Episodes

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Who is more righteous? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. A reader posed the following question: There are two people. The first person participates in the modern Sexual Marketplace by dating around, having a series of mid-to-long-term relationships that involve sex, and having a few hookups, but ends up in a stable marriage and has children by his mid-to-late twe...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here May and June 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Crossdressing Counseling not fixing her sex drive Should I keep fantasies to myself? Husband addicted to porn Wife has no sex drive FaceTime sex Spouse's facial and body hair Does Viagra work for women? How ...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here How do you know if you've had an orgasm? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. If the number of women who reach orgasm from penetrative sex is as low as the surveys that you mention say it is, how would a couple know if the woman is one of those that doesn't orgasm with penetration? For context, I have been married to my wife for 13 years and we have 5 children...I wo...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here April 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Is it okay to masturbate as a widow? Explaining romance and foreplay Is it unreasonable to expect both spouses to enjoy sex? Is my wife really having an orgasm? Is it wrong to want to be more adventurous? Wife got ups...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here March 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Husband who gets defensive about possible porn use Did I change my mind about anal sex? How to I tell my wife that more sex helps with temptation? Is mutual masturbation okay if you're separated due to work? Haven't be...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here February 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Fix the alcohol abuse before trying to fix your sex life Wife who has hourly mood swings and is disrespectful Wife who engages in sex, but isn't sexual Oxytocin and porn and masturbation Wife wants husband to get a ...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here My Vasectomy Experience. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Last month someone emailed me telling me just how amazing they were doing after going through our Sexploration List. I posted some of their testimonial on social media (with permission). You may have seen it. During their email, they also asked some questions, which I wanted to pick up here. Here’s the co...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here January 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Low Drive / Low T Husband Wife won't talk about sex Not attracted to my husband Wife against spicing up sex Is there a difference between having sex and making love? Last month, our most popular resource was Our Sex...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Sex with a well endowed husband. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today we’re going to answer a question about having sex with a well-endowed husband. This question came in a while ago, and since I hadn’t answered it before and I felt there was a lot of information to share, I thought I’d split it off into its own post. So, let’s talk about the struggles of havin...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Wet dreams, whether sexual dreams are sinful, a widow’s desires, and is oral sex a sin. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today we’re finishing up the questions we received from 2021 from our anonymous Have A Question page. There were quite a few and our family has been sick, so it’s taken me a bit to get through them all. But, I finally did it and we’re on the me...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here November 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wife becoming less adventurous How long before porn memories fade? What counts as premature ejaculation? Is getting a vasectomy a sin? Husband isn't acting like a believer Is it okay to talk about sex? Are we goin...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here What is feeling naughty? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Here's the question I'm answering: Hi Jay, Just a general question, what is the feeling of "feeling naughty"? And I guess there are other questions attached, is it sin? Are we describing something that’s simply "different" as "naughty" as maybe we don’t have another reference point in our vocabulary? The...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here October 2021 Questions - Consensual adultery, caught masturbating, handjobs with condoms and more. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Here we are for another monthly roundup of our anonymous questions from our Have A Question page, these ones are coming from October 2021. Hopefully, I’ll get this out before November ends. Before we get to the 7 questions we have t...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here The Limon by Minna - Product Review. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Get $50 off the Limon by by clicking here and using the coupon code UIBLACKFRIDAY. This month our most popular resource is Our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a fun way to inject some intimacy into the holiday season. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned du...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Is premature orgasm a thing for women? How do you last longer? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: Hi Jay, I have a question for you / your podcast. So my husband and I have been married for about 8 months now. It seems like every time he gives me oral sex, I end up orgasming within just a few minutes. Now, as great as orgasmi...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here September 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wanting your wife to have sex with other men How to handle a spouse who doesn't want to have sex What is healthy sexuality for single people? Does God intend for you to be a virgin if you don't get married? Dealing...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here August 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Snoopy wife caught husband Is orgasming the same as cumming? Is OMGYes okay? Ejaculate colour and consistency Encouraging senior sex Wife won’t “finish” oral sex Wife searched for porn Birth control for Christians ...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here July 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How do I hide my BDSM toys when I live at home with my parents? Does God value boys more than girls based on Leviticus 12:2-5? How do you handle the hormones from PCOS when you have a low-drive husband? Is it okay to fan...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here June 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How to improve a boring sex life Why only ED during sex? Meds for Premature Ejaculation Risky public sex Should I talk to my doctor if I have ED? Fantasizing about premarital sex Turned on by my wife urinating Wife w...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here May 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How we look at sex Why we have refractory periods Whether or not it’s common for a husband to have to ask his wife if she had an orgasm A husband who is secretly purchasing toys A widow who wants to know what happened to...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here April 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Friends touching me inappropriately Postpartum recovery from the husband’s perspective Husband is anxious about sex Not attracted to my husband anymore Husband doesn’t like oral sex How to get over husband’s porn use ...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: My wife and I have a very active sex life. We enjoy a nice variety of activities and positions. Our frequency is definitely on the higher side, so I really have no complaints. We have used porn, either separately or together,...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here March 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Is any part of porn ok? Is it unreasonable to expect sex after oral? Are humans meant to be non-monogamous? Is it okay to teach kids to masturbate safely? Wife doesn't enjoy sex but says she wants to be promiscuous Th...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Are sexual fantasies okay for Christians? Does it matter what the fantasy is? If it's only in your mind, does that make it okay? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: My wife and I have had a reasonably active sex life for most of our relationship. There have been ups and downs of course, but for the most part, we really have no...