Episodes

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April 15, 2022

Episode 15 - Navigating Grief - Part 2

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer and may use in a future episode. Special Guest: Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPC Resource: To find a therapist in your area visit psychologytoday.com Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit you...
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April 15, 2022

Episode 15 - Navigating Grief - Part 2

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer and may use in a future episode. Special Guest: Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPC Resource: To find a therapist in your area visit psychologytoday.com Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit you...
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April 15, 2022

Episode 14 - Navigating Grief - Part 1

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer and may use in a future episode. Special Guest: Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPC Resource: To find a therapist in your area visit psychologytoday.com Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit you...
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April 15, 2022

Episode 14 - Navigating Grief - Part 1

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer and may use in a future episode. Special Guest: Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPC Resource: To find a therapist in your area visit psychologytoday.com Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit you...
14
April 15, 2022

Episode 14 - Navigating Grief - Part 1

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to grieve. If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. We also would like to hear your questions about the Enneagram that we will answer and may use in a future episode. Special Guest: Chelsea Steinsdoerfer, LCPC Resource: To find a therapist in your area visit psychologytoday.com Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit you...
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Feb. 18, 2022

Episode 13 - Becoming Your Best Self - Part 2 - Virtues

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to show the specific areas that we need to let Christ transform. For each type, we'll look at what our view is, where we get stuck, how we try to fix it, and what we can become in Christ. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.org If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. If ...
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Feb. 18, 2022

Episode 13 - Becoming Your Best Self - Part 2 - Virtues

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to show the specific areas that we need to let Christ transform. For each type, we'll look at what our view is, where we get stuck, how we try to fix it, and what we can become in Christ. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.org If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. If ...
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Feb. 18, 2022

Episode 13 - Becoming Your Best Self - Part 2 - Virtues

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to show the specific areas that we need to let Christ transform. For each type, we'll look at what our view is, where we get stuck, how we try to fix it, and what we can become in Christ. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.org If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. If ...
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Jan. 21, 2022

Episode 12 - Becoming Your Best Self - Part 1 - Levels of Alignment with The Gospel

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to point out how the Gospel frees you to become your best self. We'll look at what our Auto-Pilot or average mindset looks like, our unhealthy version, and our healthy selves in each type can look like. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.org If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journe...
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Jan. 21, 2022

Episode 12 - Becoming Your Best Self - Part 1 - Levels of Alignment with The Gospel

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to point out how the Gospel frees you to become your best self. We'll look at what our Auto-Pilot or average mindset looks like, our unhealthy version, and our healthy selves in each type can look like. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.org If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journe...
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Jan. 21, 2022

Episode 12 - Becoming Your Best Self - Part 1 - Levels of Alignment with The Gospel

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss using the Enneagram to point out how the Gospel frees you to become your best self. We'll look at what our Auto-Pilot or average mindset looks like, our unhealthy version, and our healthy selves in each type can look like. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enneagram question to ben@wearethebridge.org If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journe...
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Dec. 9, 2021

Episode 11 - Enneagram Stances - Our Default Mode

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss Enneagram Stances. Stances describe HOW we carry ourselves - a patterned way of responding to experiences...It’s like our default mode. On most episodes, we separate out each type and describe how they handle situations, however, today is a bit different. In this episode, we will also show how some types share the same stances. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enne...
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Dec. 9, 2021

Episode 11 - Enneagram Stances - Our Default Mode

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss Enneagram Stances. Stances describe HOW we carry ourselves - a patterned way of responding to experiences...It’s like our default mode. On most episodes, we separate out each type and describe how they handle situations, however, today is a bit different. In this episode, we will also show how some types share the same stances. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enne...
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Dec. 9, 2021

Episode 11 - Enneagram Stances - Our Default Mode

In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Kim and Ben discuss Enneagram Stances. Stances describe HOW we carry ourselves - a patterned way of responding to experiences...It’s like our default mode. On most episodes, we separate out each type and describe how they handle situations, however, today is a bit different. In this episode, we will also show how some types share the same stances. Would you like to have YOUR question answered and maybe even featured on a future episode? Submit your enne...
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Nov. 12, 2021

Episode 10 - The Enneagram at Work

In life, we all want to be known and understood. This is also very important in our jobs as well. Check out this week’s podcast episode of If you Really Knew me as Ben and Kim discuss Enneagram in the workplace. Learn about the Do’s and Don’ts that will help you connect better with your co-workers and create a healthier work atmosphere. Minimizing misassumptions, hurt feelings, and arguments, helps us all get our work done faster. If we are KNOWN, then we want to do a good job and be productiv...
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Oct. 8, 2021

Episode 9 - Learning to Laugh at Ourselves

Need a good laugh and a stress reliever? Check out this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me. Ben and Kim will share funny stories of how each of the 9 Enneagram personality types may handle grocery shopping, driving, and even leading worship. In this week’s podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim take time to laugh. They look at how each Enneagram type handles grocery shopping, driving a car, and even leading worship. If you need a chuckle, this is the episode for you....
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May 14, 2021

Episode 6 - Laughter

They say laughter is medicine for the soul. And learning to laugh at yourself is a great place to start. In this episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben and Kim share a fun take on some real-life scenarios. For example, how each Enneagram type plans for vacation. If you need a good belly laugh, this is the episode for you! If you find this information helpful to you, SUBSCRIBE and journey with us. If you’re not sure where to start but want to know more, refer to Ep 2 - The Enneagram Explained I...
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April 9, 2021

Episode 5 - Seven Steps of Forgiveness

Has someone ever wronged you and you just can’t seem to get past it? Maybe you struggle with even wanting to forgive the person. On this podcast episode of If You Really Knew Me, Ben & Kim talk about the 7 steps of forgiveness and how it’s affected by our enneagram type and the process you walk through. Feel free to reference this below in case you need more to chat about: Forgiveness is something we ALL have to tackle. If you are struggling today, I encourage you to seek the Lord. Only He can...