Episodes

You’ve been seeing a guy for three months. You like him a lot. He seems to like you just as much. The chemistry is great. The sex is stupendous. When he takes you out on dates, you have an amazing time – easy conversation, lots of laughter. Yet, despite all this, he’s not your boyfriend. What’s worse is that the longer you go, the more anxious you feel because you desperately want him to be. How slow is too slow in a relationship? Stick around and I’ll explain. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man ...

Rejection triggers feelings of anxiety, low self-esteem, deep questioning. It’s normal to have these thoughts after things don’t go right. The problem is when you start to internalize these thoughts. It’s not just a bad day or a bad break,

Admit it: You’ve spent years suffering through relationships with the wrong men. Your fears are real and valid and I’m not going to deny you those feelings. What I will point out on today’s Love U Podcast is that there’s a big difference between wastin...

If your parents were divorced…If they stayed together for fifty years while fighting miserably…If you were divorced after a long marriage…You’re bound to have negative associations with marriage. For you, marriage means pain, angst, misunderstandings, silent treatments, and the endless drudgery of compromise and housework. I hear you. But if that’s all that marriage was, there wouldn’t be 100 million married people in America. On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain why marriage – a good ma...

As a dating and relationship coach since 2003, I’ve fielded thousands of questions. And, not surprisingly, many of those questions are the same question asked differently. Women routinely ask me if they’re too picky – if they should settle on a lack of chemistry. The answer, of course, is no. Women routinely ask me why men would have sex if they’re not interested in commitment. The answer, of course, is that it’s fun. Women routinely ask me if there are any quality men in their area because they...

You ever start dating a guy and things are going great and at some point, you ask him… Um, what are we? And he says: Well, I’m not sleeping with anybody else. So I guess you can say we’re exclusive. One night,

A pandemic is not an ideal time for dating, I think we can all agree. But as we approach the one year mark of our national semi lockdown, how do you date a guy during social distancing? How can you build trust? How can you stay safe? How can you hook up? How can you see more than one person at the same time? I’ll explain on this Love U Podcast. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy...

You’ve been dating online. It’s frustrating. Dispiriting. Hopeless. All the guys you like aren’t making an effort. All the guys who make an effort, you don’t like. Let’s face it: the men in your town SUCK. So you open up your search criteria and broaden your search radius from 25 miles to 100 miles. No, let’s make it 500 miles. Actually, there’s no limit as to how far you’ll go for love. You are now searching the globe for your soulmate. That may feel good right now but be careful what you wish ...

It’s a reasonable question. Why get married when most marriages end in divorce? And if you came to this video believing that this was true, you’re in the right place. In the next few minutes, I’m going to drop some knowledge and show you that a) Most marriages don’t end in divorce and b) You actually DO want to get married even if you don’t think you do. Seriously. Stick around if you’d like to be loved for the rest of your life. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying t...

Most women I work with do NOT like older men. Older men aren’t attractive. Older men look like Grandpa or Dad. Older men can’t keep up with you. Older men have no energy. Older men have erectile dysfunction. Older men are on their last legs and are looking for a nurse with a purse. I hear you. The problem is that these are stereotypes and stereotypes are only partially true. On this Love U Podcast, I’m doing to explain what it looks like to date an older man and why the rewards are often worth i...

In your experience, dating in your 40’s is trickier than dating in your 20’s or 30’s. But does it have to be? Men are men. Women are women. So what’s so different about dating after you turn the big 4-0? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to share with you why it is, indeed, harder to find a good middle-aged man, and what you should consider if you’re facing your biological clock. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how ...

So, you’re thinking of dating a single Dad. Maybe you’re a woman with her own children who is worried about integrating families. Maybe you’re a woman who wants her own children and didn’t envision helping to raise someone else’s children. Maybe you’re a woman who didn’t want children at all and you met a single father that you can see a future with. There’s a lot to unpack here, so stick around as I explain to you the good and bad of dating a single dad. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your...

You’ve opened your heart and had it broken. You’ve poured yourself into relationships that started off promising…but ended in sorrow. You’ve tried dating different types of guys but the only thing they seem to have in common is that they all disappoint you in the end. You don’t trust your own judgment and you’re afraid you’ll never figure this out. In the next few minutes, I’m going to explain to you how you can learn to trust yourself and make better choices with men in the future. Stick around...

The most popular question I get is “what’s the best dating site or app?” Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Match, OkCupid. Where should I go to find quality men? I’m going to answer that in a moment, but first I’m going to explain that which site you’re on doesn’t matter nearly as much as what you do when you get there. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Podcast? Please rate it...

Have you ever slept with a guy who wasn’t your boyfriend? Have you ever noticed that most of the guys you were exclusive with never became boyfriends? You’ve been falling into the same trap, over and over, and had no idea how it kept happening to you.

You turn to me to know the secrets of the male mind. You listen for aha moments about how men think. You watch to understand what makes commitment-minded guys choose to commit to some women and not others. Stick around to hear the single most important piece of advice one Love U grad got from her coaching experience and how EASY it is to make a guy want to stay. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broke...

You’ve been with men who are liars. You’ve been with men who are cheaters. You’ve been with men who had eyes for other women. You’ve been with men who are close with their exes. And it. Drives. You. Crazy! The question is whether your jealousy stems from a real threat or whether your jealousy is merely a fear of repeating old mistakes. Stick around and I’ll help you discover the answer. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to le...

You can’t help who you fall in love with. This is true - but that doesn’t mean it’s the full story. When you fall in love with a man going through a divorce, you’re taking a huge risk, no matter how cute, kind and emotionally available he seems to be.

You’ve had moments where you wanted to give up on love. We all have. You sink your time, energy, and emotion into a guy, only to determine, after a long, tortuous process, that he is not the man you hoped he’d be and not the man you need him to be.

Cliches are cliches for a reason. Often, they have a solid basis in truth. But what happens when you believe in a cliche so deeply that it actually sabotages your desire to have a successful long-term relationship? Do you even know some of the deep-seated beliefs you hold that are preventing you from achieving your wildest dreams? If not, stick around and I’m going to explain how these 5 cliches are killing your love life. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love...

Your job is demanding. You are a single mom with lots of responsibilities. You feel like dating is one huge time suck. As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women who have everything but the guy, I am quite familiar with women who are too busy to date. And while I’m in no position to tell you that you’re NOT busy, I AM here to tell you that there is a simple way to ensure you can have an active love life, even if you work 50hrs/week and feel that it’s impossible. Nothing is impossible....

You go online and browse through men. You know what you’re attracted to. You set your search criteria to get all these traits and come to the conclusion that dating sites suck and there no men on conventional dating sites.

Let’s face it: It’s lonely out there. And if you’ve been alone for a while and you have a vision of what you want your life to look like, I can appreciate if finding love is your top priority. It’s mine, too and I only work with women who are deadly serious about it. But if you’re so serious about meeting Mr. Right that you’re unintentionally sabotaging your efforts, then you should probably listen to this podcast. In it, I’m going to tell you a story of one of my favorite Love U clients who so ...

Age is just a number. If you’re 60, I assume you feel 50. If you’re 50, I assume you feel 40, and so on. But when it comes to dating – specifically online dating – age isn’t just a number. It’s a real thing that you have to contend with, an obstacle that needs to be overcome. So what do you do when the dating pool gets smaller and, arguably, worse on the far side of 50? Stick around and I’ll tell you exactly what to do. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U....