Episodes

Believe me: I’m not shedding any tears for straight, white men like me. But I think it’s important to point out that straight, white men suffer too. Whether it’s trying to act more sensitive, more masculine, or feel more connected, guys constantly feel they’re falling short — and they have virtually no one to talk to about it. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podca...

Let’s face it: most relationships fail before they hit the altar. That’s okay. Dating requires a lot of trial and error. But what happens when you find someone special? How should you treat him? How should he treat you? What can you do to ensure the long-term success of your relationship? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you how to embody the habits of the happiest marriages. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to lear...

Liars. Players. Flakes. Losers. Scammers. Freaks. Morons. That’s a short list of the complaints I hear about online dating. And yet online dating remains the single best way to create a love life from scratch. Tune in as I address all of your objections to online dating and show you a more positive and effective path to making it work for you. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy...

It’s hard out there. I get it. After years of dating and relationship failures, it’s easy to go on permanent “guyatus,” and throw in the towel on men. Don’t. In this special podcast, I’m going to reframe 10 limiting beliefs you have about love and show you how to turn your glass half-empty into a glass half-full. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rat...

Men look for sex and find love. If we can agree on that, why is it so surprising to some women when men try to kiss (and more) on the first date? In this episode, I’m going to give you the lowdown on what men are really thinking and the definitive sexual pace you should move at if you want to keep your spark and get a boyfriend. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Pod...

Chivalry is not dead, but in some circles, it is on life support. While women lament the lack of effort men make in dating, most men are either clueless about chivalry or fighting against it. On this episode, I’m going to give you a compelling argument as to why courtship is good for men and what women can do to encourage better male behavior. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy...

You may feel like a victim of love. Bad guys. Bad timing. Bad choices. Fair enough. But even if it’s all true, you can’t let the past dictate your future. If you want to find lasting love, you have to do something different. Here are 4 ways you can start today. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it on Apple Podcasts: On your phone, click on More...

Money is a dilemma faced by smart, successful women in the dating world. Do you need a man to earn more than you? Will he feel insecure and emasculated around you? What’s the best way to handle money as a couple? Evan’s got all your answers on the next Love U Podcast. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it on Apple Podcasts: On your phone, click ...

It’s the curse of the nice girl. You fall in love. He seems great. Slowly, but surely, his mask slips and you see his true colors: he’s selfish, stubborn, temperamental, critical and mean. You still love him, you remember him at his best, but you have no idea how you fell so far in this relationship. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to help you enforce healthy boundaries from the very beginning so that you’re nobody’s doormat ever again. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by ...

It’s pretty much THE question, isn’t it? Instead of wasting months and years on men who treat you poorly, how can you avoid the unhappy ending BEFOREHAND? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to teach you how to use pattern recognition, experience and your gut to make better relationship choices in the future. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it o...

There’s only one metric to determine whether advice is good: does it work or not? Believe it or not, there are dozens of respected experts whose opinion will steer you in the complete opposite direction of your actual goals. On this week’s Love U Podcast, I will debunk these false ideas and light your path to making confident relationship choices. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. E...

Let’s face it: anyone can become a dating coach. All you need is an opinion and a website. The problem is that, when you’re relying on “experts,” it’s hard to distinguish good advice from the bad advice. If you can’t even trust your own judgment, how do you know what to believe? I’m excited to dive into this Love U Podcast where you’ll learn to see right through the bullshit, clichés, and wishful thinking that are so prevalent online. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by appl...

“You’re only as needy as your unmet needs” is a really affirming quote, because it implies that if you feel needy, your partner has been neglecting your needs. The problem is that this is not always the case. Insecure people with anxious attachment styles often think that every disagreement is potential cause for a break-up. It’s not. If you have a good man who loves you, you can breathe easy and be vulnerable and trusting, without fear of him leaving. But, as you’ll hear in this podcast, it’s a...

After a lifetime of disappointing men, questionable choices and broken hearts, it’s tempting to want to give up on love forever. In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you an inspirational story of why it’s important to persevere and how quickly your romantic fortunes can turn around. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it on App...

Introverts are imaginative, thoughtful, and sensitive. But in a world where you have only a a few hours make a first impression, taking time to warm up to strangers is a distinct challenge. So how should introverts date? Should they pair with extroverts or stick with other introverts who recharge by being alone? Tune in to find out. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U...

It’s normal to hate the guy who cheated on you. But how about the guy who slept with you but didn’t want to commit? Or the woman who married your beloved ex-boyfriend? Or the person who always posts those happy family photos on Facebook? In this episode, we’ll explore the sources of hate, and I’ll let you know who I found myself hating, quite irrationally. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-p...

Hate to say it, but there are some people on the planet who can’t make ANYBODY happy. In this episode, you will not only learn why you choose bad men, but also learn how to bring the best out of the good ones. Listen and I will tell you how to turn a insecure guy into a confident guy. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it on Apple Podcasts: On yo...

“Just be yourself” is the most common dating advice in the world. It’s also the worst. Men who send dick pics are being themselves. Verbally abusive men are being themselves. Ultimately, dating success isn’t about pretending to be someone you’re not, but rather, about being the most confident, generous, self-aware person you can be. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U ...

No one wants to think so, but most of us do. Think of the guy who thinks he’s a catch because he went to a good college, the smart guy who has no social skills, or the rich guy who is selfish and negative. In this episode, you’ll learn that what makes you impressive doesn’t always make you a good partner, and what makes a good partner is something most of us overlook. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your ...

“Should I call him? Text him? Ignore him?” “Why is he pulling away?” “How can I get him back? STOP. When you’re in a healthy relationship, you won’t have to ask any of these questions. And if you find yourself asking these questions, your relationship is really not that healthy. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it on Apple Podcasts: On your pho...

Sure, you want to feel desired, wanted, and safe. But is it reasonable to expect that your boyfriend finds you more attractive than every other woman on Earth? Find out why it’s not a sign of relationship weakness if your man thinks other women are hot; it can actually be a sign of relationship strength. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it on Ap...