Episodes

Lori shares what she wishes she'd known about betrayal the first time the truth came out.

Here Jay gives several things he wishes he'd known about the addiction... and the recovery process.

"Aren't you over this yet?" "It's just porn!" "It's your job to forgive!" Some things told to betrayed who've been betrayed don't help. They only become new sources of pain; new ways...

Even when addictive behaviors stop, if other unhealthy behaviors continue then she is still 'living with ...

This is the first episode of Season 2 where we cover the basics of betrayal, but also have a few new...

Hi Everyone. Lori and I wanted to give you a preview of Season 2. You have the option of watching the video or listening to the podcast, which has better audio. https://youtu.be/UJKd8zgdmfk

This episode covers the seasons we go through, and genuine-peace. We also announce something new: we'll be breaking this podcast into different seasons to tackle different topics. (Subscribe on your favorite podcaster to be automatically notified when the next season starts.)

This episode is about the kinds of people groups and attitudes that can distract us, and who we tend to hang around.

This episode covers something couples can do to bond them more closely together.

This episode covers a technique that can help you avoid arguments... and where we've needed it in the past.

In this episode, Lori apologizes to Jay for something she did during their healing years.

This time we discuss handling those "Special" days in the relationship. Maybe you have a birthday or anniversary coming up and you're feeling some anxiety about it... listen in.

Some may wonder, "Why should I trust you?" Here's an audio account of our history with helping marriages.

This episode covers the part of our story we've told before numerous audiences. There's a few pieces of new information. Even still, if you've heard it too many times before, feel free to skip.

This episode was recorded late last year after 15 months of one loss after another. (On a lighter note, it also covers how we're not 'cooking the books.')

This episode discusses a new trend... one that we just don't understand.

This episode covers the signs that helped us know we were supposed to get married... and how your own story can help you.

This episode gives tips on how to make agreements so that

Here's a fun take on how details are treated in the relationship... and we also cover how this changes after betrayal.

Learn about an indicator of relationship healing, and how to get...

We've shared with various audiences how we nearly divorced, but here's the fun side of our history. (To Betrayed Ladies: This next episode of our podcast covers the fun side of our story. If you're not in a fun mood, then feel free to disregard. Otherwise, we hope you enjoy.)

We discuss the importance of inside jokes… and let you in on a few of our own.

Here's our new podcast for relationships. Ep.1 shares info about who we are and what you can expect. Many couples have worked with us to heal after betrayal, but this podcast will share the fun side of what we do for relationships in general. Enjoy.