Episodes

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Responsive desire is a blessing. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, I'm talking about how responsive desire can actually be a blessing to both the one with responsive desire and the person who's spouse has it. Links I mentioned are: September Kegel / Squat Challenge Responsive vs. spontaneous desire Do you control your emotions or do they control...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we're tackling the subjects: How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high? How to squirt Wife is into whipping Anal sex tips Single and curious about erections Low drive wife is secretly masturbating every night Husband has ...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Is doggy style demeaning, sex with an unsaved spouse, orgasming too quickly, and is sexlessness unfaithful. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. I realized a week or two ago that I completely forgot to post the responses to the question for February and March. I think this was due to a mix of January having so many I had to split it into three posts, and then my serm...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Lasting longer, a spouse’s sexual past, light bondage, a bland sex life, and wanting to stop trying. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today we’re going to be answering a bunch of reader’s questions from last month from our anonymous Have A Question page. I’ve been doing my best to keep up with my promise of doing a podcast every month our supporters managed to hi...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here This is a sermon I wrote and preached in my home church on Matthew 19:1-11 - Jesus responding to the Pharisees asking about divorce. Check out the video here: https://youtu.be/XZCdnDSKO4U Get the show notes / text of the sermon here: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm042-god-will-never-leave-you/

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here It happened again. I was answering questions from February and March from our Have A Question page, and the answer to this one turned into it's own blog post and podcast episode. Check out the blog post here. If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Some of the links mentioned in the podcast: Do you control your emotions or do they con...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here What happens to our souls when we have sex?. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Is there an interaction of souls when we have sex? Is sex an act of worship to God, or Satan? Should we pray during sex? These are all things that came up from a single question from our Have A Question page recently. Rather than lump it with all the other questions, I thought I’d spen...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Sex drive in pregnancy, birth control and SSRIs, sex when overweight, sex in heaven, and tantric sex. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. This is the third and final part of our January anonymous questions from our Have A Question page. I meant to get this out sooner, but I was asked to preach in my home church last week, and it takes me a couple of weeks to prepare...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Anal sex, prostate massage, female ejaculation, kegels and vaginal orgasms, and multi-orgasmic men. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Alright, this is part 2 of our anonymous questions from January 2019. For those who are new to the podcast, we have a page titled Have A Question. We received so many questions in January that I had to split the answers up into mult...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here DIY arousal lube, masturbating to get ready for sex, sex routines, and sex furniture. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Well, here we are, another month nearly gone, and another pile of questions from our anonymous Have A Question page begging for answers. In fact, I got so many in January, it took me nearly all month to write answers for them, and it’s going to t...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Looking for a fun and sexy gift for Valentine's Day? Check out our new printable: Sexy Memory - Foreplay Game On sale now until Valentine's Day. Download it today and have it printed and ready tonight. 60 different activities to choose from so you can play at your comfort level. Been getting a ton of great feedback from both husbands and wives. Some like that it forces them to slow dow...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here This podcast episode, I'm catching up on some listener's questions that I got back in 2018. You can find the complete questions and answers at https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/anonymous-questions-from-december-2018/ Topics include: ED due to medical problems Husband in erotic chatrooms Sex toys caused sexual awakening List of books for continued learning Double standard on the blo...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here This is just a quick podcast episode to let my listeners know about our Intimacy Advent Calendar currently for sale in our shop. You remember having advent calendars as a kid? Every day you get a chocolate, or a toy or something. For nearly a whole month, every day there was something exciting to look forward to the next day. Holidays don’t exactly feel that way for us adults anymore d...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here This episode is the audio of a sermon I preached in my home church while the pastors were away. The title was “Sex: an uncomfortable topic we need to discuss”, and a few people were upset when they arrived and saw it in the bulletin, particularly since there was no children’s ministry that week. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. I opened by admitting I was uncomfo...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here A husband wrote in: he would love to go down on his wife, but she believes she is dirty down there. She admits it feels good and still does not want it. He has respected that, and asked whether there is anything that might shed some light on it. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The belief is moral before it is medical. Christian culture absorbed the idea that the...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here I have a lot of wives coming to me asking how to get their husband to be more assertive in bed. The problem is, our society and culture have taught men to be more submissive, and take a back seat with regard to sex. We're either explicitly or implicitly taught that we should let the woman lead in the physical relationship. The problem is that many married women don't want that. They wan...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Credentials, sex and sickness, falling out of love, self control and how to start leading. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today I'm answering some more questions from our Have A Question page that have come in over the last month or so. This episode I talk about my credentials, dealing with sex drive and long-term illness, falling out of love, self-control and ...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers and work during sex. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Episode 29 of the podcast. Here are the questions I'm answering today: 194 - My question is about lust. Here's my problem. I absolutely adore my wife and I think she has a ton of sex appeal. Problem is a lot of men do also. I know this because I hear it regularly from...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Answering questions about oral sex before marriage, joint bank accounts, toys, dirty talking and grooming. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. I'm changing up the format of the podcast a bit this week and answering some reader questions. If you like the podcast, please don't forget to leave us a review on iTunes, or at least a rating. That's how we spread the word ...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Last Minute Father's Day Gift Ideas. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Father's Day is this Sunday, and I thought we'd share some last-minute Father's Day gifts for those wives who listen to the podcast. We've got some free options, some not-so-free options and some options that are a bit of an investment, but all of them you can manage to pull off even the day be...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Preparing for Mother's Day. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Mother's Day is coming up this Sunday, so thought I'd talk briefly about why father's should celebrate Mother's Day in honour of their wives. And today, my wife, Christina, has made the time to join me on this episode. Sort of to make up for the ones I missed recently. So, here we go. Mother's Day is t...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Men often experience sex as a reward, even when nobody intended it as one. The flip side is that when sex does not happen it can land as a punishment, or as having failed at something. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. I think there are three reasons. The first is hormonal: dopamine is the reward chemical, and sex delivers it in quantity. The second is cultural, b...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here The Bible uses marriage as a metaphor for God's relationship with us many times. I think there's a good reason for it. In this podcast episode, I discuss my belief that all the do's and don'ts, both in marriage, and in the Bible, point to one thing: the relationship. Not that the rules are unimportant, or are not valuable, but that the underlying relationship is far more so. In fact, if ...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here A couple of years ago I got a message from a reader who was beside herself with unfounded fears that her husband was no longer attracted to her. She hadn't asked him. She had no indication that he wasn't, but she had this deep seated fear that he wasn't. So, I ran a survey, asking spouses about their attraction to their husband or wife. And today I thought I'd share some of results with...