Episodes

Embracing the Unknown A Conversation with Sue Jay Johnson and Joe Richman (Season 3 | Episode 248) Welcome back, beautiful listeners, to another reflection from the host’s chair of The Open Nesters Podcast. As Amir and I wrap up this incredible season, we had the absolute privilege of welcoming back two of our favorite returning guests, Sue Jaye Johnson and Joe Richman. Since we last spoke with them a couple of years ago, they have fully transitioned into this vibrant, sometimes chaotic chap...

Navigating the Empty Nest: How to Downsize and Reimagine Your Future (Season 6 | Episode 247) with Ya How to Downsize and Reimagine Your Future [TESSA] Welcome back to the Open Nesters Podcast blog! In our latest episode of Season 6, we continue our mission of trading empty for open, opening the door to new adventures, vibrant health, and reimagined relationships. Amir and I had the absolute pleasure of welcoming back one of our favorite guests, our dear friend Ya. Since she and her partner ...

Midlife Sexuality & Open Relationships (Season 6 | Episode 246) with Dr. Rosalyn Dischiavo Embracing Your Act 3: Sexuality, Identity, and the Golden Shadow [AMIR] Welcome back to The Open Nesters Podcast blog! We are your hosts, Tessa and Amir, and today we are taking a dive straight into our archives to revisit one of our most profound, perspective-shifting discussions. In this special episode, we welcome back Dr. Rosalyn Dischiavo—affectionately known as Dr. Roz—founder of the Institute fo...

Community and Polyamory (Season 6 | Episode 245) with Chandra Kantor [TESSA] In this episode, we speak with Chandra Kantor about community, aging, and the way relationships can become more mutual over time. Chandra shares that she is entering her 50th year, teaches yoga, works as a life coach, and is a mother of three boys. She describes her family structure, including co-parenting with her first husband and being in a committed open relationship with her current husband. Redefining Family D...

Lessons in Trust and Connection (Season 6 | Episode 244) with Adam and Isaac Paulman [TESSA] Welcome back, Open Nesters! Amir and I are so excited to dive into a truly special conversation today. In this episode, we sit down with a remarkable father-son duo, Adam and Isaac Paulman. Together, we explore the delicate art of modern masculinity, conscious parenting, and the lifelong journey of knowing when to hold on and when to completely surrender. Trading the empty nest for an open one means o...

Pleasure Doesn’t Care About Wrinkles (Season 6 | Episode 243) with Joan Price Welcome to another episode of the Open Nesters podcast, where Amir and I trade our empty nest for an open one filled with vibrant health, relationships, and endless possibilities. This week, I had the absolute honor of sitting down with Joan Price, an 82-year-old senior sex expert and an incredible advocate for aging and sexuality. Joan brings such a refreshing, realistic, and wildly open perspective to what she cal...

The Slow Movement (Season 6 | Episode 242) with Carl Honore We speak with Carl Honoré about life in the open nesting stage and how family relationships change as children become adults. He describes living in London with his wife and their two children, and says that his relationship with them now feels more equal, with more room for debate and different points of view. The Slow Movement We also talk about how open nesting has affected time with his wife. He says they now travel together mo...

Estrangement, Healing, and Repair (Season 6 | Episode 241) with Joy Okoye This conversation focuses on estrangement, ambiguous grief, and repair in family relationships, especially between parents and adult children. Joy Lynn Okoye describes her current work as centered on writing, meditation, and the relationship between relational integrity and grief. Estrangement, Healing and Repair She explains that her experience with estrangement is personal and complex. She was estranged from her mot...

Palle Bo Finds a Home (Season 6 | Episode 240) with Palle Bo Palle Bo explains that after his children left home, he sold his house, car, and furniture in 2016 and began traveling full time. He says he has visited 127 countries and spent one year moving through 30 countries and sleeping in 105 different beds. Over time, he has slowed down and now returns regularly to Cape Town and Chiang Mai. Palle Bo Finds a Home He describes a recent change in Chiang Mai, where he rented a 12-month apartm...

TASMAN SEA REFLECTIONS (Season 6 | Episode 239) with Tessa & Amir In this episode we reflect on traveling as open nesters during a cruise off the coast of New Zealand. We talk about being away from home for nearly three weeks, the first difficult days at sea, and what it feels like to try to stay present when the weather, the ship, and the journey are uncomfortable. TASMAN SEA REFLECTIONS We discuss the idea of openness to experience and how travel can bring up fear, anxiety, and questions ...

Solo Travel Outside Your Comfort Zone (Season 6 | Episode 238) with Mia Bolden In this episode we speak with Mia Bolden about her work with women’s empowerment, coaching, and solo travel. We discuss how her own healing journey led her into fitness, speaking, and coaching, and how she began working with many women who were empty nesters, single, or starting over. Solo Travel Outside Your Comfort Zone We talk about the experiences that shaped her path, including body image struggles, low conf...

The Plan is… No Plan (Season 6 | Episode 237) with Dave and Veronica In this episode of the Open Nesters podcast, we revisit a compelling conversation from January 2021, featuring David and Veronica James, famously known as the Gypsy Nesters. Despite the lingering uncertainties of the pandemic, David and Veronica’s adventurous spirit shines through as they share their journey transitioning from traditional home life to full-time globetrotting. As pioneers of the midlife travel movement, they ...

