When Did Life Stop Being Fun?

We tend to think growing up means becoming more serious—but what if it also means quietly losing something essential? In this Self-Coaching episode, we explore the shift from the spontaneous, carefree joy of childhood to the more measured, self-conscious way we move through adult life. Through everyday examples—and a simple visit to a playground—you’ll begin to see how natural playfulness doesn’t disappear… it just gets buried under habit, responsibility, and self-monitoring. This isn’t about trying to be a child again. It’s about recognizing that the spark is still there—and learning how to stop holding it back. You’ll come away with a fresh perspective on why we suppress lightness, and how small moments of humor, spontaneity, and ease can begin to re-enter your life—without effort, and without pretending.