Episodes

In this encore episode from our archives, we share a classic Pleasure Mechanics framework that makes it easier to try new things in bed, lowering the stakes and clearing the way to learn new skills, get to know your own desires and develop erotic communication with your partner. Join us as an All Access Member to explore ALL of our courses for FREE! You’ll get three FREE days to explore, and then join us for just $20 a month for ALL ACCESS to our interactive courses. Thanks To Our Episode Spon...

Here’s how to initiate more intimacy, affection and erotic connection. Initiating can be vulnerable, scary and intimidating – but it doesn’t have to be. The more you practice, the easier it gets and you can create a culture in your relationship where y...

What Erotic Attitudes do you yearn for? All too often, we focus on acts rather than the attitudes we bring to these acts – and this can leave us deeply unsatisfied or even frustrated. By zooming in on the energies and attitudes that you want to embody and experience, you will be on your way to more satisfying and fulfilling erotic encounters. In this episode, we introduce a new tool to guide you in exploring erotic attitudes to find YOUR most desired combinations and chords of erotic energies! ...

Tune in and discover a game-changing framework that updates outdated, inaccurate and limiting models of arousal. Creating Arcs of Arousal invites you to allow an open-ended, expansive experience of rolling hills of arousal – rather than pursue one peak with an inevitable let-down as suggested by Masters and Johnson’s classic one-peak model of the Sexual Response Cycle. Arcs of Arousal is a framework that can allow multiple climaxes, gentle come-downs and complete cycles of arousal, including bot...

Sensation Play opens up a vast world of pleasure, if we dare to explore what our sensory bodies are truly capable of. Here’s how to get started with Sensation Play, starting with the every day sensations and sensory experiences of your life! What sensory experiences bring you comfort? What do you deeply enjoy? From this authentic relationship with your sensory body, you can start naming the sensations you want to explore for pleasure, arousal, and beyond. Members Only Resource: The Sensation Ma...

Hands are the most underrated pleasure tool, and this episode is an irreverent ode to the fine art of Fingerbanging. We share why this is one of personal favorite erotic acts and invite you to explore the wide range of fingerbanging pleasures, from serene meditations to intense full body poundings! Ready To Explore More Pleasure? Get your 3 Day FREE ALL ACCESS PASS to our online courses here Thanks To Our Episode Sponsors: * Feeling dry or out of balance? Try Soaking Wet probiotic supplements...

What pleasure and intimacy could you unlock if you integrated more toys into your partnered play? Many of us have surefire pleasure tools that we use solo and yet don’t bring into the bedroom with our lovers, leaving big parts of our erotic potential behind. In this episode, we invite you to begin integrating toys into partnered play – and see what joy is available to you! Ready To Explore More Pleasure? Get your 3 Day FREE ALL ACCESS PASS to our online courses here Thanks To Our Episode Spons...

Join us for a rousing and stimulating conversation about the magic and myths of masturbation! For this episode we are in conversation with psychologist and professor Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons and Danielle Bezalel, host of the podcast SexEdWithDb to talk about The Magic Wand Study. This study confirms what many of us know deep in our bodies – that masturbation is a vital part of wellness and self care. The documented benefits range from improved sleep to decreased pain, more confidence and less ...

Many people report having the best sexual experiences while on vacation – but you don’t have to wait for an expensive vacation to enjoy all the benefits of Vacation Sex! In this episode, we unpack the essential elements of VacationSex and propose a pla...

Primal play is a realm many of us crave, but rarely talk about. What does it mean to “go primal” or “become primal” or “play primal” like so many of us say we want? What do we really crave when we talk about primal play? In this episode,

What is Taboo to You? Where do Taboos come from and how do they function in your erotic imagination? Even the word “taboo” has a fascinating cultural history to explore! Join us on this free podcast episode to explore the thrills of transgressing taboos, discovering what happens when we speak the unspeakable, find connection rather than shame, demystify and remystify the erotic, and perhaps even restore sacred respect to what has been blasphemed. Thanks To Our Episode Sponsors: * Feeling dry...

