Episodes

You’ve been in relationships where you gave and didn’t receive anything in return. You’ve been in relationships with men who were domineering and didn’t listen to you. You’ve been in relationships with men who were passive and weak. Which leads to the obvious question: can you really have a 50/50 relationship? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to share a very personal example about how the answer is both yes…and no. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take...

You go online. You set your search criteria. No more than 5 years older. Six feet tall. College degree. Six figure income. Same religion and politics. Handsome face, good body. You discover there aren’t that many men who meet all those criteria so you swipe left on 95% of men and are frustrated that 5% who qualify seem to be players with a lot of options. You try different apps and sites. You take breaks. But every time, you come back and search the same way with the same dissatisfying results. ...

You want to understand men? Great. I’m a man who has been explaining what we think to women for nearly 20 years. And while I don’t expect you to love everything I’m going to say, what you can count on is that I’m telling you the truth – even when it makes guys look bad. With that, here are 8 things men want you to know but will rarely say out loud. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. E...

You were seeing a guy. And by seeing a guy, I mean sleeping with a guy. Things were really great for those first five dates. Until they weren’t. Suddenly, he did the slow fade, texting less frequently, not reaching out for platonic plans, not driving the relationship forward. If you heard from him at all, it was a random text to say hi, or a plea for you to come to his house. Sooner or later, it all fell apart. And from that experience, you learned…nothing. Yes, you’ve repeated that pattern agai...

It’s really common for men to think women are needy. Because of this perception, it’s really common for women to think they’re needy. Today, I’m here to tell you that you’re not needy. There’s a great quote that says “You’re only as needy as your unmet needs.” So if you’re not seeing him enough for your satisfaction, I encourage you to express yourself without the fear of looking needy. But, as you know, it’s not what you say; it’s how you say it. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to outline how...

Are you a busy woman? Do you have a meaningful, demanding and lucrative career? Have you poured more time and energy into your job than your love life because your work life is simply working better? If so, you’re not alone. Most of the women who enroll in Love U will spend 50 hours a week working and wonder why it’s so hard to meet a quality man. Today, I’m going to explain exactly what you need to do in order to meet and ultimately marry one special man. But, be forewarned, you’re going to hav...

You’re dating a guy. You’re falling in love. But you don’t trust your judgment because every other time you’ve been in love, you ignored some serious red flags. How can you make sure that this time turns out different? Well, instead of focusing on what’s wrong with men, as we so often do, today’s Love U Podcast is going to focus on what’s right about them. Without further ado, here are six ways you can tell that your man is a keeper. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applyi...

If you’re a smart, strong, successful woman who has everything but a man, you may not identify as a fearful person. But as a dating coach who has been helping women like you for 17 years, I can tell you definitively that fear plays a major factor in how you approach dating. Fear of being alone for the rest of your life. Fear of dating and rejection. Fear of getting stuck in a bad relationship. Whether you’re afraid of one of those things or all of those things, its going to have a serious impact...

We’ve all been there. You have a great date. You have a great connection. You have great chemistry. You have great sex. And then, for some unknown reason, the guy doesn’t call you back. The questions abound. What happened? What did you do wrong? What should you do now to get him to take action? Take a deep breath. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you exactly how to handle things the next time a guy disappears on you. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Lo...

You’ve dated enough selfish toxic guys to appreciate when you’ve found a good one. He’s cute. He’s sweet. He’s sensitive. He’s honest. He’ll do anything for you. But, no matter what he does, you’re just not feeling it. And it kills you. You know you deserve a nice guy but you also know this isn’t the one. What do you do? How long do you give it? What do you say? On this Love U Podcast, you’re going to learn the art of breaking up. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying...

You consider yourself smart. Friendly. A good conversationalist. Interested in many subjects. So why would any guy not want to take you on another date? Well, because you dates don’t always feel like dates. Sometimes, you’re his therapist. Sometimes, you talk about business. Sometimes, you barely talk at all. If you find you have trouble connecting with him on a sexual level, these flirty questions should get things going. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love ...

If you’re single and looking for love, you’re probably stuck in a pattern. Maybe it’s conscious. Maybe it’s not. But if your goal is to have a fun, passionate, safe, unconditionally loving relationship and you do not have one while you’re watching this, there’s something you can do different to get a different result. In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to reveal the most common patterns that prevent amazing women like you from getting the love you deserve. Good news: whichever one you fall int...

