Episodes
89
Sept. 25, 2026
89: Hostile & Hungry
We're back with an episode thats NOT focused on the Lindsay Clancy trial (but we do talk a bit about the 60 Minutes special toward the end for those asking.) This week's chat is about the juice cleanse fad, how the robots are going to kill us soon, Spencer's unexpected push into cougar-hood and a highly requested Toll Bill update cuz y'all are cracking us up!! Love ya, mean it! xoxo, S+W _______________________________ Need advice? Wondering if you're the asshole or just need to vent? Submit yo...
88
Sept. 8, 2026
88: Patrick Told Us
Patrick told us we should wait until a verdict before recording our next episode, so that's exactly what we tried to do. What Patrick didn't tell us was that we weren't going to be able to tie a bow around this (no pun intended) and be done with it. We're mad at Patrick. Most importantly however, we have a moment of silence to acknowledge the passing of our third co-host, the legendary Dolly Parton ::not going to cry...we're NOT going to cry::
87
Aug. 27, 2026
87: Jury Duty: The Lindsay Clancy Trial
WE ARE BACK AND WE ARE CLOCKING THE F#CK IN
86
May 26, 2026
86: GrannyCore
This episode is just two girls with severe ADHD trying to tell you how much fun they had yard sale-ing and reading books. Oh, and we talk a little about living with intention. The end. Enjoy - love you, mean it!
85
May 7, 2026
85: UNwellbutrin
First things first: The girls ARE NOT fighting! But we do wonder...how often do you chit chat with your besties? We also discuss spirit mediums, yard sales and Spencer shares her embarrassing experience meeting a listener in the wild this week.
84
April 17, 2026
84: Bad Teacher
Back from Spring Break and catching up on what we missed, what we watched, March MaNness results and, as requested, reading through police documents regarding the quasi-famous TikTok-er teacher/student relationship. --> That is discussed at the back half of the episode if you would prefer to skip. Love ya, mean it! XOXO, Spencer + Wendy
83
March 12, 2026
83: Assumptions
Do you ever just look at somebody and think... YEAH- you do! We do, too. We asked about the random assumptions y'all make about other people and what you think people assume about you. Let's just say, we all have RBF lol LOVE YA, MEAN IT! xoxo, Spencer + Wendy
82
March 4, 2026
82: Memories, Mahjong & Mama Drama
Is there anything better than reminiscing about "the good ol' days?" Millenial nostalgia is TOP NOTCH and nobody can convince us otherwise. Per usual, we're bringing you important discussion points like rules for newborns, the rise of the "9-5" creator and where you should hide from a burglar lol Love ya, mean it! xoxo, S+W _______________________________ Need advice? Wondering if you're the asshole or just need to vent? Submit your situation HERE! Follow your hosts at @spencersaidso and @just...
81
Feb. 26, 2026
81: #spencerisoverparty
Nothing lasts forever I'm sorry I can't be perfect NAME THAT TUNE lol Do we need to do a millenial core throwback ep? LOVE YA, MEAN IT! xoxo, Spencer + Wendy
80
Feb. 12, 2026
80: Scrutin-tea
Spencer's on the jab and losing hair like crazy. Speaking of crazy, we discuss a bit of Epstein news, Nancy Guthrie's disappearance and other things keeping us up at night. Most importantly, March ManNess is starting early because we're doing things a bit differently this year... GET PUMPED! Love ya, mean it! xoxo, S+W _______________________________ Need advice? Wondering if you're the asshole or just need to vent? Submit your situation HERE! Follow your hosts at @spencersaidso and @justmewen...
79
Jan. 21, 2026
79: Not Rich, Not Famous
This week we're catching up on a handful of AITA submissions and y'all were really going through it this holiday season! We're also getting an AITA from Spencer herself, hearing Wendy's thoughts on her homework from last week's episode and discussing the need for women's-only movie theaters. Love ya, mean it! xoxo, S+W _______________________________ Need advice? Wondering if you're the asshole or just need to vent? Submit your situation HERE! Follow your hosts at @spencersaidso and @justmewend...
78
Jan. 16, 2026
78: Bag of Boners
We're baaaaack! Returning from our holiday hiatus to bring you some goss about what we've been up to, what we've been watching, peeping toms and bone collectors (literally.) Also, I (Spencer) was feeling a little spicy -too much adderall and caffeine late in the day - feel free to disregard my attitude LOL love y'all, mean it!! xoxo Spencer + Wendy
77
Nov. 24, 2025
77: Slumlord Millionaire
Yes, we did record this last week and yes, it is just now making its way to your earholes. Our bad - enjoy this episode about Spencer's birthday, the comparison game we play, a very *haunting* book and Wendy's NIGHTMARE saga moving her salon.
