Episodes
71
May 24, 2021
#71: A Mindset to Make New Habits Stick
A Mindset to Make New Habits Stick Welcome to the Mindset for LIfe Podcast. I'm happy to share with you that there is a strategy to make new habits stick. Why is it that we start these habits, and they never last very long? Today, we talk about what it takes to make new habits stick. And it's all about this: the idea of a fresh start. We have rituals and routines that center around new beginnings and the possibilities that come with them. It’s as if life moves in cycles, each one bringing the id...
65
April 6, 2021
#65: A Mindset for Self-Compassion
In today's podcast, join me for a dive into a mindset for self-compassion. For the reference article I mention during this podcast, visit https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_five_myths_of_self_compassion.
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March 24, 2021
#64: Hidden Saboteurs
Have you ever set a well-intentioned goal, and felt like you had hidden saboteurs in your way? Your amazing traits, your values, and your character strengths can sometimes sneak up and stop your progress. In today's podcast, you will learn about ways in which your special traits can stand in your way. And, you will find encouragement to keep moving forward through these hidden challenges. Some external resources that support today's topic you might enjoy.... The Real Reason People Won't Change.....
63
March 16, 2021
#63: A Mindset for Reframing the Future
In today's episode, we'll discuss reframing. It's a method for looking at something in a new perspective.
62
March 1, 2021
#62: A Mindset for Working from Home
Are you working from home? A mindset for working from home means that you can experience confidence, fulfillment, and joy while working from home. And you can experience life balance and quality relationships while working from home. Does this sound like a dream? It's not. It is entirely possible. Join me for today's podcast, to get encouragement and tips to develop a mindset for working from home. What is challenging when you're working from home? When working from home, it is easy to allow the...
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Jan. 25, 2021
#59: Real Obstacles
There are real obstacles that hold us back from making changes and getting what we want in life. It's easy to identify an obstacle that is external. Perhaps it's your situation. Another person being difficult. Money. Time. And one area that presents obstacles to our progress is our inner thinking. We are surrounded by our thoughts, and they seem like reality to us. We believe what we think. Yet sometimes, in an effort to help us, our brains return to thoughts that are less than helpful. In fact,...
58
Jan. 18, 2021
#58: How to Make Better Decisions
Today on the podcast, learn how to make better decisions through two strategies. Although decisions can be as unique as you are, you can make them with confidence when using your sensory modalities (the VAK), and a conscious reflection process.
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Jan. 6, 2021
#57: Control, Influence, and Everything Else
Have you thought about your control, influence, and everything else outside of those two zones? It might surprise you, but we spend a lot of time, energy, and effort on things we cannot control. Getting clear on these areas can help you restore energy for things you can control and have a better impact.
56
Dec. 27, 2020
#56: How to Use Your Emotions and Make Decisions
In today's podcast, gain insight about the complexity of emotions, how to identify and feel your emotions, and how to use emotions in decision-making. Many of us believe that emotions make things less clear. It’s this idea that facts speak for themselves, but emotions are much more subjective. In fact, when we feel difficult emotions about a relationship, a situation, or a decision to be made, it’s those feelings that keep us from knowing what we should do. It might surprise you to learn that we...
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Nov. 30, 2020
#54, Reach Your Goals: Break Through Three Things That Keep You From Goal Success
This week, on the Mindset for Life Podcast, we look at how you can reach your goals by confronting three things that keep you from goal success. Have you ever considered making New Year’s resolutions? Have you set goals at the beginning of each year? If you want to make a change in your life, big or small, the new year seems a clean way to do it. The calendar changes, and it seems that we have a fresh start. But is it really true? We bring our same assumptions, ideas, and inner thoughts with us ...
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Oct. 26, 2020
#50: Managing Difficult Relationships
In today's podcast, we'll look at a fun fall activity: the Linder Farms Corn Maze., a great metaphor for navigating life and managing difficult relationships.
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Oct. 19, 2020
#49: We Are All Excellent Storytellers
We are all excellent storytellers. We have the power within us to interpret, explain, analyze, and clarify things that happen in our lives. This power can be used to strengthen us and open possibilities. Our storytelling can connect us to other people. Or, we can use storytelling to justify, excuse, diminish, and victimize. It's amazing to consider our own storytelling abilities and what they bring us in life. In today's podcast, I'll share a few perspectives and examples of storytelling. You wi...
48
Oct. 12, 2020
#48: How to Wake Up Happy
In today's Mindset for Life Podcast, we'll explore how to wake up happy. You can wake up happier and motivated, wake up energized, and wake up and feel positive about the day. Do you ever wake up feeling bad? Perhaps you have inflammation in your face or body? Or you feel disgruntled, and it stays with you throughout the day? If you have these experiences, chances are that you would like to feel better in the morning. After all, waking up happier, motivated, and energized can start your day well...
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Oct. 5, 2020
#47: A Self-Coaching Mindset
#47: A Self-Coaching MindsetWelcome to the Mind Set For Life podcast. This is Bethanie your coach from DrBCoach.com. Coaching with power, purpose, and practical tools to help you show up with confidence. Welcome to the podcast. Thank you for joining me today. I'm very excited to talk to you about a self coaching mindset. Last week, we talked about a coaching mindset. Some of the key points I brought up centered around this whole idea of curiosity—genuinely being curious about other people. In or...
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Sept. 14, 2020
#44: How to Get Clarity
If you have ever faced a big challenge, you're already aware; it is critical to know how to get clarity. How It Feels to Have a Big Challenge It hurts to face a big challenge and have no idea how to resolve it. It's painful, frustrating, and raw. If you're facing a big challenge you have never faced before, there's this conversation that might go on in your mind. On the one hand, you might think that this is a common problem. Maybe everyone else has experienced what you're facing. Somehow, perha...
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Sept. 7, 2020
#43: Storytelling About the Past
This is episode 43, Storytelling About the Past. Have you ever told a story about the past? Or, maybe someone in your family told it about you? And in that story, you did something silly, or odd, or embarrassing? When that story is told, it's just another reminder of our weakness or frailty. Or, maybe about our mistakes. And the brain, which likes to draw conclusions quickly to save its energy, the brain screams out, “Yes! We really were silly, or embarrassing, or made a major mistake, and we al...
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Aug. 30, 2020
#42: Simplify Your Life
Today’s podcast is about simplifying. Have you heard of “minimalism?” It’s the idea that we don’t really need everything we have in our lives. It could be material possessions. Or activities. Events we plan to attend.
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Aug. 24, 2020
#41: Mindset for Advocacy, or, to “Toot Your Own Horn”
Have a Mindset to Advocate for yourself, or in other Words, “Toot Your Own Horn” Have you ever wondered how to advocate for your best traits, or "toot your own horn?" Sharing what you're good at takes a courageous, confident mindset. I’ve coached a lot of individuals from all walks of life and career areas who wanted more confidence. That isn’t what they said when they asked to be coached. But it was what they were seeking. What Do People Want? At first, we want to figure out how to be happier a...