Episodes

You’ve been crushing on this guy for a long time. It feels great - to see him, to talk to him, to think about what it would like to be with him. That feeling is electric and it’s carried you...all the way to this podcast. Because despite all the time,

If you’re like most women I coach, you like masculine men. I do, too. They’re smart. Confident. Bold. Decisive. Big personalities. The willingness to take a stand and lead. But what’s the downside of choosing such men? They’re often narcissists. Tactless. Players. Too busy. Commitmentphobes. Liars. Controlling. Verbally abusive. Alpha men see themselves as the sun and you are a mere planet revolving around him. Yet, compared to boring nice guys, you still prefer masculine men. So, like we do on ...

You know the feeling. It’s magical. It happens only a few times in your entire life. That moment when you’re dating someone and you know, deep in your heart, that he’s your soulmate and that you two are going to be together forever.Think about every time you’ve felt that feeling of meeting “the one.” Can you picture the man? Can you conjure that feeling? Now, ask yourself: what happened to these relationships? Did ANY of the men who you thought were the one love you unconditionally, take care of...

You’re a beautiful woman and you’ve achieved a lot professionally. You have an education. You have a nice home. You have sophisticated tastes. You know what you’re worth and you’re not going to settle. As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, this is something we can completely agree upon. But there are two problems being in the 95th percentile of all women. You believe you have to date men who are also in the 95th percentile. You believe that everyone who is less successful tha...

You’ve had relationships where you couldn’t trust the guy. Maybe you caught him in a series of lies. Maybe he had a history as a player. Maybe you have a history of being cheated on.Whatever it is, trust issues can completely sink your relationship. After listening to this Love U Podcast, you will never again stay with a man you can’t trust. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy th...

You ever date a guy who was just set in his ways? You ever wish you could change a man and help him do the work to reach his potential? Go to therapy. Take a self-help class. Write in a journal. Meditate. Join you on your spiritual journey so you can do it together. But if you’re still single, I would like to gently point out that perhaps finding another growth-oriented man isn’t as important as you think it is. In fact, your adherence to dating a man who lives life much like you may be the bigg...

There are few worse feelings than getting dumped. You trusted. You made yourself vulnerable. You gave your time, your energy, your body, your soul to this man. You bent over backwards to compromise, to listen, to communicate, to continue work on your relationship and still, he saw fit to end it. All people are different and all relationships have their unique downfalls but in this Love U Podcast, I want to explain to you, in general, what men are thinking before they break up with you. A not-so-...

You’ve been in a relationship before with a man you genuinely loved. He said you were the one. He said he couldn’t live without you. He said he’d do whatever it took to make you happy. Except you’re not happy. Not even close. You’re exhausted. You’re sick of feeling misunderstood. You don’t want to have the same conversations over and over again, only to end up in the same place – ostensibly you’re in love, but in reality, your partner is draining you more than he’s filling you up. You may think...

You’ve seen other dating coaches' videos. Here are the FIVE SEXY TEXT MESSAGES THAT WILL MAKE HIM CRAVE YOU. Here are the SEVEN THINGS YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW THAT WILL BREAK DOWN HIS WILL AND MAKE HIM PROPOSE TO YOU WITHIN MINUTES.

You’re dating a guy and things are going great. He’s bright, confident, comfortable in his own skin, and overall, he’s pretty good company. Then, why do you feel so drained at the end of every date? Maybe it’s because he hasn’t expressed one bit of curiosity about your life. So, while you’re getting to know him, he’s not getting to know you. What’s that about? What can you do about it? Stick around and I’ll explain. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Ta...

Everybody’s got baggage. You’ve been divorced twice.You have herpes. You’re a former alcoholic. You take anti-depressants. You can’t have biological children. Whatever it is, you’re not alone. But that doesn’t make it any easier in a world where first impressions are everything and men are impossibly picky. So, how can you reveal your deepest, darkest secrets to the guy you’re dating without scaring him away? Stick around and I’ll explain. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by ...

The check comes. It sits on the table. You wait for him to reach for it. You think he’s waiting for you to reach for it. You continue your strained end of meal conversation, wondering who is going to reach for it first. Who picks up the check is an emotionally fraught first date ritual that leaves a lot of people highly disappointed. Today, I’m going to explain to you what men should do and what women should do so that this never has to get weird for you again. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man o...

