Episodes

July 16, 2025

Grief and Loss part part 2

Marla and Nate complete their discussion about grief and loss.
July 1, 2025

Grief and Loss part 1

Marla and Nate discuss concepts and challenges related to grief and loss. Marla shares about her work with people struggling to manage life following a difficult loss and experiencing intense grief.
Oct. 28, 2024

Mastering self-compassion

Marla and Nate discuss the value of self-compassion. What it is and isn't. Why it matters and how to improve our practice of it. Link to the article discussed below... https://self-compassion.org/wp-content/uploads/publications/SCtheoryarticle.pdf
Aug. 19, 2024

Exploring pity, sympathy, empathy, and compassion.

Marla and Nate discuss the differences between these concepts. They look at recent research and what the benefits to possibly changing our approach may be.
July 3, 2024

The 4 Psychological Needs

Marla and Nate discuss the 4 psychological needs presented in the book The Child In You by Stefanie Stahl. They hypothesize the original source of the needs and why these 4 are so critical for especially young children.
May 27, 2024

Is it you or is it me? Internalizing vs externalizing

Marla and Nate discuss what internalizing and externalizing are. They also talk about related psychiatric disorders and how to find more balance when we do too much of one or the other.
April 1, 2024

Codependent Dynamics

Marla and Nate talk about codependency and how it can show up in relationships.
Sept. 11, 2023

Why do we feel anger and what can I do about it?

Marla and Nate discuss anger. The reasons we feel it and how we can manage it.
Feb. 6, 2023

Does Honesty really matter?

Marla and Nate discuss the Sam Harris book "Lying". Additionally, they talk about some reasons people lie and what reasons that may encourage people to be honest.
Oct. 3, 2022

Thinking about therapy?

Marla and Nate discuss why people often seek out therapy. They look at different types of clinicians and how coaching compares to therapy. They discuss some of the limitations of therapy and the general practice of how it works.
Sept. 2, 2022

What is trust and can I trust again after feeling betrayed?

Marla and Nate discuss the human need to trust. Why are people wired to trust and can we improve our ability to trust. They also discuss the components of trust and how we can improve our own trustworthiness so that people close to us will feel more trust towards us.
Sept. 2, 2022

What is trust and can I trust again after feeling betrayed?

Marla and Nate discuss the human need to trust. Why are people wired to trust and can we improve our ability to trust. They also discuss the components of trust and how we can improve our own trustworthiness so that people close to us will feel more trust towards us.
Sept. 2, 2022

What is trust and can I trust again after feeling betrayed?

Marla and Nate discuss the human need to trust. Why are people wired to trust and can we improve our ability to trust. They also discuss the components of trust and how we can improve our own trustworthiness so that people close to us will feel more trust towards us.
Aug. 11, 2022

Must we suffer?

Marla and Nate discuss the difficulties surrounding human suffering. They talk about the possibility of eliminating some suffering from our lives and how to endure suffering we can't control.
Aug. 11, 2022

Must we suffer?

Marla and Nate discuss the difficulties surrounding human suffering. They talk about the possibility of eliminating some suffering from our lives and how to endure suffering we can't control.
Aug. 11, 2022

Must we suffer?

Marla and Nate discuss the difficulties surrounding human suffering. They talk about the possibility of eliminating some suffering from our lives and how to endure suffering we can't control.
July 29, 2022

Friends have benefits

Marla and Nate discuss recent trends in the U.S. for people to have fewer close friends. One study showed 10% of women and 15% of men have zero close friends. They discuss the benefits of close friendships and offer suggestions on how to refill our dwindling friend supply.
July 29, 2022

Friends have benefits

Marla and Nate discuss recent trends in the U.S. for people to have fewer close friends. One study showed 10% of women and 15% of men have zero close friends. They discuss the benefits of close friendships and offer suggestions on how to refill our dwindling friend supply.
July 29, 2022

Friends have benefits

Marla and Nate discuss recent trends in the U.S. for people to have fewer close friends. One study showed 10% of women and 15% of men have zero close friends. They discuss the benefits of close friendships and offer suggestions on how to refill our dwindling friend supply.
July 13, 2022

Building better relationships through vulnerability

Marla and Nate discuss vulnerability in relationships and how to use it to improve our connections with others. Marla and Nate offer a definition of vulnerability, a step by step way to improve vulnerability, and the reasons why it can help us develop the skill of receiving love.
July 13, 2022

Building better relationships through vulnerability

Marla and Nate discuss vulnerability in relationships and how to use it to improve our connections with others. Marla and Nate offer a definition of vulnerability, a step by step way to improve vulnerability, and the reasons why it can help us develop the skill of receiving love.
July 13, 2022

Building better relationships through vulnerability

Marla and Nate discuss vulnerability in relationships and how to use it to improve our connections with others. Marla and Nate offer a definition of vulnerability, a step by step way to improve vulnerability, and the reasons why it can help us develop the skill of receiving love.
June 7, 2022

People are scary...or maybe it's just social anxiety disorder

Marla and Nate discuss the symptoms and how to overcome challenges associated with social anxiety disorder. Marla owns the pain of being picked last in high school PE and Nate talks about how first grade experiences led him to question himself to the point he struggled to make friends and believe in himself.
June 7, 2022

People are scary...or maybe it's just social anxiety disorder

Marla and Nate discuss the symptoms and how to overcome challenges associated with social anxiety disorder. Marla owns the pain of being picked last in high school PE and Nate talks about how first grade experiences led him to question himself to the point he struggled to make friends and believe in himself.