Episodes

He’s hot. He’s into you. He sleeps with you. He ghosts. It’s an age-old tale – we know how it ends – and yet, this scenario plays out, over and over, every day, across the world. And it made me think: what if there were an easy way to explain to women in a few minutes why this happens and how to avoid it? Well, now there is. This is the Love U Podcast. Stick around. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U.

I know. It’s rough out there. You go online, and it’s a horror show. The older you get, the less attractive the men are. The older you get, the more damaged the men are. The older you get, the fewer ugly, damaged men even bother to show interest in you. Because of this, you may be tempted to give up – to conclude that dating is hopeless after a certain age. In this Love U podcast, I want to restore your sense of hope and show you why there are plenty of quality guys in the marketplace, no matter...

Fact: I’m a happily married dating coach. Fact: My wife accepts me as I am and loves me unconditionally. Fact: I have a ton of personality flaws that drive her out of her mind. Today I’m going to discuss those flaws and maybe shed light on how two reasonable people can work around irreconcilable differences. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U.

There’s this cute guy you met online. You’ve been texting for a week now. And you’re about ready to cut him off entirely. It’s like this guy has no life outside of texting you. 50 times a day, your phone pings. Good morning. Good night. Random photos. Sincere compliments about how much he likes you and how he can’t stop thinking about you. Yes, he’s a supertexter. So why does he do this and what do you do with him? I’ll explain it all in this Love U Podcast. Get the man of your dreams fast by ap...

Dating apps can be confounding. He matches with you but doesn’t email you. He texts you but doesn’t ask you out. He makes a date but doesn’t confirm. He takes you out but doesn’t follow up. In this episode, I’m going to explain exactly why this takes place and what you should do about it. Stick around. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U.

It happens more than you’d like to admit. The chemistry is there. You have a powerful connection. You have a couple extra drinks. You go back to his place to make out and the next thing you know, you’ve had sex. Which may have been a great experience but where does that leave you now? Is he going to text tomorrow? Does he want to see you again? Is he looking for anything serious? Those are important questions, and on this Love U Podcast, I’ve got your answers. Get the man of your dreams fast by ...

He’s a good guy. He treats you well. But a...

Are you happy being single? Good. As a dating and relationship coach, it is much easier to help a woman who is happy than to help a woman who is unhappy. At the same time, if you’re so happy being single, it’s entirely possible you’ll never have an incredible relationship. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to show you how being happily single can be its own trap – and how you can get out of that trap just by sticking around until the end of this episode. Get the man of your dreams fast by applyi...

You know when you match on a dating app and you’re waiting for him to text…and he doesn’t? You wonder what he’s thinking. You take it personally. You tell yourself that if he REALLY liked you, he’d have made the first move. Not true! In this Love U Podcast, I explain why a guy might be attracted to you and still not initiate contact – and why that’s not such a bad thing. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix yo...

When a guy is cute and you’re tired of dating and longing for connection, it’s easy to fall into a relationship. But if you keep telling yourself that you “attract the wrong guys,” pay close attention. Because the truth is that you don’t attract the wrong men, you overlook their red flags at the beginning only to have a hard time breaking up down the road when these issues rear their ugly head. Starting today, you won’t make that mistake anymore. Stick around. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of...

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Women who apply to Love U do so because they’ve hit bottom. You’re tired of getting ghosted, you’re tired of dating apps, you’re tired of wasting time on emotionally unavailable men, and you’d really like to find your person. In other words, no one comes here to be a dating expert. Everyone wants a successful long-term relationship. So now, when you’re finally faced with a man who may be boyfriend material, you freeze. Come to think of it, you say you want commitment, but maybe you’re not ready ...

Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you stop interacting with the opposite sex. And when you do, there’s always the possibility that someone could be unfaithful and the possibility that someone can be unreasonably insecure and jealous. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to outline exactly what constitutes cheating and what doesn’t. I’m positive that no one will disagree and this will be the last word on it. Stick around. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by apply...

Ever notice that men are willing to sleep with you even if they have no desire to commit? You’re not alone. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to deconstruct how men and women pursue sex differently and why it’s important to understand these differences. After all, you can’t change men, but you can change who you sleep with and when. Stick around. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-picker. Enj...

Should you consider dating an older guy who has never been married? While red flags abound, there’s a good reason to consider a lifelong bachelor who wants to settle down: the fact that there are plenty of never-married women in their 50’s who ALSO want to get married. Stick around if you want to learn how judge people as individuals rather than categories. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix your broken man-...

You wouldn’t take any food that someone forced onto your plate. You wouldn’t take any job that was offered to you out of college. You wouldn’t live in any home that was temporarily vacant. Then why is it that so many women tell me that their entire love lives have been based on whatever man showed strong interest at the time? The answer, of course, is scarcity. If you think you’re never going to eat again, you’ll take whatever food is offered. If you think you have no employment options, you gra...

Gender roles have changed in the last 40 years. Women are now equal in workplace and have taken on a more masculine, proactive role in their lives. In turn, many men have become more passive when it comes to dating – and women are not really enjoying this shift. So what can you do when you like a guy who just won’t take the lead? Stick around and I’ll break it down for you. Watch it on YouTube. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. Take the Find Love Now quiz to learn how to fix...

You’re the smart, successful woman who has everything but her man. You have a job you love. You’ve got your own home. You are well read, well traveled, and have been on the planet long enough to know what you like and what you don’t. And what you like – somewhat predictably – are men who are more impressive than you. Taller, smarter, richer, funnier, more charismatic, more driven. A man you can look up to. No one is blaming you for this attraction. But what have you noticed in your attempts to s...

It’s not just in your head. The older you get,...

Have you ever dated a great guy but had NO idea where your relationship was going? I mean, you have fun together, but, for the life of you, you can’t tell whether the relationship is escalating from “guy I’m seeing” to “boyfriend” or from “boyfriend” to “husband.” The longer you spend with him, the more you like him. The more you like him, the more you invest in him. The more you invest in him, the harder it is to think of breaking things off. Next thing you know, you’ve sunk three years into a ...

If you aren’t happy with your weight, you’re not alone....

You ever want to give up on dating, relationships, and men forever? I get it. There’s only so many times you can get ghosted, used, insulted, embarrassed, and heartbroken before you start to think that you’d be better off alone. If you’re frustrated and confused as to why it’s so hard to find a quality man and you want to find the strength to keep on going, you definitely want to listen to this Love U Podcast, where I’m going to tell you exactly what to do when you’re at your lowest. Watch it on...

If you’ve ever struggled with trying to get to know...

For most people, relationships are hard. Finding someone who meets your mental, physical and emotional needs is hard, and maintaining that connection is even harder. But recently I discovered that most of my clients have a huge blind spot: they have amazing relationship skills that they use in the workplace; they just don’t use them in romantic relationships. In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I’m going to share some great business advice that doubles as great dating advice. Watch it on YouT...