If You Really Knew Me
Join Ben and Kim as they discuss ways to improve personal and professional relationships with some help from the Enneagram. A personality tool about motivations rather than behavior.
They will share insights on how to use this tool all while keeping Jesus at the center of your life.
Recent Episodes
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Aug. 7, 2025
Episode 19 – People of the Same Type Can Look Different - Part 2 - SUBTYPES
God’s fingerprint for each of us is SO unique and wonderful. Learn more about it on this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim dive deeper into how people of the same Enneagram type can look different from one another based on their subtypes. Remember, the better we know ourselves, the better we can connect with others. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.org I
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July 31, 2025
Episode 18 – People of the Same Type Can Look Different - Part 1 - WINGS
Do you ever wonder how people of the same Enneagram type can look so different? This is due to a variety of things: Levels of health or alignment with The Gospel (refer to episode 12); our Enneagram Wings; and our subtype. In this episode host Kim Willey and Certified Enneagram Coach, Ben Sorrells will be discussing WINGS. Each Enneagram type has two adjacent wings that we use to influence our personality and behavior. Wings are the personality types on either side of the main type. One of tho
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July 10, 2025
Episode 56 - Kid Connections
How can the Enneagram help you communicate better with your kids? If you are not supposed to "Type" others, how can you narrow down your kid's type? In this episode, hosts Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells discuss ways you can narrow down your child's type and ways to look at your own parenting style. Helpful Links: StoryJumpers Podcast - https://wearethebridge.org/storyjumpers Fathering Podcast - https://wearethebridge.org/fathering If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journe
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June 19, 2025
Episode 55 - Jordan Feliz
In this heartfelt episode, hosts Kim and Ben sit down with celebrated CCM artist Jordan Feliz. Known for hits like "The River," "Beloved," and "Jesus Is Coming Back," Jordan opens up about his Enneagram journey, how it influences his life and music, and the ways it has shaped his relationships—with his wife Jamie, their children, and those he meets on the road. Jordan candidly discusses the challenges and strengths of being an Enneagram Type 9 with a 1 wing, the importance of empathy, and how l
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June 12, 2025
Episode 54 - Honey, Let's Talk It Out
We are ALL in some type of relationship whether it be married, engaged, dating or friendship. Since communication is key in relationships, this next episode of If You Really Knew Me takes a look at each personality type’s communication style. Tune in as Ben & Kim will share how to understand, listen and respond to your significant other in a healthy way. Helpful Links: Becoming Us - Using the Enneagram To Create A Thriving, Gospel-Centered Marriage Becoming Us - Course for You and your spouse'
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May 15, 2025
Episode 53 - Meet the Band Caleb & John
They’re coming in concert to the Delaware State Fair on Tuesday, July 22nd, and you can get to know more about them BEFORE they arrive... they're Caleb and John. Check out this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim sit down with The Bridge artists Caleb and John. We learn how the Enneagram is a tool they utilize in their lives, all while keeping their focus on Jesus. WAYS TO CONNECT Newsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updat