Episodes

Aug. 6, 2024

Recharge and Reconnect to What Truly Matters

My strong is slowing down and enjoying the simplicity of life. As summer gradually winds down and fall begins to approach, it’s the perfect time to start thinking about how we can reflect, recharge, and reconnect with what truly matters. The transition from the busy, energetic days of summer to the calmer, cooler days of fall offers a natural pause, inviting us to slow down and tune into the rhythms of nature. This gradual shift in seasons serves as a gentle reminder to take a step back and asse...
July 26, 2024

Day 22: Holding Yourself in Contempt

My strong is embracing self-compassion amidst self-criticism. Welcome to Day 22 of our “me-first” journey! Yesterday, we talked about finding hope in broken places. Today, we’re diving into the impact of holding ourselves in contempt and how it affects our journey to a “me-first” life. This step is crucial for understanding how self-criticism can hinder our well-being and reinforce hyper-independence. Holding yourself in contempt is more than just an internal struggle; it shapes how you live and...
July 25, 2024

Day 21: Finding Hope in Broken Places

My strong is finding light in the midst of darkness. Welcome to Day 21 of our “me-first” journey! Yesterday, we talked about knowing when to walk away. Today, we’re focusing on finding hope in broken places. This step is about more than just seeing the silver lining—it’s about discovering how hope can be a guiding light even in the most challenging times. We’ve all encountered moments when life feels scattered and overwhelming. During these times, hope can seem like a distant memory. But finding...
July 24, 2024

Day 20: Knowing When to Walk Away

My strong is know when to let of what no longer serves me. Welcome to Day 20 of our “me-first” journey! Yesterday, we dove into focusing on what we can control, and today, we’re tackling another crucial topic: knowing when to walk away.This step is about more than just moving on—it’s about making space for what truly nurtures you. We’ve all faced moments when staying in a job or relationship, despite its draining impact, seems like the only option. But knowing when to walk away from these situat...
July 23, 2024

Day 19: Focusing on What You Can Control

My strong is focusing on things I can control. Welcome to Day 19 of our “me-first” journey! Yesterday, we chatted about overcoming fear, and today, we’re exploring a closely related challenge—focusing on things you can control. This discussion is vital as we continue to evolve away from old, restrictive habits and toward a life where we handle uncertainties with grace and ease. Focusing on what you can control is crucial to avoiding regression into old habits that no longer serve us. Change is c...
July 22, 2024

Day 18: Overcoming Fear When Shift Happens

My strong is overcoming fear to live a truly empowered life. Welcome to Day 18 of our “me-first” journey! Yesterday we talked about embracing change. Today, we’re discussing its close cousin, overcoming the fear of the unknown. Just like change, fear of the unknown often bubbles up when we start altering long-held patterns. It’s crucial to confront and manage this fear to prevent slipping back into those familiar but limiting behaviors. Overcoming fear is not just about suppressing our anxieties...
July 20, 2024

Day 17: Embracing Change When Life Gets Messy

My strong is embracing change to live a truly “me-first” life. Welcome to Day 17 of our “me-first” journey! Yesterday, we tackled breaking generational curses. Today, we shift gears to discuss embracing change. Change often follows once we start dismantling old patterns, and it’s important to handle it well to avoid reverting to those old habits. Embracing change isn’t just about dealing with the new—it’s about truly transforming our approach to life’s challenges. As we’ve started to break away ...
July 19, 2024

Day 16: Breaking Generational Curses

My strong is breaking free from generational curses so I can live my best “me-first” life. Welcome to Day 16 of our “me-first” journey! Yesterday, we explored building a meaningful legacy, and today, we’re taking an important step forward, breaking generational curses. These are patterns passed down through generations, often subconsciously, that can hold us back from fully embracing a “me-first” life. We’re really getting into the thick of things with how generational curses, especially hyper-i...
July 18, 2024

Day 15: Building a Legacy That Matters

My strong is building a legacy that transcends material possessions. Welcome to Day 15 of our “me-first” journey! We’ve reached the halfway mark, and today we’re talking about buiilding a legacy that matters —specifically, the kind of impact we leave behind. It’s not just about generational heirlooms or grand gestures; it’s about the everyday choices and the love we share that truly define our legacy. Building a legacy starts with understanding its profound impact on both your life and those aro...
July 17, 2024

Day 14: Taking Care of Your Body and Physical Health

My strong is in honoring my body as the powerful vessel it is. Welcome to Day 14 of our “me-first” journey! Today, we’re talking about taking care of your body When You’re taking care of your body you’re also taking care of your mind and spiritPhysical health isn’t just about how you look; it’s deeply connected to your mental and emotional well-being. When you prioritize your physical health, you’re also nurturing your mind and spirit. Taking care of your body starts with recognizing its importa...
July 16, 2024

Day 13: Finding a Reason to Wake up in the Mornings

My strong is waking up each day with a sense of purpose and passion. Welcome to Day 13 of our “me-first” journey! Today, we’re diving into finding a reason to wake up in the morning. It’s so easy to lose ourselves in the hustle and bustle of daily life, but this journey is about discovering what sets your soul on fire and gives you a sense of purpose beyond just your day to day obligations. We want to wake up with excitement and intention, ready to embrace the day with a fire that fuels your sou...
July 15, 2024

Day 12: Balancing Prioritizing Yourself and Handling Your Responsibilities

My strong is finding harmony between prioritizing myself and handling my responsibilities. Welcome to Day 12 of our “me-first” journey! Today we’re talking about how to balance prioritizing yourself with managing your responsibilities. It’s about integrating self-care into your daily routine without neglecting your commitments. In priortizing yourself, it’s important not to use self-care or “me-first” as excuses to dodge responsibilities. You know, it’s easy to get caught up in saying “I’m in my...
July 13, 2024