It feels the worst when it starts out strong. That first month, he was so into you. Texting dozens of times a day. Planning the next date while you’re still on a date. Telling you effusively how beautiful you are, how much he likes you and how excited he is. Talking about a future. And then something happens. You don’t know what it is but everything feels different. Suddenly, his constant efforts start to wane and you’re left feeling off-balance. On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you EXA...

There are many ways it’s more challenging to be a woman in today’s world. There is latent misogyny. There are double standards for strong women as compared to strong men. And it’s an understatement to say that most men haven’t had to grapple with what it’s like to be objectified and feel threatened by members of the opposite sex. There are a couple of ways, however, that it’s super tricky to be a man. One of them is the fact that men are expected to make the first move. I’m not saying it’s good ...

I know something you absolutely hate. You’ve got a cute guy you’re texting. You’re kind of excited about him and hoping to make a connection. Yet it’s almost impossible to get anything out of him. You ask him a question and he answers but doesn’t give anything back in return. One-word or one-sentence replies only. What do you do with these guys? When should you cut them loose? Is there anything in your control to elevate the conversation into something more fun? I’ve got all your answers. Stick ...

You’re single and fabulous. You’ve got a career you enjoy, friends you love, and passions you pursue. You’re extremely busy doing things that bring you pleasure: travel, yoga, reading, personal development. You don’t need a man. You want a man. The question is whether this man wants to fit into your life exactly as it is right now or whether you need to make accommodations for another person. Stick around and I’ll show you the blind spot that’s preventing you from finding a man you respect who a...

Dating apps are everywhere. Texting is ubiquitous. Hookup culture is rampant. If courtship isn’t dead, it’s surely on a respirator. And while I did a Love U Podcast episode called Why Men Should Court Women (which women loved), there is a dark truth about men don’t court women anymore that most guys won’t tell you. I’ll tell you. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enjoy the Love U Pod...

You know the power of belief. Maybe you believe in God. Maybe you believe in your own inherent goodness. Maybe you believe that each day is a gift that should be lived to the fullest. To some degree, we ARE our beliefs. Unfortunately, that includes the negative beliefs you have around love. These are called limiting beliefs. We all have them and they are often the primary reason you struggle to find a compatible partner. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to tackle a few common limiting beliefs...

You had a good date. You’re open to seeing him again. He said at the end of the date he’d talk to you soon. And now you don’t know what to do. Once upon a time, it was a given that a man would pick up the phone and call you to ask you out on a second date. But now, with texting, social media, and the blending of gender roles, it’s become a lot more confusing as to who is supposed to do what and when. On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain how to handle texting after a first date. Watch it ...

Imagine going out with a man for three months. He texts you nearly every day. He sees you nearly every weekend. He’s really sweet. He compliments you often. The sex is great. There’s only one problem: you have no idea if you’re a couple. And while you want to say something, you’re afraid that saying something might mean the end of your relationship. So you say nothing and keep sleeping with a man who acts kind of like a boyfriend but is most certainly not your boyfriend. This isn’t the relations...

You ever start dating a guy who was just a little...passive? He texts you but he doesn’t say that much. He stays in touch but he doesn’t ask you out. He takes you out on a nice date but he doesn’t make a first move. Is he just not that into you?

You’re struggling with your love life. You can find a guy who’s attractive. You can find a guy who treats you well. You can find a guy who wants to commit to you. You just can’t find them all in one package. But have you ever considered why? After all, there are over 50 million married men in America alone; evidently, someone wants to commit. So how can you be the woman that YOUR guy wants to marry? Stick around to learn what emotions drive men towards some women and not others. Watch it on You...

As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I hear a lot of frustration from my Love U clients about the state of dating. Dating apps suck. Your area sucks. Men’s emails and texts suck. Guys are terrible dates – they don’t ask any questions, they don’t pick up the check, they’re only trying to get laid. Got it. We can all agree that most men need a dating coach, too. The real question is this: When you finally meet a guy you like, what do YOU do wrong on a first date? That’s what you ...

Have you ever put your heart and soul into something? Have you ever had big dreams about what your life could look like? Have you ever placed your trust in others with no guarantee that things would work out? Chances are, the answer is yes. Chances are, you’re thinking of a relationship with a man where you devoted all your energy trying to make things work, only to realize it was not meant to be. In today’s Love U Podcast I’m going to tell you two stories: One is about my marriage. One is about...