Superfreak
Superfreak shares tiny insights to level up your performance, results, energy and experiences in every area of life. This is where we become immune to fear, failure and feeble thinking. With 9X world champion Martial artist & life-coach, Hayley Carr.
Recent Episodes
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Aug. 14, 2025
On Raising Your Standards, Even in Difficult Times
What if your results in business, relationships, health, and money were not about luck or talent at all? What if they were simply a reflection of the standards you have set for yourself, often without even realising it? In this episode, we talk about the quiet, unconscious benchmarks that shape every decision you make and every result you get. I share why raising your standards can feel strange or even unsafe at first, how they can erode without you noticing, and why even small, gentle upgrade
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June 19, 2025
Are you the most difficult client? How to tell if you or a client are uncoachable.
You know that client who seems stuck no matter what you try? Who says they want change, but resists every invitation to actually do the thing? Sometimes… that client is us. This one’s a little spicy, a little sobering, and a whole lot clarifying. Because if you’re in the business of helping others grow, you need to be honest about your own coachability too. And if you’re holding space for someone who’s starting to feel impossible to coach, you’ll want to hear this. This episode is a compassi
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May 22, 2025
Clarity doesn't come from thinking harder - it comes from this.
G'day my loves – I'm recording this one from a very rainy, very cozy lounge room, with a fire crackling, some soothing music in the background, and the river quite literally creeping up to my window. So today's episode has big cozy, calm, candle-lit vibes. But we’re talking about something so many of us grapple with, clarity, especially when we’re trying to make big decisions or navigate uncertainty. Here’s the truth: Clarity doesn’t come from thinking harder or trying harder. It comes when w
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May 15, 2025
14 ways high performers get stuck (and the cost of staying there)
You don’t have to be burned out to be stuck. Sometimes “stuck” looks like being wildly capable… but quietly dissatisfied. You’re busy. Booked. On paper, things are working. But underneath? Something’s off. This episode is a loving call-out for creatives, high performers, leaders and business owners who feel like they’re doing all the things, and still not getting what they came for. We're unpacking the sneaky, subtle ways high-functioning people stay stuck, the real cost of staying there,
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May 8, 2025
Think you need more discipline, motivation or organisation? Think again.
You don’t need another planner. Or a better routine. Or more motivation. What you might need is to rethink how you define discipline and why your strategies keep falling apart. This episode unpacks the real reason so many smart, ambitious people fall off track. And no, it’s not because you’re lazy, disorganised or uncommitted. We cover: Why motivation is unreliable and what to rely on instead How structure can feel supportive rather than restrictive The identity shift that makes habits
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May 1, 2025
What no-one tells you about becoming exceptional (and the skill you need to get there)
If you’ve been doing all the “right” things but it still feels sticky, off, or oddly lonely, this one’s for you. You’re not broken. You’re not behind. You’re not missing anything. You’re just crossing a threshold most people don’t talk about. You're on your way to becoming exceptional. And yes, it can feel weird. In this episode, we take a breath and a good honest look at: Why the road to mastery often feels quieter (and wobblier) than you’d expect The invisible gap between being high-functio