Breaking up is always difficult. Whether it was an intense one-month fling where you fell deeply in love only to get ghosted or the demise of a marriage where you slowly grew apart, there’s nothing easy about moving on. That’s why there are dating coaches – to help you make sense of what happened to your relationship, what you’re feeling now, and what you need to do next. In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to give you 5 pearls of wisdom from the first month Love U, which helps you get over the...

So you’re using a dating app. Tinder. Bumble. Hinge. CoffeeMeetsBagel. You have hundreds of men at your fingertips and you’re getting lots of matches. The problem is that it’s overwhelming. Guys will match and not take action. Guys will text you through the app and not take action. Guys will ask for your phone number and not take action. Guys will start texting you and not take action. Guys will ask you out and then not take action. Everyone just seems so busy, so flaky, so insincere that it fee...

Long distance relationships are challenging for two primary reasons: Your relationship isn’t “real” until you’re in the same city full-time. You’re not in the same city until someone is willing to move. This is why I don’t recommend them to my Love U clients. But if you’re gonna do an LDR – like so many women do – here’s the best way to ensure you’re making all the right decisions. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn ho...

Have you ever noticed how terrible guys are at texting? I have. It’s like they can only be bothered to write the shortest, lamest thing because anything else would be too taxing for their little brains. You’re trying to get to know a guy and all he can do is send you emojis and pictures of his lunch. It’s maddening, I think we can agree. Then why do you write texts that sound JUST LIKE the guys who drive you nuts? In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to explore the art of texting and explain how ...

Bad news: you may have heard that there’s a pandemic that passes along a coronavirus even if you don’t have symptoms. Good news: because of the circumstances, people have had to get really creative with how they date. As a result, there are more FaceTime, GoogleMeet and Zoom dates than ever before. Today, The Love U Podcast is going to kill the coffee date and outline 6 virtual date ideas that both of you will love. Stick around. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying t...

If you’ve ever gone out with a guy where you thought you had a great time but you didn’t hear from him again, listen up. Dating is a skill. The way to master the skill is to practice. The way to practice is to understand who you’re practicing on. And, as your dating coach and translator for all things male, I want to explain today the three ways men connect on first dates. If the guys you like most aren’t calling you back, this one’s for you. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast ...

There are a million places to get sex advice. YouTubers will give you tips on oral. Cosmo will teach you some crazy move that requires props. Your friends may share their own secrets. But what’s something you never hear that will pay off even more? How real men like to be touched when you’re not in the bedroom. Don’t get me wrong, if you’re a master with his clothes off, it’s a tremendous asset. But what I’m about to share with you is what takes you from booty call to blushing bride. Watch it on...

You’re a quality woman with high standards. You swipe right on only 5% of men. You have hundreds more swipe on you. Now you’re texting a bunch of guys and you’re perpetually shocked at how low-quality these conversations are, and how few of them lead to actual dates. Why does this happen? What can you do about it? What are you missing here? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to answer those questions and more. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Fi...

Anxiety is human. Anxiety takes place when you’re doing something new, when you’re doing something you feel is risky, when the results are uncertain, and where there’s a chance you may get hurt. For many people, that describes dating, but it doesn’t have to. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to outline how you can get past your anxiety about dating and not only manage to enjoy the process, but to master it. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find...

So much dating advice is about strategy. If he texts me, how long should I wait to text him back? Should I say “I love you” first? Can I ask him if he’s looking for a commitment? As a dating coach for women, I’ll be the first to admit, dating is a skill and there are some ways of conducting yourself that are more effective than others. At the same time, it’s important to know that dating’s not a chess match, most men aren’t playing games, and that when you’re with the right guy, you literally ca...

One of my most popular videos starts with this counterintuitive premise: Men are about feelings, not about looks. What that means is that men may be drawn in by how you look, but what keeps a man in your life is how he feels when he’s around you. In today’s podcast, we’re going to quickly explore 5 ways you can make a guy feel great, so when you finally meet a good one, he’ll want to devote his entire life to making you happy. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to L...

You were in a relationship with a man who had no money. You break up. What do you look for? Money. You were in a relationship that had no passion. You break up. What do you look for? Passion. I call this the Overcorrection. When you’ve been deprived of something for too long, it’s normal to crave it. The problem is when we go too far in the other direction. Today, I’m going to explain more about overcorrecting and how to calibrate your next dating choice so you can get it just right. Watch it on...