Day 11: Creating a [Saturday] Morning Routine

My strong is starting each day with a morning routine that centers my well-being and sets a positive tone for the day. Welcome to Day 11 of our “me-first” journey! Today, we’re diving into the importance of creating a morning routine that centers your well-being. It’s all about starting your day with intention, dedicating time to yourself, and setting a positive tone for the rest of the week. By establishing a me-first morning routine, you honor your needs and create a foundation of self-care th...
July 12, 2024

Day 10: Validating Your Feelings and Experiences

My strong is recognizing and honoring my own feelings and experiences even when no one else does. Welcome to Day 10 of our “me-first” journey! Today, we’re diving into the importance of validating your feelings and experiences. It’s all about recognizing and honoring your feelings and experiences, even when others may not, and trusting that your perspective is valid and important. Validating your experiences is about giving yourself permission to feel and acknowledge your emotions and perspectiv...
July 10, 2024

Day 9: Building Great Relationships with Great People

My strong is creating deep, meaningful connections with others. Welcome to Day 9 of our “me-first” journey! Today, we’re talking about building great relationships with great people. It’s all about connecting with those who uplift and inspire us, fostering meaningful connections that support our growth and well-being Building great relationships with great people means nurturing genuine connections, celebrating each other’s strengths, and supporting one another through challenges. This practice ...
July 9, 2024

Day 8: Practicing Self-compassion

My strong is practicing self-compassion by embracing kindness and understanding towards myself. Welcome to Day 8 of our ‘me-first’ journey! Today, we’re diving deep into self-compassion. It’s about embracing kindness and understanding toward ourselves, especially when we face challenges and don’t meet our own expectations. We’ve all been there, placing unreasonable expectations on ourselves—eunrealistic demands on ourselves, seeking perfection in every decision and criticizing ourselves when we ...
July 8, 2024

Day 7: Finding Quiet Moments When Life is Loud

My strong is finding quiet moments when life is loud, creating a space for peace and serenity Welcome to Day 7 of our “me-first” journey! Today, we’re getting real about finding quiet moments when life is loud. We’re talking about how making space for peace and tranquility can change everything—bringing more balance, calm, and clarity, even when life gets hectic. Finding quiet moments isn’t just about seeking silence; it’s about honoring yourself by embracing peace and stillness. Ever caught you...
July 7, 2024

Day 6: Letting Go of the Need to Control | Trusting the Process

My strong is letting go of control to find freedom and create a life of flow. Hey there, welcome to Day 6 of our “me-first” journey! Today, we’re getting real about letting go of control. We’re talking about how releasing the need to control every aspect of your life can change everything—bringing more freedom, peace, and flow, even when things don’t go as planned. Letting go of control isn’t just about giving up power; it’s about honoring yourself by trusting the process and finding peace. Ever...
July 6, 2024

Day 5: Embracing Vulnerability for True Connection

My strong is embracing vulnerability to build deeper connections and authentic relationships. Hey there, welcome to Day 5 of our “me-first” journey! Today we’re getting real about embracing vulnerability. We’re talking about how letting your guard down and being your authentic self can change everything—making those connections deeper and life more real, even when it’s not all smooth sailing. Leaning into vulnerability isn’t just about showing your pain; it’s about honoring yourself by being rea...
July 5, 2024

Day 4: Self-Care Rituals That Nurture Your Inner Peace

My strong is embracing self-care rituals that protect and nurture my peace. Hey there, welcome to Day 4 of our “me-first” journey! Today, we’re diving into the world of self-care rituals. We’ll explore how these rituals can really make a difference in your life—bringing you peace and stability when things get hectic. Embracing self-care rituals isn’t just about going through the motions; it’s about valuing ourselves enough to prioritize what truly matters. Have you ever found yourself giving end...
July 4, 2024

Day 3: Setting Boundaries and Reclaiming Your Life

My strong is creating a lifestyle where my boundaries protect my peace. Welcome to Day 3 of our “me-first” journey! Today, we’re diving into a topic that hits home for so many of us… Setting Boundaries that Stick. We’re exploring how to reclaim our time, energy, and sanity by setting boundaries that are pillars of self-respect. Setting boundaries isn’t just about drawing lines; it’s about honoring ourselves enough to prioritize what really counts. Have you ever felt like you’re constantly giving...
July 3, 2024

Day 2: Identifying Your Priorities

My strong is building a life where my priorities align with my passions and purpose. Welcome to Day 2 of our “me-first” journey! Today, we’re talking about identifying priorities. We’re diving into the heart of prioritization and aligning your actions with what truly matters most to you. Identifying priorities isn’t just about listing tasks; it’s about understanding what drives you and aligning your actions accordingly. Many of us face the challenge of balancing multiple responsibilities and exp...
July 2, 2024

Day 1: The Dark Side of Saying Yes

My strong is saying yes only when it aligns with the life I’m creating for myself. Welcome to Day 1 of the :me-first'” series! Today, we’re tackling the dark side of saying yes. Ever felt overwhelmed and exhausted from always being the go-to person? I know I have. In this episode, I share my personal journey of learning to say no and the impact it had on my life. I discuss why saying yes all the time can lead to burnout and stress and why it’s crucial to put yourself first. I’ll give you practic...
July 1, 2024

"Me-First": A 30-Day Journey to Self-Love & Boundaries

My strong is choosing me-first! Introducing “Me-First,” a life-changing 30-day series designed to help you create the best “me-first” life ever. We’re not waiting until December to start making changes. It’s time to prioritize your happiness and well-being right now. Join us as we dive into daily tips and encouragement to move yourself back to the top of your list where you belong. Subscribe, share with your girls, and get ready to reclaim your life. Your journey to a “me-first” life starts toda...