Service Topping is a verb – one we can ALL flex as a way to pleasure and lavish the people we care about! Service Topping is all about giving FOR the pleasure of the recipient, focusing all of the attention and intention on the needs,

In this encore episode, we share the Dual Control Model of Arousal, an essential piece of erotic knowledge to understand the complexity of turn-ons, turn-offs, and how to manage your own arousal. Explore more at PleasureMechanics.com/arousal Spotify Playlist of the Best of Speaking Of Sex Episodes Get ready to rethink everything you know about getting turned on – and what is really holding you back from enjoying more sex. Love the podcast? Ready for more? Join The Pleasure Pod & Get The Inte...

Considering having a threesome? Tune in here first! On this episode we share what we’ve learned about how to have a threesome from our recent threesome experiences, and share a classic resource from the Pleasure Mechanics archive – click here to download our book How To Have A Threesome, for free! Thanks To Our Episode Sponsor: * Feeling dry or out of balance? Try Soaking Wet probiotic supplements & use the code PLEASURE for 20% off In 2014, we put together all of our best advice into an eboo...

What does it mean to have really good bed chem? Is sexual chemistry something that happens to us, or can we learn to be erotic alchemists? What happens when good bed chem fizzles out? Join us in this episode for a provocative and engaging conversation about Bed Chem – and how we can all get more active in the lab! Thanks to our episode sponsor, SoakingWet! Try Soaking Wet probiotic supplements & use the code PLEASURE for 20% off Enroll in our free online course and get our best resources strai...

Full Body Oral is an invitation to start exploring more oral play – on EVERY part of the body! Full Body Oral is a reminder that we can create so many different sensations with our mouths, adding depth of stimulation, unlocking emotions and intimacy,

Let’s bust the myths around the refractory period that self-limit so many of our erotic experiences. Join us for this myth-busting episode where we cover the basics and beyond of the refractory period and all the myths about it that get in our way.

Want to last longer in bed so you can keep the pleasure going longer? Want to satisfy your partner and offer the kind of endurance they crave? You are not alone! We get a ton of emails from people wanting to make sex last longer and experience more satisfying intercourse. This Best Of Episode is full of strategies and techniques to support you in lasting longer in bed and having the stamina you want. * JOYMODE combines 4 powerful ingredients to increase blood flow, sensation and stamina. Go to...

Here’s how to last longer, go harder and enjoy MORE of the pleasures you enjoy. Stamina is as much about sustained focus and managing distractions as it is an athletic feat, and the skills of stamina can be built with practice!

How we offer and give our time, gifts and attention matter in all of our relationships. And when we cultivate the skillset of becoming responsive givers of erotic pleasure we are able to offer our lovers more specifically what they want and enjoy and c...

How do you like it – Tough, or Tender? For many of us, what we truly crave is an exquisite blend of Tough & Tender, Rough & Romantic, Intense & Intimate. Tough & Tender don’t have to be opposite ends of a spectrum or mutually exclusive – we can revel i...

Join us in conversation with Dr. Ina Park, author of Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs In this essential episode we cover how to talk about sexual safety without stigma, the real risks and rewards we navigate as sexually active adults, and how we can all create a healthier, more joyful sexual culture for ourselves and future generations! Learn more about Dr. Ina Park on her website inapark.net, follow her on Instagram and treat yourself to a...

In this Best Of Pleasure Mechanics episode, we explore bringing the foundational attitudes of mindfulness into erotic exploration, getting kinky and expanding our sense of sexual self. One of our coaching clients told us that this episode was a game-changer for them, allowing them to approach bringing kink into a relationship after FIFTY years of vanilla marriage! Now, they are feeling vibrant, free and more deeply connected than ever. Tune In, Turn On & Level Up Your Erotic Life – we are here...

Join us to explore how to enjoy safer sexier oral play in this Pleasure Mechanics interview with CEO and founder of Lorals, Melanie Cristol. * Add Lorals to your Pleasure Toolbox for safer, sexier oral play! Use the code PLEASURE_MECHANICS for 10% off your order * DipseaStories : Explore an audio library of immersive erotic soundscapes, explicit stories and more. Use code PLEASURE for 30 day free trial Ready to uplevel your experience of oral? Join our Oral Mastery Course for an immersive, ex...