Episodes

God’s fingerprint for each of us is SO unique and wonderful. Learn more about it on this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim dive deeper into how people of the same Enneagram type can look different from one another based on their subtypes. Remember, the better we know ourselves, the better we can connect with others. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.org I...

Do you ever wonder how people of the same Enneagram type can look so different? This is due to a variety of things: Levels of health or alignment with The Gospel (refer to episode 12); our Enneagram Wings; and our subtype. In this episode host Kim Willey and Certified Enneagram Coach, Ben Sorrells will be discussing WINGS. Each Enneagram type has two adjacent wings that we use to influence our personality and behavior. Wings are the personality types on either side of the main type. One of tho...

How can the Enneagram help you communicate better with your kids? If you are not supposed to "Type" others, how can you narrow down your kid's type? In this episode, hosts Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells discuss ways you can narrow down your child's type and ways to look at your own parenting style. Helpful Links: StoryJumpers Podcast - https://wearethebridge.org/storyjumpers Fathering Podcast - https://wearethebridge.org/fathering If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journe...

In this heartfelt episode, hosts Kim and Ben sit down with celebrated CCM artist Jordan Feliz. Known for hits like "The River," "Beloved," and "Jesus Is Coming Back," Jordan opens up about his Enneagram journey, how it influences his life and music, and the ways it has shaped his relationships—with his wife Jamie, their children, and those he meets on the road. Jordan candidly discusses the challenges and strengths of being an Enneagram Type 9 with a 1 wing, the importance of empathy, and how l...

We are ALL in some type of relationship whether it be married, engaged, dating or friendship. Since communication is key in relationships, this next episode of If You Really Knew Me takes a look at each personality type’s communication style. Tune in as Ben & Kim will share how to understand, listen and respond to your significant other in a healthy way. Helpful Links: Becoming Us - Using the Enneagram To Create A Thriving, Gospel-Centered Marriage Becoming Us - Course for You and your spouse'...

They’re coming in concert to the Delaware State Fair on Tuesday, July 22nd, and you can get to know more about them BEFORE they arrive... they're Caleb and John. Check out this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim sit down with The Bridge artists Caleb and John. We learn how the Enneagram is a tool they utilize in their lives, all while keeping their focus on Jesus. WAYS TO CONNECT Newsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updat...

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to show the specific areas that we need to let Christ transform. For each type, we'll look at our view, where we get stuck, how we try to fix it, and what we can become in Christ. WAYS TO CONNECT Newsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and show notes. ...

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to point out how the Gospel frees you to become your best self. We'll look at what our Auto-Pilot or average mindset, our unhealthy version, and our healthy selves in each type can look like. WAYS TO CONNECT Newsletter: Subscribe for further information about enneagram types and regular updates from the podcast. Visit our website, wearethebridge.org/enneagram, to subscribe and find more episodes, resources, and ...

Has someone ever wronged you, and you can’t seem to get past it? Maybe you struggle with even wanting to forgive the person. On this podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben & Kim talk about the seven steps of forgiveness and how it’s affected by our enneagram type and the process you walk through. Feel free to reference this below in case you need more to chat about: Forgiveness is something we ALL have to tackle. If you are struggling today, I encourage you to seek the Lord. Only He ca...

In this insightful episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Kim and Ben welcome Pastor Larry Davis, an experienced leader in managing change within church communities. The episode delves into the complexities of change, likening it to a grieving process, and discusses how different personalities navigate change. Pastor Larry introduces his book, "Grieving the Loss of the Church You Love," highlighting how understanding the emotional aspect of change can aid in smoother transitions. The convers...

This episode is part 2 of a discussion about grief, featuring licensed clinical professional counselor Chelsea Steinsdorfer. Hosts Kim Willey and Certified Enneagram Coach Ben Sorrells explore how different Enneagram types experience and process grief, including common behaviors, challenges, and helpful coping strategies for each type. KEY TAKEAWAYS Each Enneagram type has distinct needs and ways of processing grief Understanding your type can help identify healthy ways to work through grief ...

In this episode, licensed clinical professional counselor Chelsea Steinsdorfer joins hosts Kim and Ben to discuss grief, its various seasons, and how different Enneagram types may experience loss. Chelsea shares her personal journey through grief, including the loss of her father and years of infertility, and how these experiences shaped her approach to grief counseling. The conversation explores the five seasons of grief - denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance - and how grief m...

