, whole berry cranberry sauce or jellied? Wow, this holiday can be really loaded…as any holiday can be! What is YOUR attitude during this holiday season? You may be experiencing the unfairness of your divorce/loss of spouse/loss of a dream. How is YOUR attitude affecting the kids…all of them? Have you talked about which holiday traditions to keep and/or which ones you...

This episode will encourage you in your stepfamily adventure! Thanksgiving time! Frozen turkey football, yams or mashed potatoes, whole berry cranberry sauce or jellied? Wow, this holiday can be really loaded…as any holiday can be! What is YOUR attitude during this holiday season? You may be experiencing the unfairness of your divorce/loss of spouse/loss of a dream. How is YOUR attitude affecting the kids…all of them? Have you talked about which holiday traditions to keep and/or which ones you...

This episode will encourage you in your stepfamily adventure! Thanksgiving time! Frozen turkey football, yams or mashed potatoes, whole berry cranberry sauce or jellied? Wow, this holiday can be really loaded…as any holiday can be! What is YOUR attitude during this holiday season? You may be experiencing the unfairness of your divorce/loss of spouse/loss of a dream. How is YOUR attitude affecting the kids…all of them? Have you talked about which holiday traditions to keep and/or which ones you...

This podcast is for ALL Marriage! You've heard it before...dating and connecting is so important for your relationship! Life is crazy sometimes, we get it. Even more reason to make sure you are in a good place with your partner. What is the science behind dating? Why is it so important? What impact does it have on our relationships? Gil and Brenda will share statistics, tips tools, and tingles. Hang on, this is going to be a good one! Now, go on a date! #gilandbrenda #tipstoolsandtingles #Re...

This podcast is for ALL Marriage! You've heard it before...dating and connecting is so important for your relationship! Life is crazy sometimes, we get it. Even more reason to make sure you are in a good place with your partner. What is the science behind dating? Why is it so important? What impact does it have on our relationships? Gil and Brenda will share statistics, tips tools, and tingles. Hang on, this is going to be a good one! Now, go on a date! #gilandbrenda #tipstoolsandtingles #Re...

This podcast is for ALL Marriage! You've heard it before...dating and connecting is so important for your relationship! Life is crazy sometimes, we get it. Even more reason to make sure you are in a good place with your partner. What is the science behind dating? Why is it so important? What impact does it have on our relationships? Gil and Brenda will share statistics, tips tools, and tingles. Hang on, this is going to be a good one! Now, go on a date! #gilandbrenda #tipstoolsandtingles #Re...

This episode will encourage ALL marriages! Have you ever experienced having a wall between your partner? Miscommunication, assumptions, conflicts and unmet expectations cause division, which is like a wall. Gil and Brenda will help you reframe the wall, so it will not divide but bring unity into your relationship. Strengthen your marriage and add depth and connection to your marriage today! And yes, there’s homework, GREAT homework! #safemarriage #protectmymarriage #protectourmarriage #marria...

This episode will encourage ALL marriages! Have you ever experienced having a wall between your partner? Miscommunication, assumptions, conflicts and unmet expectations cause division, which is like a wall. Gil and Brenda will help you reframe the wall, so it will not divide but bring unity into your relationship. Strengthen your marriage and add depth and connection to your marriage today! And yes, there’s homework, GREAT homework! #safemarriage #protectmymarriage #protectourmarriage #marria...

This episode will encourage ALL marriages! Have you ever experienced having a wall between your partner? Miscommunication, assumptions, conflicts and unmet expectations cause division, which is like a wall. Gil and Brenda will help you reframe the wall, so it will not divide but bring unity into your relationship. Strengthen your marriage and add depth and connection to your marriage today! And yes, there’s homework, GREAT homework! #safemarriage #protectmymarriage #protectourmarriage #marria...

Stepkids: No matter their age, they can bring lots of joy…or challenges. Which “camp” are you in? Gil and Brenda will tackle some common situations that stepfamilies experience. “You’re not my Dad/Mom.” “I can do whatever I want at my Mom’s house.” “Your rules are bad here, you are so mean.” Sound familiar? In today’s episode, you will learn that you are not alone. Your kiddos may be still in the home or living on their own now. Age can work for you or against you when it comes to the dynamics...

Stepkids: No matter their age, they can bring lots of joy…or challenges. Which “camp” are you in? Gil and Brenda will tackle some common situations that stepfamilies experience. “You’re not my Dad/Mom.” “I can do whatever I want at my Mom’s house.” “Your rules are bad here, you are so mean.” Sound familiar? In today’s episode, you will learn that you are not alone. Your kiddos may be still in the home or living on their own now. Age can work for you or against you when it comes to the dynamics...

Stepkids: No matter their age, they can bring lots of joy…or challenges. Which “camp” are you in? Gil and Brenda will tackle some common situations that stepfamilies experience. “You’re not my Dad/Mom.” “I can do whatever I want at my Mom’s house.” “Your rules are bad here, you are so mean.” Sound familiar? In today’s episode, you will learn that you are not alone. Your kiddos may be still in the home or living on their own now. Age can work for you or against you when it comes to the dynamics...

All marriages will benefit from this episode! Catch Phrases Part 2 Here we go with 4 more terms to share: Foxholes, Phantoms, Short Accounts and Unconscious Undertoes. Gil and Brenda share how using these terms have healed past hurts, helped in the area of forgiveness and has built trust in their relationship. Bring clarity and understanding to your relationship by using these terms. Gil and Brenda encourage you to make up your own! Using this communication shortcut has saved them hours of mis...

All marriages will benefit from this episode! 1 + 1 = 3 Intersubjectivity. Say what? Listen to how this applies to your marriage. Gil and Brenda will talk about Apple Martinis, Fred, Iris and the Beachfront. Your marriage has its own personality. How’s “it” doing? Learn how to check in with each other and improve the health of your marriage. When we both are intentional in our marriage amazing things will happen. And, we get our needs met. Crazy how that happens. The best gift we can give our ...

All marriages will benefit from this episode! Catch Phrases Part 2 Here we go with 4 more terms to share: Foxholes, Phantoms, Short Accounts and Unconscious Undertoes. Gil and Brenda share how using these terms have healed past hurts, helped in the area of forgiveness and has built trust in their relationship. Bring clarity and understanding to your relationship by using these terms. Gil and Brenda encourage you to make up your own! Using this communication shortcut has saved them hours of mis...