Turning on the Light (Season 6 | Episode 236) with Tami Nora and Karen Yadovsky In this episode, I continue my enlightening conversation with Karen and Tammy, who previously joined us to discuss the transformative journey of embracing our roles as open nesters. We delve into the poignant theme of reclaiming self-worth while exploring the powerful concept of nurturing our inner child. We begin by reflecting on how our past experiences shape our understanding of relationships, particularly in t...

The Team of Your Soul (Season 6 | Episode 235) with Tami Nora and Karen Yadovsky [TESSA] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we delve into the concept of “open nesting” as a transformative stage of life post-parenthood. As my partner and I embraced this new chapter after our children left home, we discovered a world of possibilities waiting for us. Instead of viewing ourselves as empty nesters, we chose to remain open to new experiences, broadening our horizons through travel and dee...

No Shame Tackling Sex Taboos (Season 6 | Episode 234) with CJ and Linwood [TESSA] In this episode of the Open Nesters podcast, we delve into the rich and intricate world of modern relationships through the lens of our remarkable guests, CJ (Carmen) and Linwood. Their story began with an online meeting that blossomed into a deep connection spanning continents—from Australia to California—demonstrating that love knows no borders. We explore their unique journey through non-monogamy, the courage...

Sex and Science (Season 6 | Episode 233) with Dr. Laurie Mintz [TESSA] In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative journey of life as open nesters, exploring how the post-childrearing phase can open doors to new relationships and adventures. As my partner and I embrace this new chapter, we firmly believe that it is not just a transition, but an opportunity to enrich our lives beyond the conventional notions of empty nesting. The conversation aims to inspire others to see this stage a...

Midlife Love Out Loud (Season 6 | Episode 232) Why Vulnerability is Your New Superpower with Junie Moon [TESSA] Today we delve into the transformative journey of navigating midlife, relationships, and the complexities of self-discovery with the insightful Junie Moon. Together we explore the concept of being “open nesters” rather than empty nesters, shedding light on how this perspective opens doors to new experiences, deeper connections with family, and the excitement of re-entering the dating...

A New Path to Dating (Season 6 | Episode 231) with Jason McGarva [TESSA] In this episode, we delve into the transformative journey of embracing life after children with Jason McGarva, a seasoned dating and confidence coach. As my partner and I step into our new roles as Open Nesters, we explore the concept of conscious dating and the potential for deeper connections during this stage of life. Jason shares his insights on how our past experiences shape our current relationships and how we can c...

Voice of Choice (Season 6 | Episode 230) with Kim DeYoung [TESSA] In this episode of the Open Nester Podcast, we engage with Kim DeYoung, a choice coach and author, who shares her insights on navigating life transitions in the open nester phase. As we explore the themes of vibrant health, relationships, and self-discovery, Kim illustrates how redefining our perspectives on aging can lead to a life full of possibilities. She emphasizes the transformation from being “empty nesters” to “open nest...

ECSTASY and Riding Your Horse with Barbara Carrellas [TESSA] In this episode of the Open Nesters podcast, I welcome back Barbara Carrellas, a vital voice in the conversation surrounding sex, aging, and our evolving desires. Five years since her first appearance on the show, Barbara shares her insights on not merely accepting aging but embracing it with an open heart and mind, becoming what she terms “open nesters.” We explore how our relationships—be they with our children, parents, or romanti...

Sex After 50, No Apologies with Suzanne Noble [TESSA] In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the evolving conversations surrounding sex, aging, and the open nest lifestyle with Suzanne Noble, a trailblazer in advocating for older adults embracing their sexuality. As a returning guest, Suzanne shares her journey since our last chat, discussing how her experiences have shaped her understanding of intimacy in later life. We explore the idea of being “open nesters” and how it reflects a n...

THE PATH BACK TO PLEASURE AND TRUST with Maria Merloni THE PATH [TESSA] As we navigate the season of “Love Month” here at the Open Nesters, I find myself reflecting deeply on what it means to truly inhabit our bodies and our relationships as we age. I recently had the pleasure of sitting down with Maria Merloni, a therapist and sex and relationship coach who is redefining what it looks like to turn sixty with vitality, grace, and an open heart. Maria’s journey is a powerful reminder that our “...

WILD MONOGAMY! Live! your life… with MALI and JOE WILD MONOGAMY To understand the concept of “Wild Monogamy,” one must first look at the traditional framework of the relationship. Monogamy is most commonly defined as a form of relationship where an individual has only one partner at a time, often characterized by emotional and sexual exclusivity. While this is the bedrock for many couples, the routine of long-term partnership can sometimes lead to a “tame” or predictable dynamic. This is exact...

Radical Honesty and the Many Kinds of Love with Jesse Poppick Radical Honesty (and the Many Kinds of Love) In this episode of The Open Nesters, we dive into the transformative journey of Jesse Poppick, a guest who brings a wealth of insights about love, relationships, and navigating life as an open nester. With his unique experiences, Jesse shares how his perspective on relationships has evolved, particularly through his transitions after two divorces and his experience as a father to three da...