Episodes

Does it seem like there are no good men out there? Does it feel impossible to find a guy you're attracted to online? Have no fear. Follow the rule of 10% and you can keep your high standards on your way to love.

Sick of swiping right and texting? Want to meet quality men who are invested in you instead of putting up with flakes? Listen to this Love U Podcast to learn what you can do to ensure that the relationship-oriented guys take you on proper dates, just the way you like it. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it on Apple Podcasts: On your phone, cli...

Have you ever dated a guy who would be great - if he changed just a few things about himself? Listen to this Love U Podcast to discover how to determine whether you should stay or go from a relationship.

As a smart, strong, successful woman, you have a full single life, filled with work, friends, family, and hobbies. Yet this isn’t your primary strength when it comes to dating. If you don’t let men it’s hard for them to make an emotional connection. Listen to this deep Love U Podcast to learn how to stop your insecurities from running the show and how it takes a lot of confidence to be vulnerable. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now...

Were you ever in a draining relationship in which you felt that you gave too much? Have you considered that you should probably give less to your partner in the future? It’s a painful problem, but giving less isn’t the solution. Choosing a better partner is. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it on Apple Podcasts: On your phone, click on More Ep...

If you've ever vacillated between being "too picky" and spending time with men you don't like, check out this Love U Podcast. In it, I tell the story of two clients who are learning to trust their judgment and cut off men quickly,

Love U is a six-month curriculum that teaches you how to understand men and find love. In today's Love U Podcast, I'm going to teach you one simple idea about 3 ways your relationship can go.

When I interview women like you who apply to Love U, I invite you to consider what your life will look like when you found the relationship you’ve always dreamed about. Sure enough, some women struggle with this exercise because they can’t even imagine what it feels like to be loved unconditionally. If that’s you, tune in to this special Love U Podcast. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-pic...

Have you ever been afraid that the next guy is going to turn out just like the last guy? If so, I'm going to give you a five-step process to evaluate if he's worth your time BEFORE you get in too deep. You're gonna want a pen for this one.

When you meet a guy you're intensely attracted to, your common sense and boundaries go out the window. You're not alone. Listen to this Love U Podcast to hear my own tale of verbal abuse and learn one simple trick to breaking the spell of the hot guy.

Are you an independent woman with a rich, full single life? Are you generally busy with your work, family, friends, hobbies and travel? Does your vision of couplehood look a lot like your life now – just with a man dropped in it? If that’s the case, we’ve gotta talk. If you’re going to partner with a man who is your equal, you’ve gotta make space for him – just like you want him to do for you. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now qui...

Are you tired of wasting your time on the wrong men? Listen to the story of two of my Love U clients – one too passive, one too picky – to discover the 8 things men say that should be instant dealbreakers. Want to save YEARS of your life? Listen to this Love U Podcast. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it on Apple Podcasts: On your phone, click ...

Ever start off hot and heavy with a guy who suddenly pulled back or ghosted? Of course you have. Every start off hot and heavy with a guy and realize he's not the man for you? Of course you have. Check out this Love U Podcast to understand why this is ...

All relationships have conflict. The difference between a great relationship and a horrible one is how you manage that conflict. Listen to this very personal Love U Podcast where I share the one thing my wife and I always fight about – and how we’re using this as an opportunity to get even stronger. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it on Apple ...

After a breakup, it's normal to ruminate on what went wrong. But from what I see from my Love U clients, you're probably focused on what YOU did rather than what HE did. In this Love U Podcast, let's reframe your breakup and get really clear on why you...

Are you sick of going on dating apps, swiping right, texting a million guys, and having horrible coffee dates? If so, you have the power to have a completely different dating experience and go on great first dates. In this Love U Podcast, you will learn to do the opposite of whatever you’re doing now and ensure that your first dates involve dinner, drinks and romance. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your...

Have you been cheated on? Have you had men leave you for other women? Have you experienced a lack of trust? It’s not easy to come back from that, but it’s imperative for the health of your future relationship to choose a trustworthy man and kick jealousy to the curb. Check out this Love U Podcast which begins with a dream that my wife had about my best friend. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken ...

Welcome to the 100th episode, in which I barely celebrate a milestone achievement, reintroduce myself and the Love U Podcast, and let you know the secret behind all successful marriages – the 5 qualities a man must have to be a great partner. I’m really excited to communicate with you more directly on a regular basis and to give you some powerful, actionable advice that you can immediately use to stop wasting your time on the wrong men. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by ap...

Have you ever felt that dating is a big, ol' waste of time? After years on and off dating sites, swiping through thousands of men, and the endless revolving door of losers, players, and flakes, you conclude that being single is much easier.

It's a pretty weird time to be dating. Even so, Love U members are meeting wonderful, highly motivated men, even during this pandemic. So how can you tell if a guy is keeping busy or stringing you along until he finds someone he likes better?

You ever go out on an incredible date? The connection was real, the chemistry is intense, and you feel like you just met someone with real long-term potential? Of course, you have. But what usually happens afterward? Look at your history and you’ll see: there’s virtually no correlation between an amazing first date and a successful long-term-relationship. Check out this new Love U Podcast video to see what you SHOULD pay attention to after your next great first date. Watch it on YouTube. Get th...

Longtime readers know about my friendship with Lori Gottlieb. Lori dated my roommate, got me my book agent, and we even wrote a sitcom script together before I coached her through writing “Marry Him: the Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough” back in 2010. Eight years since the book’s release, it holds up as a cautionary tale for women in their 30’s who want to have their own biological kids. In today’s Love U Podcast, I catch up with the author who is a single mom, therapist, and one hell of a ...

Eli Finkel wrote perhaps my favorite relationship book of 2017, The All Or Nothing Marriage, which talks about how the best marriages have gotten stronger while the rest of marriages have gotten weaker. Not only is it a really powerful and instructive book for single women looking for the ultimate relationship in the 21st century, but this is definitely one of my favorite Love U Podcasts ever. Enjoy. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how...

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