Has anxiety and fear ever gripped you so tight that you didn’t know how to respond to it? Sometimes, as believers, we can feel shame over the inability to handle anxiety and fear. In this episode, hosts Ben Sorrells and Kim discuss anxiety, its various forms, and how different personality types (using the Enneagram framework) experience and handle anxiety. They share personal experiences and provide practical strategies for managing anxiety, emphasizing the importance of seeking professional he...

How well do you get along with your co-workers? Understanding each other's motivation is KEY to having a great work relationship with team members. On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with staff members of The Bridge for PART TWO discussion on ways your team can work through conflict. You’ll hear lots of laughter and get an inside look at how our Bridge family works with AND connects with each other. WAYS TO CONNECT Newsletter: Subscribe for further...

Do you find it difficult to get along with your co-workers? Sometimes it may even seem like you’re on different planets. On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with staff members of The Bridge to discuss ways our team works through conflict and how understanding each other’s motivation can make your work life much easier. If you work with a group of people day-in and day-out, you know how important it is to get along. At The Bridge, we take this to heart....

How do YOU handle Christmas each year? Do you enjoy shopping and being around lots of people? How are you at giving and receiving gifts? On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim sit down with some Bridge staff members for fun conversations about how each personality type does Christmas. SPEAKERS AND THEIR ROLES Ben Sorrells:** Host, Certified Enneagram Coach, Enneagram Type 2 Kim:** Host, Enneagram Type 3 Rachel:** Guest, Community Engagement Specialist, Enneagr...

In this enlightening episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells delve into the core traits, strengths, and challenges faced by Type 9 individuals, aptly named the Peacemakers. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, the hosts explore the profound lessons all Enneagram types can learn from a healthy Type 9, emphasizing patience, the importance of having one's voice heard, and the creation of safe spaces for open communication. KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. ORIENTATIO...

In this heartfelt episode, hosts Kim and Ben welcome Jeremy Rosado, a contestant "American Idol" Season 11 and "The Voice" Season 21, to explore his life and Enneagram journey. Jeremy, a Type Two with a Three wing, discusses how his enneagram type profoundly influences his personal life, relationships, faith, and music career. He shares intimate stories about his family, particularly the significant impact of rescuing his sister from addiction, and how this inspired some of his most touching s...

How has God’s strength and protection been on display in your life? Maybe he has spared you from harm or given you boldness in a situation. On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim share personal stories of God’s strength and protection AND how we can learn to reflect these characteristics of God. In this insightful episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Kim Willey and Ben Sorrells delve into the characteristics and spiritual reflections of Enneagram Type Eights...

In this enlightening episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Ben and Kim welcome special guest Beth McCord, an Enneagram speaker and author, to discuss the insights and wisdom from her new book "Enneagram for Moms." Beth shares her journey of discovering the unique struggles and strengths of different moms, which was largely influenced by a heartfelt conversation with her husband. The episode delves into the challenges of societal mom-guilt, the freedom found through Jesus in understanding on...

In this enlightening episode of "If You Really Knew Me," hosts Ben and Kim chat with special guest Tyler Zach, and dive into an engaging discussion about the Enneagram and its implications for Christians. Tyler, a certified Enneagram coach who has recently transitioned from pastoral ministry to coaching and homeschooling, dispels common misconceptions about the Enneagram and positions it as a valuable tool for self-understanding and personal growth. The conversation also touches on Tyler's devo...

What happens when a music promoter from a Christian record label sits down to chat with some folks at The Bridge? Find out on this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim enjoy a fun and engaging conversation with Christina Kosters —National Promotion Manager at Capitol Christian Music Group— and walk her through figuring out her personality type and the motivations behind what she does. When your personality and your career line up, it’s a beautiful thing. If You Really...

If you attended The Bridge’s Bring the Joy ladies conference in January, you won’t want to miss this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me as Ben and Kim sit down with author, speaker and Joy Bringer, Season Bowers. Even if you didn’t attend this event, you will still enjoy Season’s passion about God’s word and how she navigates the relationships in her life through the lens of the Enneagram. If You Really Knew Me can be found at We Are The Bridge dot org slash podcast, on The Bridge...

Have you ever wondered how someone can be at peace and even joyful in the midst of a difficult situation? That’s because joy isn’t fleeting. It doesn’t exit the room when bad circumstances arrive. On this month’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me Ben and Kim discuss how we can learn to walk in Godly joy. If You Really Knew Me can be found at We Are The Bridge dot org slash podcast, on The Bridge app, OR wherever you listen to podcasts. Bible Verses: Romans 15:13 ~ May the God of hope fi...