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WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Are sexual fantasies okay for Christians? Does it matter what the fantasy is? If it's only in your mind, does that make it okay? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: My wife and I have had a reasonably active sex life for most of our relationship. There have been ups and downs of course, but for the most part, we really have no...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here February 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Semi-public sex Squirting Low drive wife Fell asleep during sex Wife doesn't like physical contact What is pornographic Poophole loophole This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fir...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Is it okay to remarry after divorce? Check out the show notes here for more details and all the verses. What does Matthew 5:32 mean when it says: But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery. - Matthew 5:32 NKJV Is it as clear-cut as it seems? I don't th...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Jan 2020 Questions - Nudists, exhibitionism, male lingerie, pet play, ANR and more. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today we’re going to be answering some questions about nudism, exhibitionism, male lingerie, pet play, Romans 13:14, ANR, and a few more things from our anonymous Have A Question page. A special thanks to all our supporters who share their thoughts...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here SWM 067 - Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, I thought I'd take the opportunity to some of the various neuro-chemicals involved in new relationships, why we don't feel the same after we've been married for a while, all while answering a reader's question about why he doesn't feel attracted to his wife...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here December 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Legs shaking during oral sex Wife changed after separation Feeling drained after oral sex Birth control Cock worship Go see a doctor if you are worried about your health This month our most popular resource is our...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Nov 2020 Questions - High sex drives, losing erections, being too loud, vaginismus and more. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today we have another installment of our questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. We’re going to talk about managing a high sex drive, losing erections while changing positions, being too loud during sex, a husband who thinks his...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Oct 2020 Questions - Body odour, remarriage, doggy style sex and more. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. We’re a little late this time. Last month I had devoted a large portion of my time to writing my sermon and so didn’t get around to posting the answers to the questions received from our anonymous Have A Question page during October. So, today I’m posting them,...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here I’m preaching this weekend in my home church, and so, I thought I’d share my sermon, both because I feel bad that I haven’t been working as much on getting podcast episodes out because of it, and because I thought it might be a good way to practice it, do some final editing and figure out how long it would be. So, the audio is a recording of me reading through it, and if you prefer text,...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Black Friday Deals for your Marriage - Save up to 50%. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Well, Black Friday is upon us again and that means Christmas shopping for a lot of people. 2020 has been a very strange year, hasn't it? But, we're in the home stretch now, 2021 is coming up fast. In the meantime, here's a quick rundown of the deals out there that I'm aware of...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here September 2020 Questions - High Drive Wives, Being Too Wet, Polyamory and more. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. October has nearly come and gone, so it’s time to get September’s questions answered and published so we can make room for October’s. Before we get to that though, take a minute and check out our latest survey if you haven’t filled it out yet. We’re h...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Aug 2020 Questions - Negative Self-Talk, Affairs, Manual Sex Troubles and more. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today we’re answering questions we received in August from our anonymous Have A Question page. For those who are new to our podcast or blog, these are questions that people have submitted anonymously, so I can’t ask any follow up questions, for more co...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Orgasm without ejaculation, gagging during oral sex, hiding ED medication, and prostate stimulation. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today we’re answering questions from our Have A Question page that we received in June and July. We have questions about a wife falling asleep during sex, a bunch of questions about penis size insecurities, why blowjobs can make yo...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here May 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we're tackling the subjects: Husband is in jail Husband masturbates all the time Husband won't quit porn Should Christians avoid Tantric Sex? Premature Ejaculation Bondage Resources Jock Itch Wife is not interested in sex Husband not interested i...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Responsive desire and initiating, sex after an affair, rougher sex, and touching yourself during intercourse. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. For those who have been around Uncovering Intimacy for a while, you know that we get a fair number of anonymous questions to our Have A Question page. These are questions that have come in without much context usually, and...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here How do you feel connected during sex? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we're tackling the question of how you can feel more connected during sex. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Why I, as a Christian, believe we don't have a soul Spice Jar Our Sexploration List Marriage Coaching Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here When his penis keeps slipping out, alcohol and sex, and a wife who never dresses up for you. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Well, here we are with another installment of our anonymous questions from our Have A Question page. Thanks to all our supporters who weighed in on these questions in our private forum. If you’d like to see the questions as they come in an...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Anal sex without lube, “team sex”, a husband who cannot be emotionally intimate, and body piercings. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. If you’re new here, I try to monthly answer questions from our anonymous Have A Question page As I have no way to contact these people, there’s no context other than what they give, and I can’t ask any follow up questions. So, we d...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here December 2019 and January 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we're tackling the subjects: Gang bang fantasies How to make sex not feel like an obligation How to get past setbacks during foreplay How to deal with a wife who needs to feel "dirty" to orgasm A warning about the book "Boundari...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Are Dominance and submission games in the bedroom okay? This is a question from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we're tackling the question of whether or not dominance and submission play is humiliating, if it's okay to call your husband "sir" in the bedroom, what about "daddy", and what if the wife is the dom...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Anonymous Questions - October & November 2019 - Types of orgasms, sleeping during sex & more. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today we're answering questions about marriage and sex from our anonymous Have A Question page on our website. We’re answering questions we received back in October and November of 2019. Everything from orgasms to masturbation to crossdre...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Anonymous Questions from September 2019 - Deployed Spouses, Passive Sex Partners, Sleep Apnea and How to Boost Attraction for your Spouse. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. As always, I’m about a month behind, so today we’re handling questions from our anonymous Have A Question page that came in during September. So, without further ado, here are the questions: ...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Focus on your spouse, not the model. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, I'm talking about spontaneous and responsive desire are just a model to help educator and guide. But eventually you have to drop the model and focus on how your spouse is unique. Listen to these two podcast episodes first: Responsive desire is a blessing Spontaneous desire is...

WIVES - DON'T MISS OUT - Founding spots in the wives group close November 8, 2026. For more info, click here Anonymous Questions from July & August 2019 - Squirting, Anal sex tips & Unreciprocated oral sex. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Well, summer is gone and done and we’re going to try and get back into the swing of things here. I’m going to do my best to answer these each and every month rather than batching two months together as I’ve been doing. It’s just takin...