Untoxicated Podcast
Sheri and Matt Salis just wanted a regular life–regular marriage, regular careers, a regular house, and happy kids. Instead, they lived a life of lies and terror as they struggled with Matt’s alcoholism and emotional abuse. Unfortunately, their experience is quite regular. Sheri and Matt talk to ot...
Recent Episodes
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Oct. 26, 2026
Ep371 – Long Road Back from Detachment
Sheri and Matt take a ride in the way-back machine and relive the relationship dysfunction of active addiction, the process of finding sobriety, individual growth, resentment processing, and emotional safety. There is no such thing as reattachment, but they talk about finding areas of mutually beneficial connection, and remind listeners that sobriety is a prerequisite and emotional safety has to be consistent to be effective. Please go to UntoxicatedSurvey.org to better understand the impact of
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Oct. 19, 2026
Ep370 – Jennifer on Craniosacral Therapy
If you could use some help calming your dysregulated nervous system, craniosacral therapy is worth your consideration. Along with other therapeutic practices, and an emotionally safe environment, Jennifer uses craniosacral therapy with impressive results. This lived-experience expert brings valuable wisdom about caring for our mind/body connection, including important reminders about aftercare. Please go to UntoxicatedSurvey.org to better understand the impact of alcohol and/or emotional abuse
Oct. 15, 2026
Faux Farm Boy
This is the audio version of the essay from my Underlying Issues Substack. To subscribe to read about more of my underlying issues, please click this link or go to substack.com and search for the Underlying Issues publication.
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Oct. 12, 2026
Ep369 – The Guilt of Womanhood
Sheri feels guilty about things that Matt would never feel guilty about if the roles were reversed. Is it instincts or is it conditioning? Listen to find out. At the end, Matt tries to convince Sheri that there are things she does that deserve some womanly guilt. She doesn’t hold back, nor does she feel guilty, with her reaction. Please go to UntoxicatedSurvey.org to better understand the impact of alcohol and/or emotional abuse on you and your family. Whether you are the drinker or the partner
Oct. 8, 2026
Beige Penis Privilege
This is the audio version of the essay from my Underlying Issues Substack. To subscribe to read about more of my underlying issues, please click this link or go to substack.com and search for the Underlying Issues publication.
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Oct. 5, 2026
Ep368 – Feeling Judged
Being judged for our actions and opinions is one thing. Feeling judged long after the judgement has stopped is something else entirely. Moving past the feelings judgement takes the hard work and patience of growth and discovery. Please go to UntoxicatedSurvey.org to better understand the impact of alcohol and/or emotional abuse on you and your family. Whether you are the drinker or the partner, whether you feel a lack of emotional safety or don’t really know what that means, we can help you fee