Episodes

When it comes to sex, men usually seek speed and women prioritize comfort. If men push too hard early on, women will often shut down. Similarly, if a woman slows down so much that he feels unattractive, it’s bound to backfire as well. That’s why, in this Love U Podcast, I’m going to outline specifically how women can slow down men to the point that you feel comfortable, but keep things moving fast enough that he feels connected to you and excited to spend more time with you. Since so many burg...

Ever notice that there are some good guys out there who seem incapably of true intimacy? You’re not alone. In this Love U podcast, I outline three main reasons that so many men seem emotionally stunted and 4 essential tips for creating intimacy with your man. After that, we talk about emotional intelligence – what it means and how it’s an essential component of successful relationships. As always, the goal is to raise your standards on what to expect from men. Get the man of your dreams fast ...

It’s easy to become negative after years of disappointing relationships...

Sure, you want to find someone compatible. But does compatibility mean that you’re going to be just like your partner in every way? That you’re going to agree on everything? That he’s not going to have any qualities you don’t like? And if you do have some – uh – quirks, would you want him focusing on them in an attempt to find someone flawless. Join me on this interesting episode where we do a deep dive on the narcissism of small differences, and explore what, if anything, should send you runnin...

Women need masculine energy to thrive in the workplace and set healthy boundaries with men. Men need feminine energy to be empathetic partners. But what happens when women are too in their “masculine” and men are too in their “feminine?” Turns out, most people don’t like that dynamic. And yet it’s all too common when career women are forced to put on different hats depending upon whether they’re at work or at home. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to explore masculine and feminine energy – wh...

Over half of divorced women say they don’t want to...

Perhaps the biggest question I get – apart from “where...

Are you used to guys who cheat? Do you have a hard time trusting me? On his podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz shares how you can avoid men who lie.

Most people hate online dating. It’s easy to see why....

It’s really easy to focus on how terrible men are...

Yes, there really is a best type of man to date. It’s not the demanding and selfish narcissists. It’s not the passive, boring, unattractive men either. So who does that leave? Your future husband, that’s who! In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to share a story about the perils of alpha males as well as some fascinating social science that tells you what kind of man is attractive AND has the potential to be an amazing partner. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. https://great...

Do you consistently discover that you want different things than your partner? You’re looking for marriage; he just wants a girlfriend. You want to spend quality time; he just wants to see you on weekends? If that’s the case, I’ve got the Love U Podcast for you. We begin with two cautionary tales of Love U clients who ignored red flags and ended up in dead-end relationships. Then we go through 12 not-so-telling questions that long-term couples should answer. Finally, we end on a beautiful Love U...

Why are gay couples happier than straight couples? Why do men and women resent roles they’ve chosen in their relationships? Why do Evan and his wife have the same exact issues as everybody else in the world? On this Love U Podcast, we’re going to explore gender roles within committed relationships and learn how to make smart compromises that lead to greater happiness. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/13/opinion/sunday/marriage-housework-gende...

All too often, you find yourself seeing a guy who is amazing on paper, but you’re not happy in the relationship. The longer you stay with him, the worse it gets, the more you want him to change, and the harder it is to break away. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to ask you to consider how many years you ignored your feelings in relationships. And in the second half of the episode, we’re going to explore what it feels like to be with a man where you feel like part of a team, instead of two indi...

What is toxic? Is it lovebombing? Ghosting? Gaslighting? Narcissistic Personality Disorder? Or is it a guy who can’t resolve conflict? Who can’t hold down a job? Who won’t remain faithful? Who is highly negative and critical? It may be all of these, but one thing’s for sure: we’re gonna dive deep in this Love U Podcast. Soon, you’ll discover that it doesn’t matter what the label, all that matters is how you FEEL in the relationship. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. https://...

Independence is a good thing. You need to be independent from your parents to become a high-functioning adult. You need to have an education and career that supports you on your own. You should have friends and interests of your own choosing. But what happens when all that independence leaves you alone? No one taking care of you. No one sharing the burdens of life. No one to build a future. No day-to-day loving connection from a partner devoted to your happiness. That’s the topic of today’s Love...

Are men really more sexually aggressive than women? Why do women want to be desired? How do we square women’s need to be wanted in a post #MeToo world? All of this juicy stuff comes from a thought-provoking article by Richard Reeves, author of Of Boys and Men. Also, tips to avoid getting stuck in a dead-end situationship. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U. https://ofboysandmen.substack.com/p/men-wanting-women

In a brand new Love U Podcast format – which...

An anxious attachment style is marked by behavior that is perceived as needy, clingy, nervous and sometimes, histrionic. The more afraid you are that your partner will leave you, the more you act out to ensure it doesn’t happen. Many of my Love U clients are anxious. But what happens when the man you’re dating is the anxious one? Will you soothe his insecurities or abandon him like everyone else? Stick around to learn what to do when he’s afraid. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to L...

SO MANY things can go wrong in the early stage of dating. That’s why – in Love U – I have an entire month of content based on the time between when you meet a guy until the time he becomes your boyfriend. This is where most people screw up. This is where most people need help. This is why I have a job. Behold, 7 tips, directly from Love U, on how to navigate that precious time before he’s your boyfriend. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U.

Trigger warning. No, I don’t do trigger warnings. But today, I’m going to be talking about something controversial – something that’s been tearing up the United States slowly for 30 years. Political tribalism. It’s been a huge negative force in America. Politics has essentially turned into a religion, where otherwise normal people turn into the Hatfields and McCoys. So when is political tribalism a dealbreaker and when it can be dealt with? Let’s just say I have thoughts. Get the man of your dre...

This is the first guy you’ve liked in a long time. It’s exciting to have a crush, but you realize that you’re probably a little too obsessed with someone you barely know. While you’re still going to stalk him on social media and check your phone incessantly to see when he texts you again, you also need to do something healthy so this obsession doesn’t take over your life. In this short podcast, I’m going to give you a framework to relax, keep your perspective and stop obsessing about the new guy...

You discovered your boyfriend still talks to his ex. Maybe it was a social media post, maybe it was a text, or maybe he’s meeting her for dinner. The question is whether this is a big deal – and if it is – what should you do about it? My answer will surprise you – and likely piss you off. Enjoy the Love U Podcast. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U.

You’ve fallen in love with seemingly great guys who did all the right things, let you fall in love with them, and then, for some reason, wouldn’t step up to the plate to commit. Are these men all players, toxic narcissists, and monsters? Of course not. There are good reasons that guys don’t commit. Well, maybe not good reasons, but they’re real and I’d rather tell you the truth about them than to leave you in the dark. Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to Love U.