76
Oct. 30, 2025
76: This Isn't Hairapy
This episode is sPoOoOkY late to drop and dressed up as Hairapy in honor of Halloween. Love y'all, mean it!
75
Oct. 14, 2025
75: The Life of a Bowl Holder
We LOVE when we get AITA follow ups and we've got the rest of the story from last week's submission about her husband facing prison time! We're also sharing our thought on the trainwreck cast of Love is Blind: Denver and Taylor's most controversial album yet! Love ya, mean it! xoxo, S+W _______________________________ Need advice? Wondering if you're the asshole or just need to vent? Submit your situation HERE! Follow your hosts at @spencersaidso and @justmewendyv INSTAGRAM TIKTOK TWITTER
74
Sept. 30, 2025
74: Hot & Tethered
If someone's on house arrest, what do you call the device they wear on their ankle? Is visual er0tica any different than audio or written er0tica? Who are people REALLY calling on the phones at the Masters? We're asking the important questions this week and sinking our teeth into a juicy AITA! Follow the directions in the comments so we know you listened ;) Love ya, mean it! xoxo, S+W _______________________________ Need advice? Wondering if you're the asshole or just need to vent? Submit your ...
73
Sept. 23, 2025
73: Roasted
Muscat vs Muscadine. Granny Milly/Dixie vs Harper. Sibling vs Sibling. AITA is back again along with an "unpopular opinions" segment and roasts that bring us to tears. Unfortunately we have homework for y'all, and thats to like, comment, and share our podcast on socials because we're not too proud to beg lol Love ya, mean it! xoxo, S+W _______________________________ Need advice? Wondering if you're the asshole or just need to vent? Submit your situation HERE! Follow your hosts at @spencersaid...
72
Sept. 17, 2025
72: Counting Our Pennies & Hoping for the Best
They say two things in life are certain, death and taxes. This past week certainly proved that to be true but a little laughter always heals. This episode may be a bit of a rollercoaster, but we share some things that are bringing us joy and laughter and hope that you get an hour to "escape" with us. Love you all!! xoxo, S+W _______________________________ Need advice? Wondering if you're the asshole or just need to vent? Submit your situation HERE! Follow your hosts at @spencersaidso and @just...
71
Sept. 9, 2025
71: F/M/K: Conrad, Jeremiah, Chiropractors
It's been a minute since we've recorded in the morning and in our humble opinion, it really is when we do our best work. From debating TSITP to a local peeping tom - you won't know where the conversation is going next because neither did we (lolz) OK SUGARS love you mean it! xoxo, S+W _______________________________ Need advice? Wondering if you're the asshole or just need to vent? Submit your situation HERE! Follow your hosts at @spencersaidso and @justmewendyv INSTAGRAM TIKTOK TWITTER
70
Sept. 2, 2025
70: Beefin' With Butterflies
WE ARE BACK! Summer vaca is over, we're sharing some happy news and scratching the surface on some of the things we need to catch up on! That being said, it appears yet again we may be spreading rumors on accident so just know the breaking news in this episode is ALLEGED and not confirmed lol Missed y'all - SO HAPPY TO BE REUNITED
69
June 26, 2025
69: Lawyers, Liars & Love Island
We're still playing pop culture catchup from our time off and Spencer, in an attempt to explain Love Island to Wendy and convince her to watch it, demonstrates why she needs to remember to take her ADHD meds LOL This week's AITA is an in-house special and tbh...we don't care if we're the asshole!
68
June 18, 2025
68: Chloraseptic Hangover
We love y'all <3 Checking in for a life update, chatting about what content has been keeping us busy and answer a few AITA submissions.
67
April 23, 2025
67: One Testicled Wonder
**Attention Patreon subscribers: This week's episode can be enjoyed ad-free over on patreon.com or in the Patreon app and includes a personal AITA submission for your ears only!** This week's topics are all over the place, in true form. Wendy kicked up her TV-watching game and we want to know what are your must-watch shows currently??
66
April 8, 2025
66: AITA: My Friend's Poor
A highly requested AITA episode! Cancer, husband drama and girls trip etiquette - we're giving our takes and there may be some assholes in our midst. We're also talking briefly about the Southern Charm reunion, splitting the bill at dinner and what's got us bitching this week. xoxo